Wen Yali, the first Asian Danish princess in Europe.

To know Princess Wenyali, I have to start with my work as a Danish lighting agent. I visited Denmark in the mid-199s, attracted by the lighting design in the shop windows in Copenhagen, and began to pursue and study Danish lighting. Danish design is world-famous, so what are its highlights in lighting design? Their product introduction is that the shape of lighting is not designed according to the shape, but according to the path of light, so every design starts with light and ends with light. The overall design always considers the combination of man and nature, and can play an extreme role in the design of details, hoping to replicate the beautiful light at dusk and bring this warmth to people's daily life. This is the design concept and conceptual recognition of Danish lighting, so I chose to be a Danish lighting agent. At the same time, I feel that Denmark is full of magic, great fairy tale writers and great designers.

In order to facilitate the negotiation, I found a travel agency run by China students in Copenhagen as my agent. In contact with them, I learned the name Wen Yali, who has been married to Danish Prince Joachim for more than two years. For such a long time, Wen Yali's name is often mentioned by people, which shows her influence among Danish nationals at that time, and the international students are full of praise and proud of her. Because Wen Yali's father is of mixed blood and her mother is French, many Danes call her from China. Born in Hong Kong in 1964, her family is very well-off. Her father is the president of an insurance company and her mother is the manager of a media company. Born in this environment, Wen Yali naturally received superior education and training. She was determined to become an elite in society since she was a child, and finally she realized her wish.

In p>1994, Wen Yali and Prince Joachim met, and they fell in love. After five months' brief relationship, they announced the good news of marriage. At that time, the news of Wen Yali's marriage swept across Hong Kong, which also surprised the Danes at that time. They all wanted to see Wen Yali's elegant demeanor. But the Danes, who are always so strange-minded, began to take action. Busloads of daily necessities, including a truckload of toilet paper, and baby clothes that have not yet been seen, merchants began to be sent to the palace in the name of wedding gifts. Looking at so many things, the palace announced a message that the little prince was married and had no suitable place to live. As soon as the news came out, a rich woman in Denmark who had no children and was in her twilight years decided to donate her castle to the prince as a wedding gift. As soon as the news came out, it became a hot topic in the news.

When people in China are talking about whether to open a second child, the population in the Nordic countries and other western countries, including Japan, has begun to age, and it is common for people to inherit their wealth and finally hand it over to the government. Therefore, it is understandable that it is better for women rich people to donate to people they like and need alive than to hand it over to the government after death. One of the great sorrows of life is that people will die and have not spent all their money. The donation of the rich woman is a wise move. At that time, our feeling was envy, and people were born with unequal demands. People in China often say that you win at the starting line. In fact, your birth has already decided whether you win or lose at the starting line. It's just that your efforts will give you a different living space in the future.

Wen Yali changed her nationality to Danish nationality soon after her marriage, and became a member of the Danish royal family. In order to better communicate with the Danish people, she already has four languages and began to study Danish. She basically mastered Danish in just 3 hours and became a veritable qualified royal concubine. At that time, all Danish nationals were very optimistic about Wen Yali. Wen Yali's character was very impressive to the Danes. She not only interacted with Danish nationals, but also devoted herself to public welfare undertakings. Wen Yali was the founder of many public welfare organizations such as the Danish Red Cross Youth League, the Danish Association for the Visually Impaired, and the Danish UNICEF, which made the Danish people praise Wen Yali with joy. This is Wen Yali, who is of China descent, versatile, intelligent and beautiful.

Although Wen Yali joined the royal family, she didn't just enjoy the luxury of the royal family and forget herself. She never gave up her career and established her own independent personality. She started from charity to help those in need. In the social environment of Danish sex culture, she didn't lose herself, maintaining the traditional virtues of orientals and westerners to be herself. In 1999, her first child, Prince Nikolai, was born. He is the eldest grandson of Queen Margrethe II and Henrik, and the only grandson born in the 2th century. He was once the third heir to the Danish throne (after his uncle Frederick and his father Prince Ioachim). Wen Yali has another identity, that is, her mother.

In 22, Wen Yali's second child, Prince Felix, was born, and Wen Yali's status was once again elevated in the hearts of the royal family and Danes. The two princes with China ancestry are handsome, but the love story between the prince and the princess is not as beautiful as you think. Prince Joachim of Denmark is a real playboy. Although he is a father, he goes to some entertainment places every day and can't extricate himself from drinking and drinking all day.

Ten years of marriage has come to an end. What kind of life will Wen Yali, who has become a single mother, have? Wen Yali, who left Prince Joachim, is no longer young, although her style is still the same. She has reached the age of no doubt. At this time, the eldest prince is 6 years old and the youngest prince is 3 years old. Unexpectedly, at the age of 42, she married again. Wen Yali married a 27-year-old court photographer. The age difference between them is 15 years old, which is typical of sister-brother love. However, because Wen Yali was engaged in charity in the past, photographers often accompanied her, and they also. If at the age of 31, she married the Danish prince Joachim, who was four years younger than her, it was also a sister-in-law relationship, but after all, the age gap was not big, and the person she married this time was really not optimistic. And she abandoned the rich royal salary for this.

The Danish royal family still loves her very much, giving her an annual allowance of 33, US dollars, and making her the Countess of Fort Fitzpatrick. She led two princes and a photographer to form a new family. At this time, Wen Yali's life was relatively low-key. The paparazzi still photographed some scenes of their lives. Their lives were warm and happy. The kind Danish people gave Wen Yali their blessing and her marriage began to be accepted by people. However, married life is like a bunch of blooming flowers. When it seems to bloom most brightly, it is also the time when it begins to decline. Although the reasons for the decline are different, there are only two outcomes: accept it and spend the rest of your life mediocre, or abandon it to make your life bloom again.

after ten years of life in the second marriage, Wen Yali and the photographer have nothing to say. Only they know the happiness and sadness inside? All interpretations are a guess. Wen Yali, who dares to hate and love, chose the latter. For her, men are icing on the cake, not indispensable. Marriage or divorce is your own life, and the rudder of this ship of your life must be in your own hands. This is the answer given by Wen Yali. She didn't miss the princess, and faced with the second marriage that ran counter to the love she wanted, she naturally chose to end it, and Wen Yali, 52, returned to single again.

Her evaluation of her ex-husband, Prince Joachim of Denmark, is that my husband is very charming, gentle and sincere, and even after divorce, we are still very important friends to each other. But when problems come, not every couple will continue to be husband and wife. She tells us that life can't be forced on themselves, and we can't compromise. Everyone's life is short, so there is no reason not to spend it well. We should learn to be kind to ourselves. This is the strength of Wen Yali's life! There is no reason why we should not live as we want.

This reminds me of the Mexican TV series I watched these days, in which there is a middle-aged woman named Da Lan Qi. She looks young, beautiful and rich, and has countless lovers. Her own principle is not to have feelings for lovers, and she seems to be a strong person who lives proudly! But unexpectedly, one night she cut her wrist and committed suicide on the grounds that she needed love. It's a contradiction. It really needs love to refuse feelings! Finally, the psychologist's interpretation of this case is that the victim under the system. It is that people have been instilled with the concept of marriage for a long time. It seems that only marriage is a harbor, and people will get lost if they leave this harbor, especially women. Without marriage, Da Lan Qi unconsciously sacrificed on the way to the harbor.

Wen Yali is a real strong person in life. She is not troubled by secular prejudice, listens to her heart and lets the flowers of love bloom naturally. Ten years of marriage is the death of many people, and there is nothing wrong with those who leave and continue to walk! You are happy as long as you feel good. Wen Yali's eldest son, 23-year-old Danish Prince Nikolai and Count Monpeza, has an eighth of China descent. He has chosen a career that is unprecedented among royal aristocrats-modeling, which shows that he has a strong mother gene in his bones and does what he likes.

What you do is to do the best. This is the principle of Wen Yali's work. His Royal Highness Prince Nicholas has made remarkable achievements in the modeling field. In February 218, he went to Burberry's autumn and winter 218 men's collection conference. In May, he became the opening model of Dior Homme's Spring/Summer 219 collection, followed by Dior Homme's early autumn 219 series show. Besides continuing to engage in charity, Wen Yali is also a member of the board of directors of a Danish pharmaceutical company. There are many roads in life, and I hope Wen Yali will walk more brilliantly on the road she chooses in the future.