Why do most families have two children now?

Judging from the current social situation, it is not very good. First, the social pressure of elders is really increasing. Children's study and employment include buying a house and a car when they grow up.

The second is to cultivate children's energy. At present, most parents choose to give their children the best training, so sometimes parents are too busy with only one child.

The third is the child's psychology. Jealousy is a common phenomenon in families with many children. Some parents will say that I have no preference for any child. No matter how careful parents are, they will ignore a child's psychological problems and cannot communicate and solve them in time.

Look at the way and cost of raising children. As we all know, the poorer the place, the more fond it is to have children, because the cost of raising children is low, just feed them, and there are not so many early education, training courses, children's photography and Lego classes to spend money on free-range. However, the opportunity return of this kind of investment is often great. As long as there is a child mixed out, parents can follow suit. Even if it doesn't work, the family size is large, the labor force is large, the productivity is improved, and the living standard can be improved. Input is far greater than output. Rural areas have homesteads and keep their own rations, unlike cities that need to buy a house to find a job, and the cost is not an order of magnitude.

More than less, one of the most direct benefits is excitement, especially when a person feels lonely and there is a child's voice at home. Of course, the disadvantages are hard work and great economic pressure. Women, in particular, are under greater pressure. Pregnant and having children, confinement, but also taking care of children, a little older, but also taking care of children at work. If my husband is not considerate, like this one in my family, he will collapse. He regretted having a second child and had to do everything by himself. He can spend whatever he wants, so it's hard to ask him for money from his children. Every time, he always says I have no money, you. So I am really speechless, and women are so insecure. If you don't have a good husband and a good husband's family, don't have children, especially a second child, and treat yourself as everything.

Some people say that there are many children at home, and they will be taken care of when they are old. However, have you ever considered that if a child is promising, it is enough for you to enjoy happiness? If several children have a bad life and can't take care of themselves, how can they have time, energy and financial resources to take care of themselves? Even if everyone is promising, there will be conflicts because of who pays more and who contributes more.

It is a common phenomenon now that parents will support the down payment, that is, paying money. If there are more children, will this kind of expenditure be more?