Why do you say that some men are not looking for wives, but free labor without thoughts?

We need material things in love, but love itself doesn't need material things.

I often see men talking about women's material things on the Internet, but not all women are material. In fact, most women are still very good.

If a woman pursues material things, she doesn't care if the man really loves her or goes to find another woman as long as she has enough money after being with him.

On the contrary, a woman pursues feelings. As long as a man gives a woman enough love, she won't look down on a man because he has no money now, let alone leave him.

I'm afraid that some men can't give women basic material living conditions or enough love, but also need women to take the initiative to understand themselves, support themselves and tolerate their playboys and lies.

to tell the truth, what such a man wants is not a wife at all, but a fool who has no thoughts and is at his mercy, a free labor without thoughts.

Fangfang and her boyfriend are college classmates. For love, Fangfang and her boyfriend went to the same city after graduation. They rented a small house of 15 square meters from an aunt as their foothold in this city.

With a place to live, after they packed their bags, they began to look for jobs everywhere. After they kept submitting resumes, they both finally found jobs.

However, my boyfriend resigned after working for less than two months, on the grounds that his major was not quite right and his salary was low. Now it is the upsurge of starting a business, and his boyfriend has gradually developed the idea of starting a business.

As both of them are design students with fine arts background, her boyfriend and Fangfang discussed whether they could open a photography studio to help people take photos and follow-up.

Just do it. They changed a bigger house in the suburbs, bought some pieces of cloth as the background, and bought some ornaments as props in the flea market to make the room a simple studio.

After the opening of the photography studio, because the price is relatively cheap, there are also some guests one after another. When he is too busy, his boyfriend tells Fangfang that it would be great if someone could help.

In order to support her boyfriend, Fangfang quit her job, and they bought two old notebooks for film repair, a second-hand camera and lens, so their business was officially started.

Although many things are old, and the usual food is not so good, and the staple food is basically instant noodles, Fangfang is still full of hope for the future.

However, Fangfang gradually found that her boyfriend always avoided herself when chatting. Sometimes her boyfriend was sending a message, and she would put away her mobile phone immediately after Fangfang came over.

Fangfang had a bad feeling in her heart, but she forced a smile and asked her boyfriend what she had done, even hiding something from herself.

Although every time her boyfriend talks about the price with the customer, Fangfang's intuition tells her that it is definitely not as simple as her boyfriend said.

But Fangfang's love for her boyfriend made Fangfang confused, and she didn't want to turn things upside down. Fangfang decided to trust her boyfriend.

However, Fangfang's trust didn't bring her the expected results. Her boyfriend became more and more fond of chatting with people, and even often left all the work of film repair to Fangfang. In order not to delay the time for guests to get films, Fangfang often stayed up late to repair films.

Fang Fang, who is getting more and more uneasy, decides to see what her boyfriend is doing and why he looks so busy every day, but he doesn't make much money. Their lives are still very embarrassing.

However, Fangfang began to follow her boyfriend privately, which was not bad. When she was investigated, she was shocked that her boyfriend was ambiguous with some female customers and even took photos for free.

Fangfang couldn't tolerate her boyfriend's betrayal, so she asked him to question her, but he said that taking photos for free was a means to attract customers, and such a poor lie could not deceive even children.

After Fangfang threw out the ironclad evidence of her boyfriend's betrayal, her boyfriend first paused, and then began to apologize to Fangfang, saying that she was possessed by ghosts at that time, and only Fangfang was her favorite.

Fangfang, who is mentally neat and obsessed, can't tolerate her boyfriend's betrayal and resolutely leaves. When her boyfriend saw that Fangfang couldn't stay, he began to talk about their experiences of suffering together, hoping to impress Fangfang with emotion. Fangfang hesitated for a while and finally left.

Later, my boyfriend came to Fangfang several times, but Fangfang didn't go to see him. This time Fangfang was determined to break up with her boyfriend. Fangfang didn't expect her boyfriend who gave everything to be so miserable.

Fangfang thought it was over, but what Fangfang didn't expect was that her frustrated boyfriend was angry at the failure to save Fangfang.

In the classmates, my boyfriend began to say that Fangfang worships money and can't share the joys and sorrows with herself. He also said that Fangfang is married to a rich man, and a woman can't even tolerate her boyfriend, but only loves herself selfishly.

Fang Fang never dreamed that her former boyfriend, who was gentle in appearance, should slander himself so much after breaking up, which was simply ungrateful and gentle scum.

When did I become a gold digger? My boyfriend didn't talk about material things, and even didn't have a basic material foundation for love. However, I decided to quit my job and start a business with my boyfriend at the beginning, but what I got was her heartless betrayal and slander.

A boyfriend can't give himself enough love, nor can he give him a basic material life foundation, but he also has to tolerate his lies and playboys without a bottom line.

Fangfang thinks that her boyfriend really shouldn't find a girlfriend, but should find a fool who can retouch pictures.

Here, we should also advise women not to easily put their happiness and life on another person at any time.

For women, being independent is the guarantee of your happiness in life. When you are no longer attached to others from the inside out, you will have a new understanding of life.

instead of guarding love carefully every day, for fear that the other person will leave you, it is better to strive to improve yourself. When your heart is strong enough, the sense of security will naturally fill your heart.

Miyazaki Hayao, a Japanese animation master, once said:

"Don't rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. "

" When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but the pillar of your spirit. Learn to walk independently whenever and wherever you want, and it will make you walk more calmly. "

So women, learn to be independent. Don't let dependence become a habit. Independence is a skill that everyone should learn, and hard work is also a good medicine to cure pain.