Have you ever been in contact with Xinyang people in Henan? What do you remember?

Zhengzhou, Henan, several of my college classmates are from Xinyang. After graduation, I have been to Xinyang and met some Xinyang people who do business. Let me briefly say my opinion. If offended, I would like to express my humble opinion.

Xinyang is located in the south of Huaihe River in Qinling Mountains, which is regarded as the south, with a relatively large population and counties under its jurisdiction (more than 6 million people, two districts and eight counties). Hubei in the south and Anhui in the east. The thoroughfare of the three provinces has convenient transportation. As far as the whole Henan area is concerned, Xinyang should be the most livable natural environment.

Xinyang people generally consider themselves southerners, and friends around them often say things like "you big men in the north". Indeed, the psychological attribution of different regions does vary greatly. Moreover, the accents of Xinyang Guangshan and Xinxian County are very strange, which is very different from ordinary Central Plains Mandarin, and Henan locals basically can't understand them at all.

There are many people going out in Xinyang, and the population going out in the province is second only to Nanyang and Zhoukou. More than 6 million people, the terrain is hilly, there is not much way out for agriculture, so many people go out to make a living. Xinyang people prefer warm climate, so they usually choose nearby places such as Hubei, Hefei and Anhui or Suzhou, Hangzhou and Shanghai. Xinyang people are hardworking and smart, so many people have made a career in other places and settled down.

Back to the topic, briefly talk about some characteristics of Xinyang people in my eyes.

1. Xinyang people pay special attention to diet. Unlike northern Henan, they can eat a bowl of noodles in the morning. Xinyang people should have four dishes and one soup at noon or at night if they can, and they especially like to eat saucepans. Bacon, ducks, geese and fish are their favorites. They don't have to drink Maojian tea, but the quality of diet must be high, and diet occupies a very important part in their lives. Xinyang cuisine is also famous in the whole central region, famous for its exquisiteness and richness, and is the representative of Henan cuisine. If you invite Xinyang people to dinner, be sure to let them order. Just sit and enjoy it [covering your face]. Their pursuit of food is relatively pure, aiming at the original flavor of ingredients, which is actually very different from what many friends call "lazy cooking".

2. Smart and capable. Xinyang has many hills and hills. Because agriculture has no way out, so do more business. Because of the border with Hubei, there are also people in Hubei who are "birds with nine heads in the sky and Hubei guys on the ground". Xinyang people walk around and do all kinds of business, and have made many achievements. Even in Xinyang, Zhengzhou, there are many people, who are famous for opening restaurants, construction, hardware and other industries. However, if you are smart, it may be easy to fight alone. Unlike Zhoukou people and Nanyang people, Xinyang people are more concerned about whether they are bigger or not, and have never thought about "monopolizing" an industry.

3. The face value is high. Xinyang Mountain is surrounded by water and the air is humid. It is also a land of fish and rice, so it is a godsend for men and women to have good skin.

4. Clan concept. Now the clan concept is getting weaker and weaker, and Xinyang still retains some of this concept.

In 18 cities in Henan, almost every region has its own unique psychological home and customs. For example, Nanyang people's boldness and enthusiasm for political power, Zhoukou people's bold and unremitting pursuit of making money, Anyang people's pragmatic and peaceful, Luoyang people's enthusiasm and free and easy, and so on.

To some extent, Xinyang is actually a little underestimated. Xinyang is surrounded by mountains and rivers, and the economic restructuring may catch up, although the economy is relatively backward and there is no particularly famous mineral industry support. Just like Zhoukou used to be poor and white, in the past two years, GDP has been pulled to the fifth and sixth place in the province by demographic dividend and consumption advantage. The overall environment of Xinyang should be better than Zhoukou.

I am from Xinyang.

Let me talk about the characteristics of Xinyang people.

1: Good face. Whether you have money or not, you are never stingy with inviting people to dinner. You must arrange noodles.

2. Love comparison. What others have, I can't live without it. I must be tall if others are low.

3. narrow-minded: I will give back twice if you are good to me. But you are not good to me. I'm sorry. Fuck off.

4. Very smart: small accounts and big accounts are clear and good at calculation.

Wait, wait, wait. . . . . .

As a Xinyang person, Xinyang people are born with a sense of superiority. The city looks down on Yangshan, Nanwan looks down on Pingqiao, and the market looks down on Wu Dong County! Dinner is a treat, so be sure to pay attention. The hotel should be big, the food stalls should be delicious and the wine should be treasured. After three rounds, you start playing. He belongs to Xinyang if he doesn't drink, and Xinyang is his after drinking! Who is from the Municipal Bureau, the Education Bureau and the Central Hospital? If anything happens, solve it by phone. No one will investigate whether it is true or not. The important thing is to brush the sense of existence! When the new tea comes down, I will go to the mountain tomorrow to pick a few catties of camellia and give each of you a taste. With everyone's praise, the wine field will enter the next mode. It seems that someone always suggests going to karaoke. Let's discuss whether to go to the east gate or the small south gate first. Someone always dials the phone, and boss X arranges one in a big bag! So a group of people marched in the past, regardless of whether the fake beer was real beer, they touched it first, cried wolf for a while, made a circle of friends, and then called several people to play. The next morning, they found their heads were big and vowed never to drink again. When they got off work, someone called to make an appointment. A section chief came to see a friend and asked him to be a companion. Director Li Wang is also there. Forget it, don't drink today, just chat and start over, Mao.

As a person in the suburb of Xinyang, I take the risk to talk about my feelings [covering my face].

First of all, I think Xinyang people are proud, vain and competitive. For example, if someone else has a car, I have to have a car. Even if I borrow money for a down payment, I have to buy a good one, but it must not be too bad, or I will lose face if I drive out. Secondly, I think Xinyang people are lazy. You are very incompetent, aren't you? You are very picky when looking for a job. I wonder why the food stalls are almost full and good shops have to queue up. As long as I hear that there are delicious and interesting things, I will go through fire and water even in Qian Shan [covering my face].

Of course, everything can't be generalized. Diligent housekeeping is also everywhere. Only lazy people can set off diligent people, and idle people can show diligence. Everyone is performing their own life in different ways. This is society.

I am honored to be from Xinyang, Henan.

In particular, my parents' generation, with their backs to the loess all day, are busy in the fields and at home. From the beginning of the year to the end of the year, there is always endless work, and it is still difficult to get enough to eat and wear due to financial constraints.

Although every family is not rich, the neighbors in the bay are in trouble, and they all lend a helping hand.

I remember when my neighbor's eldest sister-in-law gave birth to the third child, there was almost no food at home for one night. The neighbor took an egg, he took a bowl of white flour, some gave a few spoonfuls of sugar, and some gave old clothes to a rag. At that time in the countryside, it was natural for you to help me.

When there is a conflict between family and neighbors, the prestigious elders in the village will come forward to mediate. The biggest thing is to wake up and make up as usual.

After the reform and opening up, Xinyang people's enthusiasm for getting rich through hard work was stimulated. Xinyang people with flexible minds are no longer satisfied with the status quo of digging holes in the soil, and begin to look around for a way out.

Once someone stands firm, relatives and friends in their hometown will defect all the way, so it doesn't matter if they come back empty-handed for about a year.

Xinyang people at that time, you believe me, I believe you, you pull me, I pull you. At that time, Xinyang people were hardworking and unyielding, and they were found all over the country.

Now the living conditions of Xinyang people have improved, and many rural people have bought houses in the city and settled down.

Although they all speak the same accent and have similar customs and habits, their communication with people is much colder. Relatives and friends rarely move around, and no one comes forward when someone has something to do. Everyone is busy, and everything will be fine with a mobile phone.

In the past, neighbors had little contact and got together on holidays. Without parents' greetings, the meeting is about who made how much money last year and who bought a new house in the city. Whose children are on the point, who is treating in a hotel.

Xinyang is also a fellow villager. Have times changed or people changed?

What do you know about Xinyang people?

Xinyang people are generally smart and capable. Old Xinyang people drink and eat slowly and love playing cards. Both men and women look good. Drinking a cup of Xinyang Maojian tea outside is standard!

Xinyang girl:

1. Good skin.

The whole is white, and there are few long black ones.

2. It's so beautiful.

Good looks and ugly ones are in the minority. Nice figure.

3. can talk.

The little girls in Xinyang are all eloquent.

4. Cheerful personality.

Basically, people are cheerful and love to laugh.

Xinyang boys:

1. hypocrite.

Most boys in Xinyang are hypocritical.

2. Lack of honesty.

Integrity is their antonym, and there are many villains.

3. The pattern is small.

People always like calculating and doing things.

4. Too hypocritical.

On the surface, they are good at pretending to be good people, but in fact, the expression on their faces has exposed their hearts.

I feel that Xinyang people are nice, beautiful and in good shape. They pay more attention to etiquette and are full of gentlemanly demeanor. Warm and hospitable. Men have ideals and ambitions and can do great things. Women are all beautiful women, who live carefully, can cook and do housework. In short, Xinyang people have both northerners and southerners' personalities, but also northerners' frankness and southerners' delicacy. Combining rigidity with softness is the standard of Xinyang people.

I contacted a couple in Xinyang. Let me talk about my impression of the couple first. I wonder if they can represent some Xinyang people.

The man is a college graduate recruited by the company, and his home is in the countryside. Short, 1.65, dark and thin.

At first, I was sloppy and loved playing mahjong.

Later, I don't know who instructed him and became particularly dedicated. The boss of the unit respects him very much and entrusts him with a heavy responsibility.

Soon, he came home with a pregnant beauty and said it was his wife.

Women are tall, smart, beautiful, fair-skinned, know good food, and can casually name n kinds of cooking for a fish. Fascinated by a single male colleague who is five years younger than his wife.

Later, the man got liver cancer, and it was too late to find it.

The boss of the company took good care of him and arranged many people to accompany him to the best hospital in Beijing in turn.

During the treatment, my wife got along well with the young man who was obsessed with five fans and three fans.

Shortly after the man died, the boss arranged for his wife to work in the unit.

Soon after, the man's wife married the guy who was five years younger than her.

I have two children now. The daughter was born with a man in front, the boy was born with a man in the back, the child was taken care of by the new mother-in-law, and the family lived happily together.

Xinyang is a livable city, and good mountains and good waters produce good people. Xinyang people are smart and flexible. With the development of society, people's quality is getting higher and higher, and they will become a first-class city in China one day. Although I have settled in Guangdong for a long time, every time I go back to my hometown, I feel extremely uncomfortable and have a feeling of being eliminated. It shows that Xinyang is making progress, but I can't keep up with the rapid development of Xinyang.