What it's like to fall in love with a mature man, and how cool it is to fall in love with a mature man.

"Since it is miserable to fall in love with a naive man, what does it feel like to fall in love with a mature man?"

So I interviewed some girls.

After understanding their love experience with mature men, I summed up the answer is:

It's really cool to fall in love with a mature man.

1

"Don't worry about' what to eat tonight' anymore."

Little danger

I'm not good at making life choices, and I'm most afraid of meeting the question "What to eat tonight".

But since I was with him, I have hardly had similar troubles.

Every date, he will plan in advance where to play and what to eat. Of course, I will occasionally ask my opinion, but I will never worry about it alone.

@ Achu

It's not that cool, but it's true that you feel safe.

My boyfriend will tell me in advance no matter where he goes or what he does. If it's a game with too many girls, he will try to put it off euphemistically.

In short, I just feel at ease. I'm not worried about him messing around with girls at all. Falling in love is to be practical.

@PizzaH

Whenever I am in a particularly bad mood, my boyfriend will silently give me a comforting hug and then ask me "what's wrong".

@ Simone

He doesn't like Valentine's Day and Qixi Festival, and he doesn't give me gifts on holidays.

But if he passes by somewhere and sees something good, he will buy it for me. For example, sometimes when he comes home from work, he will come in with a small bunch of flowers and say to me:

"I just saw flowers in the flower shop, so I bought some. Hey, I'll give them to you. "

Although he is not romantic in the traditional sense to me, I like him very much.

2

"He will wear a condom during the safety period."

@ Zhang Xiaoran

What I want to say is not my boyfriend, but someone else's.

There was a boy next to me on the subway that day. I caught a glimpse of him chatting with his girlfriend. At that time, his girlfriend sent him a funny video and said, "This is so funny. Ha ha ha, please look quickly. "

I watched the boy type "I saw it yesterday" in the chat box, then he deleted that line and finally replied to his girlfriend with a bunch of "hahahahahahaha". ...

@ Yu

He is very self-motivated, he will imagine many things in advance and plan our future, and he will certainly do what he said.

@ Anonymous

Whether I'm safe or not, he will wear a condom.

@ 甯甯甯 beautiful

I think a man's maturity is not reflected in how gentle and considerate he is at ordinary times, but depends on whether he has enough emergency ability in the face of unexpected situations.

I once traveled abroad with my boyfriend and accidentally lost my passport. First of all, he calmed my mood and helped me remember where I might have put it.

Later, I found that I couldn't get it back, so I decisively took me to the police station to report the loss, issue a certificate and reissue it. He didn't panic during the whole process.

At that time, I thought: this person is really reliable.

three

"Like looking for dad."

@DeerJessie

He never loses his temper with me in front of outsiders. Even if I have completely annoyed him outside, he will wait until he gets home to argue with me.

Yao

Falling in love with an ex is like raising a son. And falling in love with your current boyfriend is like finding your father. This description seems a bit funny. ...

In fact, I just want to say that a mature man can make you feel at ease to be a little girl again.

@HHHss

He is good at making girls laugh, but after being with me, he only makes me laugh.

@Queeber

I have seen a metaphor that two people fall in love just like playing table tennis, going back and forth, you come and I go.

Falling in love with a naive man is like fighting with a person with poor skills. He always hits the ball out of bounds and always asks you to help him pick it up.

Falling in love with a mature man is like having a master practice with him. With the right strength, you can easily catch all the balls without having to pick them up hard.

four

"He knows how to make me comfortable."

@ your fudge

After talking for three years, he seldom said "I love you" to me, but he always silently prepared many surprises for me.

Every time I am so happy that I can't help cheering, he will spoil my head.

@ Mandy Xiaowan

I don't agree with the view that mature men should spoil you. I belong to the kind of girl who prefers independence and doesn't rely too much on the other half.

My boyfriend knows this well, so he will leave me enough space in my life to make our relationship in the most comfortable state.

Not all women want to be little girls.

@ Olivia

He said to me, "When you want to get married, I will marry you at any time."

@Xy

I think even if I fall in love with a naive man, if I can grow up with him, it will be a very cool and fulfilling thing.

No one is born mature, the key is whether he is willing to grow for you.

Write at the end:

Whether a man is mature or not is not necessarily related to his age.

Some men are mature and steady at the age of 20, but some men may be too naive to be close to 40.

Mature men don't have to be rich, and they don't have to buy you a lot of lipsticks and bags.

Of course, it is not unprincipled to spoil you.

The real maturity of a man is not to "spoil you" but to "understand you".