How to cultivate excellent and sensible children?

These two days, one of Christina's Weibo, that is, "Hyun Wa Mad Model Niu Ma", accidentally became a popular Weibo, attracting the envy of countless mothers.

Christina's egg girl should be the ideal appearance of children in many families. Because of the child, she became a teenager, which should also be the most ideal parent-child relationship in many families. There is always an excellent parent behind an excellent child. Low-key life, high-profile education, Christina's educational methods are worth learning.

Christina at the Red Sea Action Media Meeting

Christina on the stage is a queen with extraordinary temperament. Compared with glittering stars, Christina now enjoys the role of "mother" more. His son Daniel (nicknamed Egg Girl) has reached the age of 10. On the way to take care of the children, Christina is determined to be her son's "good buddy" and not to be a stumbling block to the child's growth.

Be your son's "good buddy" and don't be a stumbling block to your child's growth.

"What will you let your child take with him when he goes abroad one day?"

"... condoms! "

When talking about why condoms are chosen as gifts for children, Christina generously replied, "Of course I will prepare them for children when they are old." In addition, he added humorously, "and it must be of good quality."

When Christina was shooting a diaper commercial,

Christina has always been relaxed about men and women. She said that the egg girl in life is a little boy who is very popular with girls. Sometimes she will take a few "girlfriends" home and prepare small gifts for the girls who come to visit.

Several female students in the class like their sons. Christina asked her son, "You like all your girls' good friends, but you can only get married once. What should I do? Daniel sighed and said, "I'll see who likes me best. I want to find someone with a good temper." Christina was impressed by her son's idea of finding a girlfriend.

Teach my son to be a little gentleman and a warm man from an early age.

The sea eliminated the actors, and there is also an important identity-UN Women's Goodwill Ambassador. Therefore, Christina paid special attention to "respecting women" and taught her son to be a little gentleman and a little warm man from an early age.

Christina is taking part in the charity activity of caring for "Little Water Drops".

Indeed, in Christina's Weibo, we often see the "warm man" side of our son and sister. When the mother and son go out to travel, the egg sister will help her mother wash socks and T-shirts intimately.

Egg sister is also very grateful. Once, after watching TV, she was eating Lamian Noodles. Suddenly, her eyes were red and she said to Christina, "Mom, thank you for raising me!" "

On several occasions, fans took photos of Christina taking her son out to play. What is commendable is that every time Christina and her son go out, her mother goes into battle lightly, and all the luggage and bags are borne by the "little man".

At that time, when the mother and son went to the art theater of the film archive to watch Gone with the Wind, the young "egg girl" was also a gentleman and always helped her mother with her bag.

At the airport, Sister Egg is responsible for confirming the direction of the airport, while Christina, the mother on one side, follows the direction chosen by her son with great trust.

The understanding of her son, Sister Egg, has been highly praised by netizens, and Christina's education method has also been recognized by everyone from the heart-providing more possibilities for children.

When the egg girl was 4 years old, Christina began to teach her to do simple housework. Every day after school, the egg girl carries a bag on her back; When the mother and son go out shopping, Sister Egg will take the initiative to help her mother with her bag and do what she can. She is full of gentlemanly temperament.

Christina is a witty mother. She knows how to be a man. It is precisely because she doesn't spoil and spoil her son on weekdays, and gradually cultivates his masculinity through appropriate weakness, that Egg Sister will be so sensible and responsible since she was a child.

"Even if he doesn't blossom, it won't reduce my love for him."

A few years ago, Christina took her children to watch the movie "Mars Rescue". On the way back, Christina bought many flowers and seeds for her son "Egg Girl" and wanted him to cultivate them. Most of the seeds bought are vigorous, but only one seed does not germinate. My son likes this kind of non-germinated seed best, so he always takes it to school and expects it to germinate quickly every day.

Later, all the seeds blossomed, but the little seed carefully cared for by his son remained motionless. At first, Christina wanted to throw away this non-flowering seed, but the egg girl refused. In winter, their family went to Australia for a holiday. As soon as they came back, they entered the house, and the egg girl was shocked. The little seed germinated, and he immediately cried, so excited.

Christina once exposed photos of mother and son fighting in Weibo, telling them that they were as close and moved as brothers.

"This is a truth he taught me. I want to be such a mother. Even if he doesn't blossom, even if it stays in the soil forever, it won't reduce my love for him. " Christina said that every time I tell this story now, my eyes are still sour and I want to cry.

"I thought I was calling to urge my son to do his homework, but I didn't expect him to stop doing it and go to bed!"

Christina is more concerned about her son's health than studying. At that time, when Christina was on the variety show "Life of Desire", he thought it was a phone call urging the "Egg Girl" to do her homework well. I didn't expect Christina to really say, "Can't you do it tomorrow?" Then don't do your English homework. It's almost 9 o'clock.

Christina admits that she has not paid special attention to her children's grades, and even her children's final grades have not been questioned too much. He just heard his son say "yes" and passed.

Christina doesn't care about grades, but pays attention to the cultivation of children's interests in education. She signed up for seven interest classes for Sister Egg, but she didn't force it. Most of them are subjects of interest to children. Christina will support the children as long as they are interested.

"I gave him lessons in painting, Chinese characters, Go, piano, swimming and basketball, and invited a teacher from China to teach China traditional culture. I take him to every class by bike, or by bus or subway, because he likes cycling and the feeling of swiping his card on the bus, "Christina said.

At the Weibo, Christina showed off her son's various talent shows, and proudly said, I really envy this boy for having such a good mother and accompanying him to interest classes every day, rain or shine. Remember to tell the audience that your mother is me, me, me!

My son has a wide range of interests, and his talents such as calligraphy, painting, English composition and violin have developed in an all-round way.

"Other people don't let their children play games. She chooses games for the children to play. "

Other people's mothers hate games and feel that games have seriously affected their children's work and rest rules and enthusiasm for learning. There is a good saying, "A mother will do anything to stop her children from playing games".

However, when it comes to playing games with children, Christina, as a mother, doesn't take the usual path. She took the initiative to help her son choose games, watch pictures and comments, and play customs first. Even her son is full of praise for his mother, and can't help but admire: the brain is a good thing, mom, you have it!

Christina is also open to games. As long as children are well guided, games can also play a positive role in developing their intelligence. Compared with the blind prohibition of parents, screening high-quality games for children by hands like Christina can not only ensure children to play healthily and effectively, but also enhance parent-child relationship, so that sons and mothers can always have the same topic to talk about.

"I am so poor that I have to cry to laugh."

For her son's education, Christina also won the essence of "raising children in poverty" and often cried in front of her son, confessing that "sometimes she acts like she wants to laugh".

One morning, Christina was going out, and her son asked him where he was going. Christina began to cry poor: "Mom will go to Guangzhou for filming, and she will be hungry for two days next month to earn your meal. Don't pour me a grain of rice while eating. "

Unexpectedly, it took a long time. A father told his son that he ate too much at school at noon and his stomach was uncomfortable. "I asked why?" The child's father said, "The rice is a little cold. He ate it all and didn't dare to waste it."

Hai Qing and his son are holding hands.

Another time, Christina took her son to Disney. When she left, the egg girl took a fancy to a watch. Christina said, "Wow, 239 yuan". The son asked her, "Mom, is this expensive?" . Christina continued to cry "poor son". "Do you know how much our tickets cost and how much it costs to play for a day? You are wearing such an expensive watch. I have never bought such an expensive watch. " . When her son asked Christina "How much money do you have", Christina claimed that she only had 100 yuan. His son looked around again and asked other mothers how much money they had. Christina said that other mothers earn more money by themselves, and mothers only have so much money.

So, the little guy asked again, "So, after you bought me a watch, do we still have food at night?" Christina replied, "There is nothing to eat" and said that her son can only choose toys within 50 yuan. Finally, Sister Egg thought for a long time and made a decision-Mom, let's eat more delicious food tonight! Say that finish, took Christina and left. Mother and son went back to Disney without buying anything.

Egg girl's desert trip

In a place full of temptations like Disney, Christina succeeded in "crying for poverty" and stopped her son from thinking of buying toys. However, although Christina has always adhered to the policy of "raising children in poverty", she is willing to spend a lot of money on education. She thinks spiritual enrichment is more important. Christina said that letting children know what is more valuable through comparison and restriction will help them know how to use money correctly in the future, instead of spending money lavishly.

Danniu creative photography

In Christina's Weibo, except work, everything is about her son's dynamics, and she has become a small fan of her son. I once said with a smile: how can I have such a good son as a stupid mother!

Really? She is unique in the way of raising children, not taking the usual path, and laying out for her son with a long-term vision. She is neither arrogant nor impetuous, and does not follow the crowd. Determined to be "buddies" with children, occasionally be a mother, and insist on getting along with children on an equal footing. Behind a son with high emotional intelligence, there must be a high-profile parent. Christina is not stupid at all!

Adler, a famous Austrian psychologist, has a wonderful conclusion: "If the mother is authoritative and nags the rest of the family all day, the girls may imitate her and become mean and picky; Boys always stand in a defensive position, afraid of being criticized, and try their best to find opportunities to show their obedience. " Teaching by example means that we always inadvertently set an example for our children, shape their character and affect their psychological growth throughout their lives!