Wedding custom in Longsheng Town, Beiliu, is it safe to be a bridesmaid?

Metaphysical knowledge and precautions of being a bridesmaid and best man

1. Will being a bridesmaid affect your marriage?

Q: Will being a bridesmaid and a sister after marriage affect your marriage?

a: what I have said, do as little as possible. Children are ok, it doesn't matter if children do this, but if they are a little older as bridesmaids, if it is possible from the perspective of life, they will be married once. If this person is a bridesmaid, it may lead to a future marriage ... Many women will never find a man after being a bridesmaid. After I talked about this last time, there was a lot of feedback. They said, "I was a bridesmaid when I was a child. Later, I have been unable to find a man and I am still single." So be careful with this.

2. Being a bridesmaid and best man in a wedding dress will break up the marriage. How to remedy it

Q: Master has stated that being a bridesmaid and best man will break up the marriage. So some people didn't understand this before, and they made bridesmaids several times, and they all wore dresses. Excuse me, master, is there any remedy?

a: it's up to her to recite the scriptures and keep talking and repenting with avalokitesvara. After I talked about this last time, there was a lot of feedback. Many children say, "No wonder my marriage has been bad all my life, and I never got married once." Some people have bad luck, and their marriage will always be bad. Why? She's already married. For example, fortune tellers say that you have been married twice, she has been a bridesmaid for three times, and she has no marriage. Talk about one blowing and one blowing, and that's it. I don't understand. There was no master in the past. How about not listening (yes, we didn't understand in the past)? I kept chanting sutras and said to Guanyin Bodhisattva, "Every human fetus, I am so-and-so ..." First, I should talk about "every human fetus", because the protector forgave you first. "Every human fetus" means telling Bodhisattva, "Do you know Bodhisattva? I'm not a bodhisattva, I'm a human being, so please forgive me, Bodhisattva. "Then the Bodhisattva will know that people will make mistakes. For a simple example, the dog did something wrong. As soon as the dog shed tears, you immediately thought, "Oh, it's a dog, forget it." Isn't that right? (I see, thank you for your kindness.)

3. What should I do to be a best man and a bridesmaid to avoid losing my marriage?

Q: Fellow practitioners want to ask Master whether being a best man or a bridesmaid will give up their feelings. The bridesmaids or groomsmen who become friends usually have a good relationship. Fellow initiates want to attend but don't want to be bridesmaids, so how can they refuse to attend the wedding satisfactorily?

a: actually, don't refuse. Tell the other person not to wear that kind of dress, because bridesmaids and groomsmen wear wedding dresses. This is not good. If you don't wear a dress, it doesn't matter if you stay with him (oh, just don't wear a dress). You should drop it after you wear it. If this person has only one marriage in her life, if she wears a wedding dress, then her marriage will not succeed, and she should be dismissed, and then she will not succeed in finding any man. That's it. If there are two times in her penis, then she wears it once, maybe that time will be more formal and will last forever, so the problem depends. It's best not to wear a wedding dress, so it doesn't matter if you are with her. Do you understand? Because many bridesmaids and groomsmen are a bunch of bridesmaids and groomsmen. Master, can you tell avalokitesvara when you attend? It's no use talking about it, because you made it yourself. Your problem now is that if you talk to avalokitesvara about something, it will be gone. That's impossible. For example, if you do a bad thing now, "Avalokitesvara, I stole something today, you know, please forgive me, I really have nothing to eat at home", do you think it is a crime? You said today: "I became a bridesmaid today, and I should give myself up. Please ask the Bodhisattva not to give up." Because this is a natural principle, bodhisattva doesn't move cause and effect, don't you understand? It is very difficult for you to move this thing yourself and ask the bodhisattva to help you get rid of it. It doesn't matter if you wear a suit and tie next to him (just wear ordinary clothes). Well, it doesn't matter if you wear an ordinary suit. It's not a big problem for men. Women must not wear wedding dresses, because many bridesmaids also wear wedding dresses, which is weird and will be discarded (just wear ordinary clothes and stand by, right? ) right. You can dress better, that kind of fancy clothes, standing next to her beautifully and joyfully, are just bridesmaids (I know, thank you for your kindness)

4. Questions about being a bridesmaid

Q: Master, is it difficult for a girl to get married after being a bridesmaid for three times?

a: that's not true. first of all, it depends on how many times this person has to get married, and some of them have done well as bridesmaids. There was once a person, and Master saw that there should be two or three marriages in her life, but it was good that she had only one in her life, alas! That's strange. Then Master helped her look at the totem. When she saw that she had been a maid of honor twice, she should have been rejected twice. In the old society, there was a custom that if the fortune teller said that she would divorce in the future, she would let the child be the maid of honor. If she should be dismissed, she would be the only one in the future. But you've done too much, so I'm sorry, even your own marriage should be broken, and you can't get married (ok, I'll let her listen to the recording tonight, and she really wants to get through Master's totem phone call)

5. How many marriages have you had in your life?

Q: You often say how many marriages have you had in your life. If she goes to be a bridesmaid, will she go there once or twice?

A: If you often take part in several important events in the world-marriage, childbirth and death, you will know about them in the world, so the retribution is more severe. Of course, it is not necessarily a bad thing, and there are all kinds of rewards. Being a bridesmaid will eliminate many things, for example, five men in your life torture you, treat you badly, and then dump you after catching up ... If you are a bridesmaid often, you may lose it. If you only get married once, it is not good to be a bridesmaid often.

6. About being a bridesmaid

Q: Let me ask you a metaphysical question. It is said that a girl who has been a bridesmaid for more than three times can't find a husband. Is this correct?

a: this makes sense. When people get married, you dress up like a bride. In fact, in metaphysics, it belongs to "should be dropped". If it is dropped, it is gone. It has already been done. Be a bridesmaid, maybe you still have a marriage life, and you can get married again; If the bridesmaid does it twice or three times, one person will get married at most three times, and it will be gone.

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