How do middle-aged people stick to love?

Love is always full of joy and sadness. When people reach middle age, they will look down on many things, and at the same time they will be full of calculations or calculations. Even falling in love or marrying someone will calculate the cost, and will calculate the pros and cons of a relationship in your mind.

As photographer Masao Yamamoto said, "I am alive and feel all the details and trivialities every day, and try to put them in the position of appreciation."

When people reach middle age, they will suffer from loss and gain. When they really love you, they will be particularly afraid of losing you. Once people stop loving in middle age, they will also show a very cold and decisive side.

When people reach middle age, if they are not married and have children, they may suffer all kinds of cold eyes and criticisms.

If middle-aged people want to stick to the bottom line of love, or want to pursue an unswerving love, they need to sacrifice a lot of things and may have to pay a certain price.

Generally speaking, the love of middle-aged people is hidden in these details.

1, no matter how fierce the quarrel is, it will soon be reconciled.

Middle-aged people often don't like quarreling very much. Middle-aged people will exercise necessary restraint in the face of love. In other words, middle-aged people tend to look at problems objectively and comprehensively, and they will have a sense of the overall situation and will not be short-sighted.

When middle-aged people really fall in love with you, they will be particularly tolerant and patient with you, and will not easily make a fuss with you because of some trivial things.

Lev tolstoy said: "If you live with another person, you should reach an agreement with him. Once one of you starts to accuse the other, you should stop quarreling immediately."

Even if you quarrel occasionally, he will make concessions and compromises quickly, and will not let the quarrel between you be endless.

No matter how fierce your quarrel is, he will make up with you soon, and he won't let last night's quarrel. The love of middle-aged people tends to be more rational and restrained, and they will love more deeply and enthusiastically. 2. Stand the test of plain time.

The love of middle-aged people can often stand the test of plain time. When people reach middle age, people around them come and go, go and return, and they will experience many human feelings and be indifferent to each other.

The love of middle-aged people may not be romantic enough, but it must be sincere enough. As time goes on, the love of middle-aged people will send out more charming fragrance.

The love of middle-aged people is sometimes like a glass of wine. Time flies will not only make the love of middle-aged people fade, but will make your love more rich and mellow.

When people reach middle age, they will know how to cherish the people around them more. Especially when a person has experienced a lot of failed relationships, once he meets the right partner, he will cherish it more.

When people reach middle age, they often don't easily make vows of eternal love to their partners, but as long as they make promises to you, they will honor them in time.