Marriage is early in rural areas, but the current "marriage custom" leads to some people being single. what do you think?

In fact, this is not only a custom problem, but also a social problem. In the past, the goal of farmers was to have enough food and clothing for three meals a day, but with the progress of economy and society, food and clothing is no longer a problem that plagues farmers. But it is difficult to find a wife in the countryside, which has become a big problem.

Now it can be said that rural bachelors are everywhere, and many rural single youths feel that "love and marriage are luxury goods for them". The first ideological problem. Although the phenomenon of son preference in today's society has decreased, we have no way to control this idea. Especially in rural areas, this idea has been deeply rooted.

Most people in rural areas are concerned about raising children to prevent old age. If the first child is a son, even if the second child is a son, the old people in the family will not mind. If it is a daughter, they will choose abortion. This has caused a serious imbalance between men and women. In the final analysis, it is because of son preference.

The second reason is the bride price. In fact, when it comes to bride price, it is normal for a woman to ask her husband for a bride price. Because this is the marriage custom and etiquette in China for thousands of years. It is also natural for the woman's parents to raise their children to get married and ask for a bride price. However, in recent years, the bride price has completely changed, and some people even regard it as a way to get rich. I often see hundreds of thousands of bride price on TV, which also makes many rural youths look at the ocean and sigh.

The third is to choose a spouse. In terms of marriage and matching, China people have always been concerned about the appropriate matching, which is the idea of rural people. Rural families in China will consider each other's family factors. Of course, compared with city people, they are more concerned about the family population, housing, cars, family burden and other factors on both sides. Especially the family burden, may be the decisive factor of marriage.

The fourth is the attitude towards marriage. For many rural people, getting married is a natural and necessary thing. Therefore, when some parents see that their children have reached marriageable age, they are anxious to prepare various blind dates, which makes young people very anxious. You will be afraid of marriage.