Leisurely elegant prose

During the Spring Festival, many of my friends were lucky enough to go on vacation in other places. Looking at the many photos of scenery or customs posted on WeChat groups and social media, I felt particularly envious. I am also that restless. People who are romantic at heart pursue a kind of elegance and elegance in words. I hope that I can also light a bonfire on a beach thousands of miles away, watch the bright moon on the sea, and experience the artistic conception of the end of the world at this time. I also hope that I can appreciate the delicate fragrance when the flowers are blooming in early spring deep in the mountains. It’s just that my Spring Festival schedule is very tight and tiring. Just like the career I earn a living from now, I don’t like it or even resent it, but I really don’t have the courage to give it up. Open all this.

It’s not because I can’t survive, nor because I feel that this career can bring me much hope. It’s just a kind of inertia. I remember that I learned in physics class that the acceleration of gravity after landing is 9.8. When you have been running for a long time, Distance, once you decide to do something, it is difficult to make it change. A destructive force or even destruction may occur, so we have adapted to this rhythm. It has been 45 Spring Festivals and there will be no next year. If there is a big change, I still have to worship the stove, pay New Year greetings, and worship ancestors in my hometown. I still have to clock in and out of work step by step. I hardly expect changes. Naturally, I am afraid of accidents. There is too much inertia in the cycle of life. Obviously I know that the outside world is wonderful, but I am also afraid that the outside world is helpless. Laziness is a human nature.

This year’s spring feels a little moist and silent. When I walked around the county’s North Lake yesterday morning, there was not much chill in the blue water. The willow branches looked pale yellow from a distance, but when I looked carefully, I saw that the thin buds had already opened. I opened my eyes and took in a breath filled with the breath of early spring. There was a flute playing on the lake, intermittently. It was not a child practicing. Suddenly I felt a kind of tranquility in life. I closed my eyes and felt sad. For a moment, I seem to be back in high school where I recited lessons by the lake more than 20 years ago. Dressed in thin clothes and thin pants, with a longing for the future, there is almost nothing except youth and youth, and the ambition to escape from the status quo.

But now, there is no doubt that we have enough food and clothing, but do those feelings of youth still exist? Think about some of your leisurely and elegant thoughts. In fact, many of them are the suppressed truth in your heart. We are fighting in society and are used to seeing the sophistication of the world. We have all been put on a coat by ourselves. We are all actors, and we all have our own characteristics. All kinds of disguises, after a long time, even I was confused by my own acting. I just regarded some primitive things as jokes. Maybe it is in these inadvertent ways that I can discover the truth that has never passed away.

The kind of courage to move forward, but the reluctance to never forgive myself. When I was young, I shouted loudly that my talents will be useful, but I only shouted a few times: The young man listens to Yuge upstairs, and the red candles dim the tents. A young man in his prime listens to the rain in a boat. The river is wide and the clouds are low. The wild geese cry out in the west wind. Now I'm afraid I can only remind myself all the time, don't let go, otherwise you will get really old.

Sometimes it may not be a good thing to think about leisure and elegance. Doing nothing at the same time puts yourself on the back of psychological baggage, which is like superfluous. But people always have to leave a piece of truth for themselves, at least to remind us that we are still alive. !

When you lose everything, you know the only thing you want.

Many times, we always want good things from others. At first, I couldn’t be more grateful. But after a long time, I got used to it. When you get used to someone being nice to you, you take it for granted. One day someone doesn't treat you well, and you feel resentful. In fact, it’s not that others are bad, but that our demands have increased. When you get used to getting, you forget to be grateful.

The more stories people have, the calmer and simpler they are, while the more superficial and frail people are, the more restless. The real strong person is not a person without tears, but a person who still runs with tears in his eyes. Be patient, be strong, and even if you can't see hope, still believe in yourself. The first thing that causes us to age is not our appearance, but our desperate energy. Sometimes, you have to dare to carry burdens beyond your expectations. After you really work hard, you will find that you are much better than you imagined.

Life cannot be perfect, there will be shadows under the sun, it depends on how you look at life. Life is just like this. Either you control your own life, or you are not led by life. How you go is up to you.

Not all memories are good, and not all people are worth remembering. The river of time is too long, and most people and things will be ruthlessly washed away.

If you have endless work, stop and relax; if you don’t make enough money, take a look at the things outside of you; if you are uncomfortable with the secular world, just be quiet and let nature take its course; if you are endlessly sulky , talk about it, and the mood will be broad; the endless entertainment, just say a word, is good for health; the endless filial piety, go for a walk, go home to see; the unfinished favors, weigh them, and act according to your ability; There is an endless journey ahead, take it easy and walk through life!

The most ruthless thing is not people, but time; the most precious thing is not money, but emotion; the most powerful thing is not the boss, but nature; the most terrifying thing is not disasters, but the helplessness after disasters; the best thing is not professionalism , just watching; the most terrifying thing is not lovelorn, but mental and physical insufficiency; the most comfortable thing is not a hotel, but your own home.

If you don’t chase what you want, you will never have it. Give time, let the past pass and the beginning begin.

Life is short, only a few decades. Living is a blessing, and health is a blessing. Since we are alive, choosing happiness is a day, choosing pain is also a day, then why not choose to be happy and live our lives in an ordinary way? What about this life? Maybe there are some things in life that are more than satisfying, but what else is important if you are not alive? What's more important than health?

If you are still single, enjoy this. You are single not because you are not good enough, but because no one is worthy of you yet.

The saddest thing for people is not that they lost too much yesterday, but that they are immersed in yesterday's sorrow. The most stupid thing about people is not not discovering the trap in front of them, but falling into it the second time. The loneliest thing about a person is not that the person you want to wait for has not yet come, but that this person has already walked out of your heart. The most boring thing about a person is not dialing a random phone number, but keeping talking when someone else dials the wrong number.

Everyone has his or her own nature, a lifestyle that suits them, and everyone has their own value for existence. Don’t belittle yourself and ignore other people’s doubts, because there is only one you in the world.

The so-called maturity does not mean that the heart grows old, but that we can still keep smiling even though tears are rolling in our eyes; there will always be a time when we shed tears and we grow up instantly.

Many things in life are hard to come by. Those who are deliberately forced cannot get it, and those who are not expected often come unexpectedly. Therefore, you must have a free and easy mind, let everything take its course, do not be resentful, do not be impatient, do not overdo it, do not force things, do not take pleasure in things, and do not feel sorry for oneself. Resigning yourself to fate is not about resigning yourself to fate, but facing life with an open-minded attitude.

At every stage of life, cherish every moment with the one you love.

The only thing in the world that can get something for nothing is poverty, and the only thing that can make something out of nothing is dreams. Nothing can be achieved without taking action. Although the world is cruel, as long as you are willing to go, there will always be a way; you cannot see the beauty because you have not persisted in walking. There is no need to regret moving forward. If it is good, it is called wonderful; if it is bad, it is called experience.

The sun will not stop rising tomorrow because of your frustration; the moon will not stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Covering your own eyes does not mean that the world is dark; covering other people's eyes does not mean that the light belongs to you!

In life, you always need to have multiple eyes to protect yourself. It does not mean that the higher the scheming, the higher the city, the deeper the city, but the happiness of staying strong despite the waves.

What faith can give a person is inner peace and dependence, rather than "negotiating conditions and exchanging favors" with gods - if I believe in you, I can get rich; if I believe in you, I Then we can have a harmonious family; if I believe in you, all my dreams will come true from now on. When faith is reduced to an exchange of interests, it loses its meaning.

The words we have said, the things we have done, the roads we have traveled, the people we have met, every moment now are our memories in the future.

People need to have such a person in their life: even if they are thousands of miles apart and have not contacted each other for several years, they are still relaxed and natural and have endless topics to talk about when they meet; or, sitting next to each other, each is busy with his or her own business. In front of this person, you can lower your eyebrows and lament, you can be arrogant, you don't have to be promising, you don't have to have an image, you can have flaws all over, this person is your confidant.

There is no path to despair in life, only a desperate heart. The other side of despair is hope, and the end of crisis is opportunity.

Some things are destined to have no fate with you. No matter how hard you force them, they will eventually leave you. Some people can only be passers-by in your life. No matter how much you miss them, all your expectations will eventually come to nothing. If it doesn't belong to you, then give up. The world is vast and vast. What we can have is limited after all. Don't let endless desires bury the original joy and happiness. If you try to catch everything, you will end up catching nothing.

Only when the soul has a home can life have a path. Only when you learn to be alone with yourself can your soul be cleansed, your mind mature, and your mind broad.

When a person feels contented, his mind is not upset, his body is not tired, he has nothing to ask for, and his mind is at peace, happiness is there. When a person feels that he can eat, play, sleep well, has no worries, and is satisfied, happiness is there. Giving up what should be given up is helplessness, giving up what should not be given up is incompetence; not giving up what should be given up is ignorance, and not giving up what should not be given up is persistence.