The world is both big and small.

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The world is both big and small.

I have always wanted to write this article, but I don’t know how to start. It wasn't until today when I was sitting alone on the train that I felt something. Yes, it was the same as last time, on a noisy and crowded train.

I often talk about where I want to go and plan where to go, but I always give up because of the football game.

This time, by chance, I resolutely chose to go.

We often say: "The world is so big, I want to see it."

At this time, there is usually a follow-up sentence: "The wallet is so small, I can't go anywhere."

How big is this one? The country covers an area of ??9.6 million square kilometers and has a population of billions. It is very large, with vast territory and abundant resources...

It is also very small, as small as a city as large as Nuovo. There are only a few people in the circle. There is a saying that if one person has three friends with another person, the friends around them will actually know each other...

This is true.

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The last time I went home, I met a friend who plays basketball on the train and is studying in the city where my hometown is. I heard that the basketball players added each other on WeChat. Later I learned that he was coming to Nanchang to participate in the Jiangxi Provincial Finals on behalf of our hometown city. And coincidentally, our team also entered the finals of Jiangxi Province with sixth place. Last time we got off the bus, we joked that we would play ball together when we had time. Unexpectedly, two people who were originally unrelated to us would intersect in this world so quickly.

Life is really wonderful. It often gives you some small surprises, making you unprepared and a little happy.

At that time, I thought, why is the world so small? What a fate, how many coincidences to have such an acquaintance.

Just today, I was chatting with a friend. She said that there was a classmate in her class who was similar to me. **Same topic. I said she could recommend her to me, but later I found out that we had been friends on QQ for a long time. She was still a member of our photography association, but we lost contact because the association was closed down. Most importantly, I still I know she is my fellow countryman. At that time, I suddenly felt that it was interesting. This school is really small, so small that there are only a few people in the circle.

So I love basketball and I love life.

Get to know and experience it with full joy, and you will find that every moment will be interesting.

I was on the train just now. There was a pair of best friends next to me. One of them probably had a standing ticket. They said they wanted to squeeze in. Of course I didn’t refuse. As soon as I sat down, one of the girls started taking out a piece of paper to write. Report, I thought to myself, she must be a top student if she studies so seriously.

Perhaps for people like her, learning is also a very happy thing, which I cannot do and feel ashamed.

To be honest, this is the first time I have seen such a hard-working person in real life, and I really admire them.

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Recently, I have been fascinated by folk songs such as "Already Two Roads", "Going South" and "Lend Me". This music is my daily routine before going to bed, and now I have developed a habit of listening to it. A habit that makes me unable to fall asleep if I don’t listen to the radio or music every night. It is easy to have nightmares while asleep and wake up in the middle of the night. Unless you are very tired, the quality of your sleep will not be very high.

So I particularly like the feeling of feeling tired and tired when I wake up the next day, which makes life more meaningful.

Maybe it’s because I have a lot of things accumulated in my heart and I don’t have a place to express them, so I prefer to express some of my emotions with words and sounds. After all, I also feel very stressed and know that I have to express myself. If you don't succeed, you will suffer. People like to worry only when things are urgent and urgent. I don't want to be this kind of person, so I have to have a sense of crisis and prepare for a rainy day.

In fact, sometimes I am very happy to have some friends like this around me, who make me feel even more precious.

There is a kind of friend who is willing to help you even though you have no morals and abilities, but you have nothing to offer in return and he wants nothing in return. This is camaraderie.

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I was talking to XM about relationships a few days ago. Actually, I don’t want to believe in feelings. I prefer to believe that relationships can be cultivated.

I often joke with my friends that if a man is looking for a woman only based on looks, this is called aesthetics; if a woman is looking for a man only based on looks, this is called lust.

Hahaha

But later, I asked ten of my friends, and nine of them told me that feeling is the most important. I asked back: "If a girl doesn't have feelings for you, then this boy can't be her boyfriend no matter what he does?"

Seven more people said yes.

Later I thought about it for a long time, maybe this is the argument that men are rational and women are emotional.

After all, I didn’t even have the words to refute it to tell them. I was shocked by the fact that this was the case.

But I am a person who believes that everything depends on man-made efforts.

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Suddenly I stopped. I stopped for a long time. I didn’t know what I wanted to express. Twelve hours is neither short nor long.

But sitting there in silence is really uncomfortable. I just want to eat something to calm down the shock...

An old saying goes: "It is better to travel thousands of miles than to read thousands of books." The premise is that you have to read thousands of books. Books, otherwise no matter how many miles you travel, you will still be just a postman. ”

Each of us is a container with a certain size, depth and width. How much we can accommodate, how much we can accept, how deeply we can love, and how many storms and setbacks we can withstand all depend on the quality of the container.

Some people would rather have broken jade than complete tiles;

Some people can go up the mountain of swords like a moth to the fire;

Some people can live in peace and contentment. There are poems and distant places;

We were all idealists at the beginning, but later we all saw more and did more, and found that the world cannot keep running on the streets like children. People on the streets When we walk in a hurry, we are wandering around.

We have more and more issues to consider. Things that seemed far away in the past suddenly appeared before us in the blink of an eye.

So, someone. Things have changed.

In the past, I felt that building a tall building would be built from the ground, and I would be full of ambition. Now, if you want to build a tall building, you must have a foundation, and you may have to reclaim the sea and build land. It has nothing to do with me. Being good to yourself is really good.

As an idealist, bowing to reality is not a matter of one thing, but a matter of time and night.

My nature and authenticity. I don’t know how long I can keep it, at least now I am still a very simple and quiet idealist

I often tell my friends, keep it, this is a good character, a good nature, don’t change it.

I hope I will change later, because everyone has the right to choose life, and I hope you will not become a person who lives in a trap.

Ps: This article has no logic, some real thoughts, some words from the heart, poisonous chicken soup also has nutrients, if you can find yourself here, I will also smile knowingly.