No matter how sad you are, you must express your love for life well

Life is actually not easy; in ordinary days, positive emotions and negative emotions will appear alternately.

All real life has its bitterness and joy, its brightness and its gloom. There are no eternal sunny years, and there is no life that always carries a burden and moves forward.

I never believe that there are no negative emotions in anyone’s life. If there are, please believe that they are just acting.

In contrast, I appreciate people who can live a clear and bright life in this life where "life is unsatisfactory, nine out of ten times".

01

Mu Xi married Mr. Yun from Xishuangbanna two years ago. She has a petite figure that does not look old, and she looks like an unmarried girl at first glance.

Initially, she was a project planner and was very talented. She had good results in each project and naturally had a lot of income.

Mr. Yun grew up in the tea mountains of Banna since he was a child. He is very skilled in tea habits and mastery, and has made some achievements in tea making. Before marriage, the two bought properties in Zhengzhou and Banna respectively.

After marrying Mr. Yun, she devoted herself to making tea with him.

After marriage, due to family planning reasons, it was necessary to shift the focus of the tea business to Zhengzhou.

Because she is in the early stages of exploring the Zhengzhou market, her income is not as high as before, and she feels anxious and confused. For her, this is the saddest stage.

However, Mu Xi rarely complains and still quietly adheres to the original idea, never lowering the quality of tea and carefully cultivating new customers.

The two traveled between Banna and Zhengzhou, personally going to ancient tea gardens in the mountains of Banna, and carefully selected original and high-quality old tree tea. They did not just go to the market to buy loose tea and pass it off as inferior quality.

The tea room is decorated in style, with elegant white Yunnan handmade paper on the walls, which is simple yet charming; she brought beautiful tea utensils from various places and placed them quietly on the old-fashioned wooden table near the floor-to-ceiling windows. There are also special handicrafts brought from Banna.

The plain flower vessels may be filled with seasonal flowers, wild flowers, or a bunch of dried flowers, all of which give people a sense of elegant beauty and convey her clear, calm and unhurried mentality.

It is actually not easy to create an elegant atmosphere and find your own simple joy in a life that is not easy.

It requires a love for life, a dedication to tea, a tempering of one’s character, and a detailed perception and expression of beautiful things.

02

Zhou Xiaohe is still beautiful.

Zhou Xiaohe is a mother of two children born in the 1980s, but still maintains a slender figure and is very pretty; at the same time, she runs a real estate marketing company.

The busy work and trivial family life did not make her physically and mentally exhausted.

On the contrary, she is a very delicate woman; she wears decent clothes and high heels, has a slender waist, clear eyebrows, and a small face that makes her look even more beautiful.

She was my colleague in Shanghai, the head of the planning department of a well-known real estate company. On weekends we would watch exhibitions and review sales together; she had not yet started her own business at that time.

For a while, the company's personnel changed and she passively left the company. This "passive resignation" was related to her position and the interests of others, and it also received some criticism.

No one can be happy in this situation.

But Zhou Xiaohe is the kind of girl who will live a good life even if she encounters unpleasant things.

No one’s life is perfect and thoughtful; no matter how good you are, there will be people who can’t stand it.

Two weeks after Zhou Xiaohe left, I met her in Nanxiang; she had just bought several latest models of Apple computers and was moving them to the car, saying that she was going to open a company.

I didn’t ask her how she adjusted her condition in the shortest time. I just felt that if this matter were left to me, she would definitely be sad for a while.

So I admire her for throwing herself into a new life so quickly.

Being able to convert negative emotions into positive energy in a short period of time requires the ability.

She said: "That incident did make me sad and depressed, but if I continue to stay in that bad mood, there will be no other benefits except making me older and ugly.

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I have to do more important things and make every moment of my life as fulfilling as possible. "

Start a business, take care of children, bake, and record beautiful sunrises and sunsets through photography. Sure enough, every moment of her life was full.

I saw her photo in Moments.

In a sea of ??bright yellow flowers, there is a faint smile, and the corners of the eyes and eyebrows are full of happiness.

Her delicate skin shines in the bright sunshine, and her eyes are much gentler than before.

Happiness that comes from the heart cannot be faked.

03

I met a girl who loves poetry and literature; she writes quietly and reads poetry quietly, her name is Zhenjuan, and she is the initiator of a poetry club.

Every line of her poems is a vivid picture and scene, which contains all her perception and sensitivity of life.

Zhenjuan can make people feel her profound value structure in a few short poems. She is a wise person and a person who strives to pursue a better life.

She sometimes posts random photos, either of a touch of light and projection, or of the desk at hand. The composition is simple and has a sense of design.

I saw that her workstation was carefully tidied: quality pens, work notes with beautiful handwriting, and pottery with beautiful wild flowers.

At first I thought this girl was a quiet beautiful girl and an artistic young woman, but as I learned more about her, I was surprised to realize that she is an interesting woman with co-existence of beauty, talent and wisdom.

She works for a well-known brand company in the industry, mostly serving local real estate developers.

I have had business cooperation with their company and talked about the inevitable conflicts between Party A and Party B in the real estate industry and how to change it under the new media trend.

She has experienced the industry anxiety caused by the subversion of traditional media by new media trends; she has experienced the plan that was made overtime and was told by Party A to "come up with another plan" in the shortest possible time; After going back and forth and submitting more than a dozen plans, I finally settled on the first one.

I have seen some partners get angry and lose their temper because of similar things. They always put themselves in a state of high combat readiness and forget about life itself.

Although work takes up most of her life, Zhenjuan still tries her best to live out her life.

To make the details of life more beautiful, I organized a poetry meeting in my spare time and gathered a group of people with the same clear-minded nature and love for literature and life to make life more beautiful under the possible conditions. It became poetry.

So, the most important thing for a girl is to have a heart to make daily life beautiful.

In this poetry gathering, poetry is not far away from the distance at all, nor is it pretentious; it is life itself.

04

Brother Yang came to my house as a guest and said: "The feeling of your house is very similar to that of you I know."

I have been growing up since I was a child. I like bright and clean windows, and love cleaning and storage. I am naturally sensitive to interior decoration, and arranging trivial daily necessities is also an interest in my spare time.

When I was about to graduate from college, I rented a house outside as a studio to work on my graduation works. Even if it is a rented house, every corner should be tidy and every little detail should not be left out.

Pasted the calligraphy and line drawings I drew on the wall, covered the unsightly table with linen cloth for oil paintings, and the batik clothes I bought when I went to Hongcun for an art inspection. for my soft furnishings.

After getting married, classmate H and I both loved reading and drinking tea.

Therefore, the living room at home is a large study room and tea room. The sofa is a simple linen color, and the tea table is a carefully selected wooden table, which is also decorated with many green plants and beautiful flowers and plants; the walls are covered with In addition to books on art, literature, and movies, there are also flower pots, pottery, and fun little things in my bookcase.

Living in a comfortable and clean environment will naturally make you happy; I like to feel the brightness and warmth from the reality of life.

My friend said: "Your life is really poetic."

I told him: When classmate H and I are in a mood, we will lose sleep in the middle of the night; if we are taken advantage of by trusted friends, we will be sad; Being cheated by irrelevant people using lies without any bottom line; there are all kinds of troubles in life, big and small.

But I still hope to maintain the romantic spirit of "playing music, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, wine and tea" in my life.

Life is not easy anymore, so practice how to shorten the time of negative emotions and transform them into more positive emotions.

Express your love for life through every little thing and every detail at hand.

There are many beautiful things in life, and there are also many unpleasant things; make time to do the more important thing.

What a pity it is to not see her when the flowers are blooming.