The value I can provide. ...

Some time ago, I participated in a reading experience camp. The first class was to write a self-introduction.

To tell the truth, I have always been a person who can't introduce myself. Every time I go to a new environment, my voice trembles and I read my name, I feel a sense of shame.

Fortunately, they provided an introduction template, but I was a little at a loss. At the bottom of this template is one: the value I can provide.

Some people wrote what they are good at at at present, while others simply deleted this article.

So the person in charge came out very directly and said, "The column of' the value I can provide' is best filled in. This column is what I am good at. Dear friends are not only our customers, students, but also our potential partners. We look forward to more exchanges and cooperation with you. Help each other and achieve each other. "

Then in brackets are "our designers, operating officers, commenting teachers, sharing guests, etc." Even selling cooperative courses are outstanding students in our past. "

I am at a loss, because I don't know how to write and show my value to this experience camp.

Seriously, I can't design, operate, comment or share, but I don't think anyone wants to listen to some trivial emotions.

So I'm confused.

But in the end, I wrote this passage under that article:

"I actually hesitated here. I like photography and can cut vlog, but I'm not an expert. I like reading and writing, but I am only a seriously ill patient in Weibo, not the author in the official WeChat account. My life and work are mediocre, and I have no outstanding achievements, but I am good at adjusting my mentality.

I don't know if these can provide value here, but they are very valuable to my life. "

Not to criticize or criticize anything. After all, in this information age, considering every kind of cost, we need to care about gains and losses.

I just wrote to myself: "Look, you are not a Canadian, a writer or a successful person, but you still have your own value."

This argument is like saying: What is the meaning of life? What is the meaning of work? What is the meaning of love? Everything seems to need an interpretable meaning to make sense.

We are always taught to be a useful person, and the meaning of work has been defined as "valuable to others". This other person is sometimes your boss, boss, colleague, and sometimes yourself.

But we often can't accept ourselves because we feel that our value is not enough. Those social titles always mean something, but not everything.

I always joke that I am a Buddhist, but it doesn't mean that I am completely moderate and have no energy to move forward. But don't be too hard on yourself.

I like gentle people, so I am learning to be gentle with myself. Strict requirements are necessary, but strict is not harsh. Value is not measured by any title.