"Why do you betray your marriage when you have a wife?" What is the man's answer?

When we are young, we always indulge in worldly desires, grieve for our feelings, and even do things that hurt our families. Only after experiencing some changes in the world can you completely put down your greed and live a down-to-earth life, otherwise you will never be content.

That's human nature. The people around you are perfect and excellent, but after getting along for a long time, you will gradually lose the freshness of her and pursue something different.

There are many people in this world who are not satisfied with their present situation. Obviously, I have a happy family, but I am picky and blindly become a demon, and I suddenly lost a good family.

People's nature is to pursue novelty, and they won't have too much patience with people who are already around.

This also reminds women that you should understand that feelings are fluid, and when you love another man, I hope you can leave yourself a way out.

If one day he abandons you or does something wrong to you, you will have a way out and won't be homeless.

02

Gangzi and his wife have a campus romance. At the beginning, they were perfect, and many people envied that Gangzi could finally marry his wife.

In the second year of marriage, they had children, and the three of them were happy, which was also a very happy thing.

This happy married life lasted for five years.

Gradually, Gangzi was dissatisfied. He thinks that a woman is no longer beautiful, and she has been together for a long time and watched it for a long time. That's it. It's nothing strange.

Even though many people outside envy him, he still doesn't know when he will be blessed.

In the sixth year of their marriage, Gangzi and his subordinates were somewhat ambiguous. They often work together, but they look up and see each other. After a long time, Gangzi felt that his subordinates had a lasting appeal, which was different from his wife's.

On the surface, they are superiors and subordinates, but in private they are lovers.

But the company is a mixed place, with everyone. It is not easy to hide love.

There is no lack of gossip in the company. Once Gangzi went to work with her female subordinates, arm in arm, far away from the company.

But even this situation was seen by some people in the company and became the laughing stock of their company after dinner.

03

He didn't admit it at first, because he knew that once he admitted this relationship, it would be a very heavy blow to his future career.

However, his subordinates are not stupid. I've been with him for so long, I just hope I can become a regular one day. But at the last minute, Gangzi's expression of denial completely annoyed her.

The other party found out everything between them, and at that time just became the target of public criticism and was spurned.

And his position in the company is naturally in jeopardy. Later, a good friend of his once asked him: Your wife is so beautiful and virtuous that many people envy your happy family. Why did you betray her?

Just son said a sentence:

You all envy my marriage, but after getting along for a long time, I can't see the advantages of my wife. In daily life, I find that I have lost interest in her. I also know that I shouldn't betray her, but I can't help it. It's not my style to let me spend my life with a woman. It's all my own fault that I'm in this situation. I don't blame anyone but myself.

What Gangzi said is really realistic. That's what men do. They are naturally curious and fickle. No matter how good a woman is, she can't stop him from stealing vegetables.

After a fresh relationship, he will feel bored and want to do something different, that is, no matter how good the flowers at home are, they are not as good as wild flowers.

The dull life day after day can't rekindle the spark of love, only a fresh enough life can make him passionate. He may have been looking for something new all his life.

But after going through a series of things, he will find that no matter how strong the love was at the beginning, it will be the same after a long time. Life has returned to the usual triviality, and feelings have reached a new round of exhaustion. It's better to find a wife.

From these behaviors of a man, we can see that from beginning to end, he is looking for the most beneficial lifestyle for himself. He lost his freshness at home, went out to find another woman, lived badly outside, and wanted to find a wife back.

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What should women do in the face of men's nature of liking the new and hating the old?

Feelings are full of fluidity. Maybe at the beginning of marriage, you don't know what will happen to each other in the end.

But a clever girl, from the beginning, has slowly learned to let go of dependence. No matter how much she loves this man, she will not give up her ability to make a living independently for him, and she will not give up her motivation to study and progress independently for him.

Her world is icing on the cake with him, and she can live better without him.

It is a girl who has such consciousness that the men around her are single-minded to her.

For those women who forget to improve themselves, they put all their fate on men. When the other party abandoned her, she found that her sky had fallen, and she complained.

Yi Shu said that all love is to be together, but everything is complementary. After two people are intimate, the novelty will gradually disappear, and everything will gradually become dull and less exciting.

Too plain love, many people can't stand it. When you are lonely, they often do things that are not good for your feelings.

In order to prevent the outbreak of these unfavorable situations, I hope that women can always stay awake and leave a way out for themselves.