Some middle-aged women like to join tour groups alone. What kind of psychology is it?

Middle-aged women are in a period of old age and small age, busy and about to lose themselves. It is mentioned that middle-aged women are always out of shape and their beautiful faces are gone. I'm a tourism professional, and I often meet some middle-aged women who join a group tour alone. After a long time, I know more or less what some of them think and why they join the group alone.

I can sum up just a few psychological situations: 1. Some mothers lose their jobs to take care of their children and families and become housewives. Children go to school and live on campus, and suddenly have a lot of time. Women of this age estimate that their family conditions are good and they don't need to find a place to work to subsidize their families. And because they don't work long hours, they are not suitable for working outside. Therefore, some middle-aged women with better family conditions choose to join tour groups to kill time.

2. Some middle-aged women like traveling, but their husbands are busy with work and have no time to accompany them, or their husbands don't like traveling. At this age, children either have no time to go to school or are willing to travel with their classmates when they are older, and they are no longer willing to travel with their mothers. At this time, these middle-aged women can only choose to join the tour group themselves.

3. A person is more free and doesn't have to accommodate others. Although it is fun to find a few friends to travel together, it is difficult for everyone to reach an agreement on the time of travel, the destination they want to go, and the choice of high, middle and low-end tour groups. These situations make do with balancing several aspects, which is too much trouble. It is better to sign up alone and choose your favorite route. You can also meet many good new friends in the tour group, which will be very lively.

There are some middle-aged women who want to go out for fun when traveling. They may have a bad family relationship. The husband and wife have long separated and only one person has gone out to travel. Others may be widowed in middle age and want to travel alone to relax. Some people travel alone after being single because they are divorced. Travel can make people feel better and forget their troubles for a while. Your life once gave you unbearable sadness, and finally everything became bleak.

Some middle-aged women have lost their looks, but they are more calm, full of heart, know how to live and know themselves. They have a happy family and a happy life, and they just need to do what they want. They don't want to spend all their time with their families. These middle-aged women live more independently. Traveling to see flowers and taking photos to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland is all about finding yourself and living for yourself.

6. Middle-aged women report to the tour group alone instead of traveling independently, probably because they are safe with the group. Traveling alone, especially in a strange place, will encounter unknown things. It is better to simply find a tour group to travel with, and you don't have to worry about eating, living and playing.

Since you choose a person to sign up for a group tour, there are several points to note: in short, people go through vicissitudes in middle age, and it is beneficial to go out and see the scenery outside.

I once met such an aunt on a trip. At that time, we were in a chartered car in Morocco, starting from the hotel and going to the desert. She sat next to me. Wearing sunglasses, exquisite hair style and beautiful traditional clothes bought locally, her oriental temperament is unexpectedly contrasted with that brown-red robe, which stands out in the crowd.

My aunt found me looking at her and greeted me very kindly and gently, so I was able to talk to her. She told me that after retirement, she always likes to go around the world alone, and her husband and children are also very supportive. Because she felt that she had lived too much for others when she was young, and all she thought about every day was family and work. When she is old and finally has enough time, she likes to spend more time with herself and listen to her inner voice.

I think there are quite a few middle-aged women who travel alone for similar purposes like this aunt. They are used to paying for others. If they still have family and friends during the trip, they will still choose to be a caregiver automatically and consciously, and then they still can't devote themselves to the journey, and even have psychological pressure of worrying about taking care of others. Only when they are alone can they pay full attention to themselves and travel.

Some people may ask, "Isn't there a companion who can take care of each other when going out with several old sisters or husbands and children?"

My view on this issue is that the free travel market is developed at present. Unless you go to a particularly remote area in the world, you can book high-quality travel services anywhere for a fee, whether it is language translation, transportation services, or guided tours. You just need to plan ahead and don't have to worry about travel inconvenience at all. Compared with "taking care of each other", the meaning of traveling companions is actually more psychological and spiritual.

Therefore, if a middle-aged woman regards traveling more as a way to empty her mind, relieve mental stress and get rid of her daily life, obviously, it is possible to achieve this goal by traveling alone in an environment where there are no familiar things and people.

If there are no obstacles, I also want to travel alone, like walking around aimlessly, like that kind of freedom, and I can pay full attention to my time. Life is short, I cherish every opportunity to travel, and I don't like to be in groups. The benefits of caring for each other offset the freedom to fly your dreams. I like to walk into strange people alone in a strange world, looking for dreams that I was young, looking forward to 10 thousand possibilities in life, reviving myself and moving on ... Perhaps this is one of the reasons why a 50-year-old aunt still maintains her enthusiasm for life and work.

Middle-aged women, alone, traveling, joining a group.

What's strange about a few words that can't be ordinary?

Middle-aged women can take care of themselves when their children are older, and their husbands are considerate or inconsiderate. As long as they have a few dollars and are open to it, they can travel.

This sentence is long enough, and it is also a woman's sorrow. When the child is older, her husband is inconsiderate, free and rich. Why is it so difficult for a woman to go out?

When people reach middle age, the conditions are finally met, but they can't find a partner. Every family has its own experience, so it is difficult for girlfriends to keep pace, so they have to travel alone.

Maybe that's what makes people curious. In general, most women will give up traveling if they can't make an appointment. Walking alone like this is really a brave act. Commendable.

It is also possible that a woman's life is unsatisfactory and she strongly hopes to change the environment and treat her pain. At this time, she will leave everything behind, and travel is the most convenient.

Follow the group? Explain that the heart of running away from home has just begun, and the courage is insufficient? Language barrier? After a long time and rich experience, I wander around the world alone.

It is also beautiful to think about such an experience.

What kind of psychology do middle-aged women like to travel alone with a group? As a middle-aged woman, I also have some personal views on this issue: middle-aged women have reached a delicate age both physically and psychologically, especially when they have the conditions to start releasing their psychological needs.

This demand, first of all, is the new pursuit of life or satisfaction or dissatisfaction.

* Middle-aged people, people who have been married several times, and people who have a happy marriage and a happy family begin to enjoy this stable life. Maybe their husbands don't have time to travel together, so they can travel with a group alone;

* People who are dissatisfied with their marriage and try their best to maintain it, although they are dissatisfied with this state and don't want or can't change it, begin to hope to find a new way of life. She can release some negative things in the process.

* and a group of middle-aged single women. The reason why they travel with a group alone is a bit inevitable, and it may also be a lifestyle that some people like.

The latter two are the people who are most likely to have some hope or what we call an "affair". In fact, it is not difficult to understand that middle-aged women have lived a boring life for 20 years and 20 years. They don't have as many opportunities as young girls, and they can't have any opportunities because of social and moral constraints.

For most people, traveling alone with a group is a very safe and economical way to travel; For a few people, traveling alone with a group may also be an opportunity.

In the tour group, the middle-aged women I met reported to the group alone in the following ways:

One is a retired middle-aged woman, and the other half is still working and not retired, so she can't take time off to travel with her lover; They trust the travel agency itself, and the travel society sends them back and forth to ensure the safety of tourists during their travels; So you don't have to worry about safety when traveling alone, just follow the tour guide.

Secondly, I met an aunt when I was building a house. Her husband died five years ago. She said that she took her grandson to the age of five and began to want to go out and have a look, so she signed up for the group. It is also good for the tour guide to arrange for me to live with her in the standard room; In this case, she exists!

Thirdly, there is a situation where the husband manages the factory or company, the wife cooks at home and takes care of the children, and the children go to college, and the wife travels alone, because the husband has no successor and is still busy with his career.

On the tour bus, two boss-level figures in the front row are talking about something. They said: the business is given to the son and the daughter-in-law is responsible for taking care of the children. They can't go into the workshop to be in charge, so they won't be chaotic; The factory can recruit outsiders, and the whole family can't participate in the operation. So the daughter-in-law takes the child out, and when the child goes to college, there will be time. It's normal to join a group tour.

Fourth, the lady I joined last time, her son went to college and her husband went to work. She did some odd jobs after she was laid off, so she signed up for a group occasionally. In 2020, because of the epidemic, the price set by travel agencies is very low, so ordinary people also have the ability to travel in low-cost groups.

I wish you all a happy life! Have a nice trip!

Middle-aged people, both men and women, are actually quite tired. There are old people and young people in the world. We should not only make progress in our work, but also take care of our families. If we meet particularly rebellious children and sick old people again, to be honest, sometimes we just want to go out and become a monk.

Sometimes it is best not to accumulate some negative emotions, but to have an outlet to vent and find a comfortable way to relax. Like traveling.

Then why not go out with your family?

In a family, it takes a long time for members to be intimate and harmonious, and sometimes they want to be alone. This is normal.

If possible, I'd like to go out for a walk alone. Even for a few days, it's not someone else's wife, the mother of the child, the employees of the unit, or just myself. Seeing the scenery you want to see, eating what you want to eat, meeting friends you want to see, saying what you want to say, and not pleasing easy-going people, is like cleaning up redundant memories regularly, releasing them, and going home to face a complicated life again.

If you go out for a few days alone, the sky won't fall. No matter how loving couples are, they will be tired of aesthetics after a long time, and it is not a bad thing to leave for a few days. If a middle-aged woman joins a tour group and goes out alone for a few days, her husband at home will feel crisis. There must be something wrong with your marriage, not the trip itself.

A middle-aged woman, already very sad, relax yourself properly, simple things!

Some middle-aged women like to join tour groups alone. What kind of psychology is this? They are used to paying for others. If they still have family and friends during the trip, they will still choose to be a caregiver automatically and consciously, and then they still can't devote themselves to the journey, and even have psychological pressure of worrying about taking care of others. So they like to travel alone.

There are several reasons,

The first reason is that introverts like to be alone.

The second reason, because the pressure of life may come from husband, children, grandchildren, so I want to go out for fun, so I just signed up for a tour.

In the third case, the husband is at work and can't take time off to travel with his lover, so the middle-aged woman joins a group tour alone. ...

In the fourth case, family and relatives have no time to travel with her, but travel with other friends. Because of different hobbies and opinions, it is easy to produce contradictions and avoid embarrassing situations, so I like to travel alone!

Wait, for many reasons, I like to travel alone and relax.

In fact, middle-aged women are under great pressure. There are old people to support at home, their parents, their parents-in-law! At the same time, middle-aged women often have some children who are studying in high school or college, newly married children, or children who have just given birth to grandchildren, and need the care of middle-aged women! How difficult it is to travel occasionally!

Everyone has a desire to talk about problems, troubles or difficulties in life. When people reach middle age, all kinds of problems and troubles are presented to people like dating. Health, work, life, children's education and parents' support for the elderly often make middle-aged people breathless. But I can't find anyone to talk to! So I want to travel alone, relax, calm down, get back on my feet and face everything in life!

Therefore, traveling is one of the best ways to mediate mood.

Here, popular science about tourism knowledge:

"Travel" is a process of traveling and going out, that is, to travel from place A to place B in space in order to achieve a certain goal; "Tour" means going out for sightseeing, sightseeing and entertainment, that is, traveling for these purposes. Together, it is tourism. Therefore, travel focuses on travel, which has not only the meaning of "travel", but also the meaning of sightseeing and entertainment.

Tourism is the sum total of a phenomenon and relationship caused by the travel and temporary residence of non-settlers. These people will not stay permanently because of this, and mainly do not engage in money-making activities. But consumers, bringing various business opportunities to tourist cities and residents!

Generally speaking, the three elements of tourism are tourism purpose, tourism distance and stay time.

Here is a classic story.

Tourism, Treatise on Febrile Diseases by Shen Yue in the Southern Dynasties: "In the spring of a year, tourism attracts visitors." Tang Wang Bo's Ode to Cold Pine at the Bottom of the Stream: "Renzi traveled to Shu last August to find Maoxi." Wu Songming's "Total Records of Different Stories" Volume 1: "Linchuan painter Huang Sheng, who walked like Guangchang and knew Bazhai, died in Langya Pavilion." Wu Cheng'en in the Ming Dynasty wrote: "Dong Yuan Gong first entered Jin, for a high banquet for Japan ... There will be a wave of people traveling to Beijing and Huaihai, and they will be very happy to hear it."

It means living abroad for a long time. Tang Jiadao's poem "Night Tour in the Valley" said: "It is hard to hate traveling in the world, and the dragon clock is even worse. The old garden is full of tears, and the neighbors are worried all night. " Don Shang Yan's poem "Qiu Si on the River" says: "Who cares about swimming after coming to the river for a long time? There is no autumn letter in the old country, and there is a night anvil next door. " Wen Mingzhi's poem "Listening to the sound of rain on the pillow, feeling the situation of Yixing waterway": "Visitors should stay up and don't go to the front of the small building." Lu Qing's "Confucious Understanding of Confucius and Sima": "Twenty years of Hanjiang Road, a trip worth autumn ... What's wrong with traveling? Ask Sha Ou about wandering."

1970 On September 27th, the International Official Tourism Union (the predecessor of the World Tourism Organization) adopted the Constitution of the World Tourism Organization at the special congress held in Mexico City. World tourism day is a festival designated by the World Tourism Organization for tourism workers and tourists.

1979 In September, the third Congress of the World Tourism Organization officially designated September 27th as world tourism day.

1983 China officially became a member of the World Tourism Organization. Starting from 1985, a province, autonomous region and municipality directly under the Central Government will be designated as the main venue for world tourism day celebrations every year.

The pioneer of tourism is businessmen, and the earliest tourists are the Phoenicians, a maritime nation.

As a social behavior, tourism has existed since ancient times. China is one of the ancient civilizations in the world, and the rise of travel activities is also in the forefront of the world. China existed as early as the 22nd century BC. At that time, the most typical traveler was probably Dayu, who traveled all over the country in order to dredge the eighteen rivers in Jiujiang. Then came Laozi and Confucius in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. Lao Tzu preached and rode the green ox west. Confucius gave lectures and traveled around the world. During the Han Dynasty, Zhang Qian went to the Western Regions as far away as Persia and now Iran and Syria. In the Tang Dynasty, Xuanzang learned the scriptures and went to India. In the Ming Dynasty, Zheng He made seven voyages to the West and reached the East African coast as far as possible. The great traveler Xu Xiake made a travel note.

Therefore, if you have time, physical permission and economic prosperity, you can leave home, travel, see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, breathe the air outside, mediate your mood and make yourself younger and more energetic.

There are three key words in this question: a middle-aged woman, a person, and a group tour.

Middle-aged women, the youngest is 40 years old. According to the latest classification of the United Nations, 45 years old is a middle-aged woman. Psychologically speaking, women of this age are rich in perceptual knowledge, deep in emotion and sensitive. Because of rich life experience and not conservative thinking, I can boldly express my feelings. Physiologically, a woman of this age is like a blooming flower. Although her physiological indicators have declined, her physical characteristics have reached the most fascinating stage in her life. In life, the optimization of family structure, including stable family income and adult children, has freed middle-aged women from hard work, and their sudden emptiness needs more emotional care.

When she travels alone, that is, she has no family or friends and no familiar people around her. She is in a short and unfamiliar environment. No one knows her real situation, and no one will reveal her situation during the trip. She can enjoy the fun of traveling most freely, chat carefree and vent her feelings to the maximum.

Traveling with a group shows that such women are not very bold and insecure. Only in a group do they dare to go to a strange environment.

To sum up, middle-aged women can't get the most timely and considerate care from their families, especially their husbands, because of physical changes and psychological gaps, so they need to find ways to vent their depression in their chests. Travel is a very effective way. Choosing a person to join the group not only ensures your own safety, but also can say whatever you want and play whatever you want, which is the most effective way to vent your feelings.

Some people worry that women of this age will have problems such as derailment when traveling. Although this worry is reasonable, in fact, if they sign up for a tour group, the probability will be greatly reduced. If a person does not sign up for a tour group and runs around, the probability of problems will greatly increase. The mother of a female classmate began to travel around alone after her daughter went to college. She is a real person. She left when she said it, and went the wrong way when she walked. Finally, she divorced and enjoyed her life, but her home was gone.

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I am over 60 years old, and I have had several experiences of traveling alone with a group. The reasons are as follows: First, I like traveling. I feel very happy when I walk on the road. Looking at the humanistic beauty of the tourist destination, you can glow with infinite reverie and enjoy the beautiful scenery of the motherland. Secondly, most people of our age are old and young, and not many people have time to travel, so there are few opportunities to get together and travel alone. Third, even if people of the same age can have time to travel, it depends on whether they lose their temper, because some people find fault when they go out, eat badly, live uncomfortably and so on. Going out with such people is not as good as having fun alone, so I went to travel alone. The fourth person's time is settled. I want to sign up for a group I want to go to today and then leave. Very casual. After several personal trips, I feel great. Everyone is unfamiliar the first day and familiar the next day. In addition, I think most people who love to travel are open-minded, high-quality and sociable. So it's good to meet new friends every time.