Dayan children photography

A boy, who has just turned 1 1 years old, is less than three months old, and the condensed universe in his body is exploding every minute!

The family members, especially the parents of the two administrators, looked at each other, which was quite chaotic!

1 1 years old, he dared to anger and threaten: "Okay, okay, it's all my fault! I'm just a pile of shit. Well, I'm an asshole! "

Twice I went upstairs angrily and said that he had a headache and was going to sleep, leaving an angry pair of parents looking at each other in the kitchen!

One: direct exchange of fire between father and son:

Dad called Adi when he was in the supermarket to see if there was any bread flour in the kitchen drawer. If there is, he doesn't have to buy it. Artie's brother probably casually said no! When dad bought it back, he saw an opened box in the drawer and said, Artie, would you take a closer look? I also called you specially! German men are very planned, and the planning of the old man is distorted by his son. Of course 100 people are unhappy. )

Artie's brother jumped up and said, "It's wrong for me to help you, man. It's all my fault. Well, mom and sister won't help you or bother them! " "

Dad was also a little irritated: "smelly boy, you just don't care about this kind of thing." Are you playing with your mobile phone again, so you are absent-minded! " "So, I poked Adi's brother's hornet's nest:" Mobile phone, I didn't play mobile phone, I just watched TV! " "

When eating, my mother sat down downstairs and asked, "Artie, did you just quarrel with your father?"

Ok, I poked his hornet's nest again and jumped up directly: "My fault, my fault, don't ask, it's all my fault, I'm just a pile of shit!" " "

I am not only angered this time, but also angered, nnd. I just want to ask you, are you sure you can provoke your parents so impudently? !

(Later, Adi explained that he spent the night at his classmate's house, didn't go to bed until 4 o'clock in the morning, and went home early in the morning to play football. He was so tired that his father wronged him to play with his mobile phone, so he showed anger! )

Two NianLia hand-to-hand combat;

Niangsa Ski Resort has been taking classes for three hours in one breath, and I'm really tired to death! After my mother finished class, I strolled to the parking lot. After wandering around a few times, Xiong Haizi suddenly saw his younger brother standing there, and his sister was a little slow. The distance from my mother at that time should be twenty or thirty meters. Mother was very happy to see her brother waving. Before I could say goodbye to the reunion, my brother suddenly waved my mother over. I looked at him and the parking lot, and I dragged myself.

My brother suddenly threw crutches and gloves on the ground and said loudly, "None of you helped me. I can't carry so many things alone. I don't care! " "Say that finish, he threw his cane and gloves to the ground and left. . . .

Mother was also angered by the smelly boy and stopped the sweet girl loudly: "Leave his things alone and let him pick them up!" " "

Sweet girl looked at her mother and made a pleading expression. She picked up her brother's crutches and gloves in slow motion. My mother must come to help the girl. She has many helmets, skis and walking sticks. . . .

Sweet girl is about to cry, too: "mom, I ache all over." We haven't rested for three hours! Mother hugged the little girl and kissed her forehead, praising her for skating well. Mom saw it! Sweet girl choked and said, "Adi skates well, too, and the coach praised him several times"!

When we walked to the parking lot, my brother apologized to my mother first, and then said thank you, sister! My mother told herself, "Don't talk, don't talk. At this moment, it is really rude and temperamental, not to mention rational! "

Everyone had dinner on the way and parked their car when they got home. My sister and father got off the bus first. Adi's brother apologized again, saying that he was sorry for throwing away his crutches. Mom said not to do this next time! Seeing the chocolate wrapping paper they ate in the back seat of the car, it is easy to say that you should take the garbage out of the car, too!

Artie has a coat, gloves, hat and scarf in his hand. His instinctive reaction was that he couldn't eat it, but he blurted out, "I didn't eat it alone." Why do you always let me pick up garbage? It's so unfair! "

Mom also has a bomb that explodes at the touch of a button. Adi likes to explode most. She has to tell her sister everything. The warmth just now turned cold at MINUS 20 degrees, and her voice increased by 50 decibels. She said, "You can run twice, or put on your coat and free your hands. Can you find a way to solve the problem first, instead of pulling these unfair things everywhere! "

Artie jumped again. He bit his hat in his mouth. 100 The humiliated person picked up the garbage and threw it into the trash can. As soon as he entered the door, he shouted, "Why is it all me? Every time I do something wrong, I am just a pile of shit! "

The explanation of this matter is that his feet are very painful because of his shoes. When class was over, he was tired, thirsty and hungry. He just wanted his mother to help. When he saw that his mother refused to come, all his emotions were concentrated. . . )

In the afternoon, my mother was busy correcting homework. The lovely girl and her brother are watching TV in the living room. Before dinner, Adi's brother silently went upstairs to find his mother: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't lose my temper today, I'm just too tired!" " I will tell myself not to get angry next time! "

Mom said that if you want to understand, you should apologize. Mom accepted. If your sister suggests you apologize, mom wants you to think again and then we can talk!

My mother clearly told Artie, "My mother won't quarrel with you in the future. I will choose to keep my mouth shut and change rooms in the future. My mother doesn't want to be super angry and hurt you, or I will be so angry that our mother will fight with me! "

Here, I want to sincerely thank sweet girl, she is really an angel girl. Every time my mother and my brother raise their voices, she is the first to shout stop! If she knew what was going on, she would have a reasonable arbitration: Artie, you should apologize first. You shouldn't talk to your mother so loudly. . . Mom, you also apologize. You shouldn't get angry so quickly! . . .

Sometimes, Adi and her mother are as stubborn as Uncle Niu's relatives. She will not be discouraged once, and she will play the card of reason twice. The third time, she will move her true feelings: "If you make trouble like this, your hearts will hurt each other and my heart will hurt." She will cry when she says this. My mother is the one who can't stand her crying the most. She will immediately go back and hug her and apologize to her first. . . .

Many times I think that there are some smelly and hard things in the bones of mother and son, but sweet girl doesn't. She is a hearty girl, and her heart and appearance are transparent!

Three: a ski resort to bury the hatchet;

When he was ready to go out at 8 o'clock in the morning, his father was quite worried and said, "Mom, are you sure it's okay for you to drive the children to class by yourself?" Besides, I can't help you if you two quarrel again! "

Ah Di said with a sunny face: "Don't worry, Dad, I promise I won't quarrel with my mother today. I will help my sister more." Today I want a rainbow in my head! " "Rainbow will be good on your head, but lightning is hard on your head! )

It takes 50 minutes to drive to the ski resort. My mother also outlined her strategy for today, and told herself to play games with Xiao Ye in a different way today. It's no use smashing her throat!

He remembered that Adi could tell many jokes and said, "Adi, please tell us jokes. Can you write down your jokes?" ? Mom can recite, and next time mom will tell jokes in German! "Adi's brother came in:" Mom, I wrote it for you, and I made up many jokes about blondes myself. I will write it down for you! " "

Along the way, Adi's brother told many German jokes, and his sister told several. Mom laughs at every popular joke, and many of them rhyme. Mother chose a few to explain to the children, and then mother told them how to say Chinese!

When I arrived at Xueyuan, my mother gave Adi a big hug and said, Thank you for telling us jokes along the way. I hope you can help look after your sister in class today! The little boy agreed happily.

Today, my brother and sister took the cable car up the mountain for the first time. It snowed heavily in the morning, and then it was foggy. Many times, my mother has been looking for where their regiment is! It's almost past 10. My mother saw my sister fall when she was climbing the cable car. My brother and coach couldn't see it! Mother threw the cable in half and slid to her sister's side. The chicken sat in the snow crying and said not to slip. The mountain is too steep for her to control the speed.

Mother helped the chicken stand up, climbed on the snowboard and showed the chicken that she should slide horizontally from left to right. If she thinks it's too fast, she won't slide up the hill. And remember to brake with pizza! Sweet girl dried her tears and slowly began to skate with her mother again. At this time, the coach came and said that the sweet girl followed him and the other children followed her down the mountain!

I met several children at the cable car station. Sweet girl always goes up the mountain alone, saying that wrestling is not easy. Adi's brother once fell off a cable with his friend on the way. When his mother passed by, she asked him if he needed help. He smiled and said, "No problem, we will wait for the coach here, mom, don't worry!" " "

I took a photo of my sister wrestling, and my brother came back to help her, not only pulling her up, but also helping her put on a snowboard, and then taking her down the mountain first!

At the end of the class, mom walked on the road and the children walked on the grass, especially sneaking behind the car to see their brothers and sisters. My sister took off the snowboard in the snow, and my brother waited by, then took up my sister and gloves to move on. . . . .

When I changed my shoes and went to the parking lot, my mother hugged my brother and sister around: "We are all great. All three of us successfully participated in today's class. My mother is very proud, and my sister is really great. I am not afraid of wrestling. You can continue your class after crying! My brother is the best today, not only helping my sister all the time, but also not losing his temper! "

When I got home safely, my brother took the initiative to untie the bread paper tape when he got off the bus. He also said meaningfully, "Mom, I'm not angry today, and I don't need you to remind me to take the garbage out of the car!" " "In addition to trying to praise, my mother is also trying to move! What a good boy! He is as warm as he wants when he is calm, haha!

Dad saw our mother stagger but came back with a happy face, and his eyes sparkled and said, "I smell it: you didn't quarrel today, did you?" Ha ha laugh

Lessons learned:

1, the child is a good child, and it is normal to encounter emotions! Parents are mortal, and it is normal to be angry. But trying to talk about things and communicate in time, instead of leaving behind or overstocking emotions, escaping or ignoring them, is not scientific parenting!

2, all emotions have sources and exports! The key to solving the problem is to find out the ins and outs of children's emotions with your heart on the road of raising children!

Parents and children need to keep learning, but don't be afraid of encountering difficulties and challenges! The process of solving problems is the process of getting better!

4, the flood should not be blocked, and the problem of children is the same. Guidance and guidance are more effective than suppressing yelling, and the best way to always use it is praise. The more praise, the better; the more criticism, the worse!

5. Affirming children's advantages and giving them certain tasks can make them more responsible. (In the morning, mom changed her strategy: Affirm that Adi is good at telling jokes and let him take care of her sister! Trusting children is more useful than any nagging! )

6, grateful to meet children, meet children is to meet a better self!

The two girls were furious and burst into tears. After the confrontation and confrontation with live ammunition, the weather was sunny and smiling. This process is the only way for psychology to "run in the emotional spiral"!

Dear brother Artie, we all love you. Let's explore a more scientific and stable "emotional management method"!

Fan Xiao: Former media person, good at brand promotion and large-scale event planning. He raised children 1 1 year, and moved to Germany to take care of the baby full-time in 20 10/year. During this period, he was active in the fields of children's photography/writing/cultural exchange, and wrote the best-selling book of parenting, Mom, please love me like this in childhood. Meeting children means meeting a better self, and leaving home is the best travel.

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