How to get along with autistic children

First, if you find that the way he uses the equipment is incorrect or dangerous, please teach him the correct method immediately, and never joke with him or accuse him.

Secondly, sometimes he will throw things or feel uncomfortable and shout loudly, or even walk around nervously and at a loss. Please observe first and then ask "What's the matter with you?" "What are you going to do?" Then help him or teach him how to solve the problem.

Third, autistic children play games and don't know the rules of the game for a while. When they don't know how to play, remember to demonstrate the game with gestures and actions to help them understand the rules of the game. If they still don't understand it once, they might as well teach it several times until they understand it.

4. Most children with autism don't take the initiative to get in touch with people, lack ways to get along with people, and sometimes they are vague and answer irrelevant questions. When you want to communicate with him, besides calling his name, try to face his eyes. If you squat down, keep your eyes on the same level and let him know that you are talking to him.

If the autistic child doesn't respond to your call, we can remind him with words or gestures, but never do it for him or do it for him first, for example, remind him to take things out instead of doing it for him.

6. Under certain circumstances, especially when people interfere, autistic children often lose control of their emotions or can't say the right words. At this time, we must not laugh at him. We must immediately demonstrate the correct behavior and explain to him why.

When an autistic child parrots, please repeat what he says, turn what he says into a question, and then ask him what he means. For example, if he imitates you and says "drink juice", you can ask him "Do you want to drink juice" in a questioning tone?

Eight, there is an autistic child who will take the initiative to talk to others, but the content is repetitive or inappropriate, and it is impossible to express that he needs to establish a certain relationship with others. You need to remember to respond to him in a friendly way, continue to guide him into the subject, and continue to talk.

Most people always think that autistic children have no feelings and no response, but when you get along with them, you will find that they are naive, simple and sensitive. If you treat him sincerely, you will win his attention and trust, stick to your principles, and finally compromise with him.

Because autistic children have strong persistence, after correction, autistic children who are constantly constrained by teaching will have obvious sense of cooperation and be more able to contact different things, occasions and people. Those who failed to continue teaching in the early stage have quite deviant behavior in adolescence and beyond, and the outside world knows nothing about their current situation. At present, all they can see are school-age children. These parents are more able to face the reality, be strong and work hard, just want to give their children more learning opportunities.

Any learning course or game designed for autistic children should be specific, sensitive and exciting, emphasizing practical teaching materials in the natural environment, repeating the steps from shallow to deep, and trying to divide the steps into small pieces and add them bit by bit to describe things that are usually difficult for them to understand abstractly. Simple instructions, spoken language and facial expressions will make it easier for them to enter the situation, which is better progress and growth for autistic children.

Getting along with autistic children is an unforgettable experience. The performance of autistic children often makes participants feel depressed and at a loss. But think about it carefully, how tired it is for families with autistic children to live for so many years. They will be grateful and have a chance to rest and adjust their mood.

Every child has struggled in loneliness until he meets your love? How far are you willing to go for the person you love? Let's build a crutch for the "children of the stars" and let life shine into their loneliness.