What are the performances of women in love, which will make their emotional intelligence very low?

Love is a sweet temptation, and many girls are carried away by love. Not only can they not get the desired results, but they will be counterproductive. Generally speaking, there are three States that seem to be "emotional intelligence" offline:

Measure yourself first. Mars hits the earth.

Love brings the relationship between lovers closer, but the two closest people are two people after all, men and women with different physiological and psychological characteristics. It is often irrelevant to guess others with your own way of thinking, which will lead to bad feelings and misunderstandings. A girl who knows how to put herself in the other's shoes can understand herself, be tolerant and considerate of others in communication and create a comfortable and happy space for herself.

Second, the demand is explicit, and the initiative becomes passive.

Their needs for each other are directly revealed. Whether in the pursuit stage or in the love stage, the balance of love will tilt, and the party with more needs will gradually become passive. In love, of course, two people need each other in order to maintain close relationship, but once they are separated, as the lyrics sing: "The favored one is fearless."

Third, emotions are out of control, and ice and fire are two days.

Quarrel and cold war are both very hurtful States. Once a girl can't control her emotions, venting it on her partner will have a negative impact on her intimate relationship. Sometimes sweet and clingy, sometimes hysterical, sometimes cold and evasive, sometimes aggressive, and the mood is like a roller coaster at any time, which makes the other party unbearable. Some people say that there are many aspects that girls like more than boys, but the premise is that these aspects are within your control, or what you want to show, you can control yourself at any time, instead of getting out of control like this.

In short, love is the testing ground of "emotional intelligence". Whether in love, or in all aspects of life, whether boys or girls, it is very necessary to improve "emotional intelligence".

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