Girls who wear Taobao and squeeze into the subway are not worthy of carrying LV?

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When I was in college, one night after military training, my college roommate said: "I really don't understand girls nowadays, squeezing into the subway with a Louis Vuitton on their back is a shame. What kind of mentality do people with LV carry have to squeeze into the subway? ”

I thought it was right at the time, shouldn’t people who wear brand-name bags drive luxury cars? Why are you squeezing the subway?

For a while, I worked part-time at a well-known coffee shop outside of school. After work, a group of people wanted to get together, so they swarmed into the dessert shop. There was a young lady who As a formal worker, I watched her proudly change out of her work clothes, take out a low-key but shiny bag from the dark locker, and hold it in front of her with pity.

She gets a salary of more than 3,000 yuan but buys bags worth tens of thousands yuan. She is at that age when she is in school and worried about work. I can't understand it.

After I entered the workplace and worked hard, I gradually realized that carrying a big-name bag has nothing to do with squeezing in the subway.

Some people simply like the look of that bag.

Some people take the subway because they are stuck in traffic jams at work.

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Happiness Feelings are bought with money.

I have always scorned this sentence before. I simply believed that as long as I could have peace of mind and know how to be content, I would be able to obtain spiritual satisfaction and happiness.

Now I slowly feel like, shit! Without money, there is no happiness!

Those beautiful clothes that look in the windows are really luxurious; those so brilliant and disturbing jewelry are really itchy; even those that have traveled across the ocean The cakes and desserts are so sweet that they swell in the air.

It all smells like money that makes your blood flowing and makes you excited.

It’s nice to have money.

There are a thousand different Shanghais in the eyes of a thousand people, but there must be one adjective that is the same among them: expensive.

With high housing prices and high commodity prices, everything must be bought with money. From filling your stomach to entertainment consumption, only money can give you a sense of security and happiness.

Everyone here does not shy away from talking about money and material desires, and how to deal with the relationship with money and material desires is a key issue in this big city of Shanghai. Cities are eternal propositions that need to be considered in life.

The best brand that a person came into contact with before the age of 18 was Metersbonwe. This is the first time he knows a brand. Its cheapest bag costs four or more. When you are five thousand, you will feel curious and want to own it. This is a normal reaction.

Desire comes from the heart and is a part of ourselves.

And cities like Shanghai are simply catalysts for desire. We cannot turn a blind eye to it. All we can do is learn and think about how to face desire, control it, and use it. .

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Perhaps it is my prejudice against luxury goods that makes me feel that buying luxury goods is like pursuing the glitz and bubbles of life. Hypocritical, unrealistic, and even think that those girls who try their best to save money but still want to buy a good bag are either too stupid or too stupid.

But suddenly one day I realized that I was wrong. They were neither stupid nor foolish, it was just my lack of understanding.

I always thought that many people in the world are like me. They don’t have much money, but they save money in order to spend a lot of money one day. But in fact, the world is very big, and rich people buy Luxury goods are nothing more than going to the market to pick out side dishes. For them, luxury goods are just necessities of life, nothing special.

Those young girls who work hard to make themselves beautiful have no original capital and no accumulation of wealth. No one will know what hardships they have endured and how many roads they have traveled. . It's just because I'm unwilling to give up, I want to have more, and I want to live a life on my own where buying luxury goods is commonplace.

Keep working hard.

At that time, I began to understand the meaning of a luxury product, a bag, a pair of shoes, even a lipstick to a woman: "It's no longer just simple possession, but more of hope for the future."

Someone asked on Zhihu: People who squeeze into the bus with LV, What's your mentality?

One of the answers: You take LV too seriously.

When I see others buying LV, I really want to buy one.

But so what if you buy it, it’s just a bag. Just because you bought a limited-edition bag doesn’t mean you’re living a high-end version of life. You’re still the same person, living a normal life.

Later I gradually understood that luxury goods could not bring any actual added value to my life, but I was obsessed with owning them because in the process of trying to get them , I have really paid.

And those efforts are the most valuable part.

Those perfume and lipstick bags are more like a staged achievement display. Looking back, the wonderful thing is the feeling of eager expectation and the lack of distractions that have not yet been obtained. Time to fight.

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I once saw an article in which the author explained a truth to some women who do not use branded bags: We It’s not that we can’t afford that bag, it’s that we can’t afford a complete set of items of equal value to that bag, and we don’t want to embarrass ourselves and force ourselves into a class that doesn’t belong to us.

It sounds like a bowl of refreshing soup for this money-worshiping society, but this is more like another kind of poisonous chicken soup, wearing pull-back shoes and Taobao hot-selling clothes Are girls not worthy of carrying LV bags?

First of all, I am not convinced!

I have never bought a brand-name bag, so I would say that a girl who buys a brand-name bag and squeezes into the subway is superficial. I think this is the real superficiality.

Whether you are carrying a designer bag or a canvas bag, just be happy while carrying it.

What’s wrong with wearing a ponytail, wearing a pair of white shoes, going out without makeup and carrying a designer bag?

You can go to the vegetable market or go to an art exhibition or a photography exhibition. It is really stupid to be kidnapped by a bag and limit yourself to the kind of life you must live.

I hope that girls can use the money they earn to buy the bags they like. No one else cares whether they carry it on the subway or to go to a nightclub. Just be happy. .

After all, I like this kind of superficial happiness!

Carrying a LV bag, I still squeeze into the subway to earn a living.

But at least it makes people feel at ease, because I am working hard for a better self.