What is the fairest thing in the world?

In our life, when we see others sitting on huge wealth, enjoying luxurious life and seeing others rising rapidly, will we complain about social injustice: why do others have these things, but I don't?

Social justice is always relative, not absolute. Relative fairness in a small scale may be achieved through our own efforts, but absolute fairness in a large scale is difficult to guarantee.

So, don't be too fair, otherwise you will only make yourself very tired.

When faced with unfairness, some people always complain incessantly. Why don't I have a rich father? Why haven't I met a good boss? Why didn't I find a beautiful wife? In fact, complaining can't solve the problem at all, nor can it change the status quo.

Moreover, there is no absolute fairness in the world. Rich people may lack health, healthy people may lack opportunities, and those who have opportunities may lack the funds to start a business.

Nietzsche was ugly, but he didn't complain about the injustice of fate, but impressed people with his wise thoughts. Napoleon was short, but he didn't complain about the injustice of fate, but persuaded people with strong military power; Sima Qian was jailed. Instead of complaining about the injustice of fate, he touched people's hearts with a wonderful stroke.

Therefore, if you want to succeed, don't complain about the unfairness of the world blindly, because there is no absolute fairness in the world, and blindly pursuing fairness will make people psychologically unbalanced; Blindly fighting for fairness will only make us lose more.

Besides, who cares about a loser's complaint? Complaining about social injustice is always negative for life. On the contrary, if we can stop complaining and actively try to find ways to improve the status quo, then everything will be improved.

After graduating from college, Zhao Bin applied for the position of assistant manager in a company. All the way through, I finally got an interview with my boss. Who knows that the boss just had a brief chat with her, looked at her resume and said, "Sorry, we can't hire you-you can't even do your resume well, so how can we trust you with the job?" It turned out that when she left in the morning, Zhao Bin left in a hurry, accidentally knocking over the teacup and spilling her resume. It was too late to make a new one, so she had to apply with that dirty and wrinkled resume, but that's the problem.

Who can blame this? After returning home, Zhao Bin didn't complain at all, nor did he complain about his boss's fuss. She just copied a resume with a pen very seriously and wrote a letter to the boss of that company, which wrote: "Your company is my favorite company for a long time, and your almost harsh requirements for me just reflect your company's seriousness, rigor and Excellence in management. I believe this is also the reason why your company has maintained prosperity for a long time.

I will keep in mind your teachings and be conscientious and meticulous in my future work. "Zhao Bin sincere attitude from the heart, detailed resume and beautiful handwriting, let the boss eyes a bright, immediately told her to go to work in the company the next day.

Zhao Bin's approach is undoubtedly correct, because after she was treated unfairly, she didn't complain about her boss's unkindness at first, but immediately took remedial measures to create new opportunities for herself.

Therefore, when we are faced with the injustice of life, don't rush to complain or grumble. "Existence is reasonable", and the treatment we receive must have its background, conditions and reasons for "existence".

A loser is bound to have some shortcomings. It is better to change yourself than to complain endlessly about others. Change yourself and everything can be improved.

Therefore, never dream of absolute fairness in the world. This kind of thinking will only make more and more complaints and complaints, and make us farther and farther away from success.

If we can't take off the colored glasses of personal feelings, keep a correct attitude and live with an open-minded and optimistic attitude towards life, then we will never find fairness and live in the sky of complaints forever.

No one can deny that the so-called fairness, which often makes people feel bitter and wronged, is just an excuse for people to fight or make excuses for their own failure.