Swallow-the sister I met in Weizhou Island.

Swallow is a girl I met after I went to Weizhou Island on 20 14. She is not tall and ordinary.

But so far, she is my admired sister.

We met in May, 20 14, and my inn opened. I needed photos for online display, so I asked her husband to take photos. She and he always open a wedding photography shop and take publicity photos for the inn on the island. They have a child about 2-3 years old. After the photo was taken, we became friends, everyone was busy with their own small business, and there were not many opportunities for communication.

Swallows are very capable. In the wedding photography shop, she does everything by herself except the job of photographer (her husband). Treat people sincerely and always have a warm smile on your face.

Something unexpected happened. 20 15 At the end of April, my husband had an accident and stayed in the sea of Weizhou Island forever. Those days passed by her shop, and I was afraid to go in and comfort her. I can only hear the swallows in the distance. I don't know how a weak woman will spend the rest of her life. Young children, elderly parents, wedding dress shops that have lost photographers. I can't even think about it. ?

Time goes by, maybe I don't know how to comfort and help, so I have been afraid to touch the swallow. After a period of silence, her WeChat circle began to show her circle of friends: wedding photos of newcomers, gorgeous seascapes, and positive attitudes in her words, bringing people fresh and bright colors. But I know how hard it is for her behind this.

After the Spring Festival on 20 16, I came back from a trip to Vietnam, which was also the off-season of the inn. Swallow called me one day: "Sister Li, are you busy recently?"

Not busy, you come to play. ? I invited her. ? She comes to accompany me at night. We slept in the same bed and chatted. In the free time of chatting, she talks with children through videos and teaches them some pictures of animals and colors. The education and guidance for children has never been relaxed. ? I was secretly surprised. What kind of perseverance and control does she need to do this: her career is still flourishing and her children are well taken care of.

I admire people with strong inner self-control. Everyone will be sad and complain, but some people will sink in the predicament, and some people will rise up in the predicament. This is regarded as the challenge of fate and never give up. Only you know how much bitterness and pain there is behind not giving up.

This year, I made an agreement with Swallow that I would take a personal photo. The photo shoot was a complete day when I really got along with Swallow.

Swallow studied makeup, and now she is not only skilled in makeup, but also proficient in all aspects of the wedding dress shop. She can retouch the picture, buy the wedding dress and sell it alone.

It was very hot that day, and the swallows kept wearing makeup and carrying flashlights.

Zheng Xiaoyan is very careful. She will leave a small video for the guests who took photos that day. One is to promote the bridal shop, and the other is to let the couple see their most beautiful scene in advance.

After shooting a scenic spot, we drove to the next scenic spot. After staying in the car for a few minutes, the swallow was too tired and soon fell asleep. I sat next to her and looked at this woman who worked hard for her life, for her responsibility, for herself and her family. She is full of sadness, sympathy and admiration.

There is always adversity in life. Not everyone can face it bravely. I have experienced them, know the bitterness, and know the hardships of coming out. So I never make friends with people who complain and have a dark side. ? I only keep company with sunshine.

Many years ago, I don't know which book I read such a sentence: it is much easier for people to fall than to get up.

May you and I both have the courage to climb up and the determination to face all adversity.