After 70, be kind to these four people on the way to getting old.

After 70, I don't feel that I am almost 50 years old. Even if you don't feel old, you will find that some people in your life have drifted away.

Maybe, once you say goodbye to someone, you will never see them again.

Be kind to those closest to us, because that is actually being kind to yourself.

When you are born, you have to do something, so that when you get old, you can have the courage to tell your children. Those tears that have suffered, been tired and wronged, and the successful laughter are the best proof.

And those who accompanied us through that difficult or brilliant period are colleagues who know each other and cherish each other. From the initial interest struggle to mutual support and even becoming friends, colleagues have witnessed our growth and maturity and become an indispensable existence in life.

Huahua is 48 years old this year. She has been a teacher for 25 years. Now, she is a price analyst in a securities company. The brand-new job inspired her indomitable enthusiasm for work. After a year's exploration, she soon became an excellent employee recognized by everyone. Two post-90s girls in the same office also regarded her as a bosom elder sister.

The working day is busy and full, but the weekend is a rare time to relax. In the early years, most teachers, colleagues and children went to college, and some of them had already taken part in the work. As a senior teacher, the teaching task is not as heavy as before. Therefore, when we meet and get together, we will really have time and will not be short of money.

Huahua has gradually become one of the contacts at the weekend party. She has chosen a travel route, booked a restaurant and a hotel, and invited a female colleague who likes photography among her current colleagues. She always laughs every short weekend trip.

Learning the popular photo poses on the Internet, teachers who used to be unsmiling now have smiling faces like children. Yes, I have worked for most of my life, and I have been rigorous for most of my life. It's time for me to return to my nature.

There are any weddings and funerals at colleagues' homes, and Huahua will never be absent. Laughing or crying with her always comes from the truest feelings. It turns out that after this life, those colleagues who know each other and cherish each other are not only colleagues, but also brothers and sisters.

When people reach middle age, husband and wife become the most familiar people. Familiarity is like looking in the mirror and seeing another self. Without a word, a look and an action, the other person can understand his own thoughts in seconds.

We will still quarrel and even talk about divorce, but the next day, we will continue to do our own thing, as busy as a bee.

Days, just like this, occasionally there will be a few small splashes, but more often, they are unremarkable. The lover in your eyes whose figure is out of shape and all kinds of shortcomings are exposed is still the same as yesterday.

You can't change him, and neither can he change you. Those who are often said about each other's minor faults have been said for so many years, and there is no deep antipathy, just talking about it.

Holding your hand and growing old with your son is the most beautiful agreement in your life. When suddenly one day, the lover around you really has to leave, you will find that you have fallen in love with each other.

The 52-year-old Da Zhi was diagnosed with terminal cancer, and his wife, who kept scolding his younger sister, turned white overnight. She resolutely quit her job and stayed at her husband's bedside day and night, accompanying him with injections, massaging him and telling him stories, just like on their first date, Dazhi always tried to make her happy. Now, she just wants to make every effort to give him a love mark in the countdown life.

Four months later, Dazhi left with endless regrets. Half a year later, Dazhi's grandson was born, and Ah Mei took her son and family back to her hometown every weekend. She said it was their real home.

Cherish the lover who has been with you for half your life! The future is not long, and I have been working for most of my life. It's time to enjoy it again.

Arlene's son will study in a middle school in the city next semester. In the past, this was her long-cherished wish, but with the approaching of school time, Arlene was inexplicably sad and reluctant.

Alin, who married late and gave birth late, was betrayed by her husband after giving birth to her son. She divorced in tears and insisted on taking her son with her. Mother and son have lived together since their son was in the first grade of primary school. Now he is a little boy, but his son is growing up bit by bit, as if in front of him.

My son also has his own playmates. After class every day, he doesn't always stick to himself, asking for stories or playing games together. On weekends, they also help with housework and clamor to learn to cook.

As for study, Arlene doesn't need to tell me all the time. He has his own study plan and his own goals.

Arlene began to talk with her son about the ideal of life, how to get along with classmates and teachers, and how to take care of herself alone. These topics are far more meaningful than simply doing them.

Parents are there, and there is still a way in life; With parents gone, there is only one way home in life.

When parents' posture is no longer tall and straight, when their words begin to blur, parents who used to shelter themselves from the wind and rain are really old.

It's hard to hear their chatter any more, but you are. They start looking at your face and talking. When you are furious, you even have to stay away. Only when you are angry can you carefully try to solve your problem.

They are sick, as long as they can bear it, they will never tell you, for fear of delaying your time; Even if you are really in the hospital, you can ask the nurse directly. It's a mess for you to stay here.

In fact, think about it. How long has it been since you had a good meal with them and talked to them?

Go home often, just like the song "Go home often" sings: "Help mom wash dishes and brush dishes, and help dad rub his back and shoulders". Your laughter, your happy face, your peace and health are the best gifts for them.

After 70, stop messing around and fighting with others.

Only by loving yourself and being kind to people around you can you feel the beauty and tranquility of life.

Author: as light as the wind, as light as a cloud.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the internet.