I treat you as a friend, but you don't like me.

"I take a good photo, and many photographers will ask me what equipment I use. When I take a photo, many photographers will say that my technology is poor!"

Why can't people always see themselves?

Because you get better, they will look depressed, and their little hearts can't stand it, so they have to pull you into the water to balance their mentality.

I have a friend who likes to wear all kinds of beautiful clothes, so she chooses to be a model.

She likes to share selfies, work videos, food, travel and so on in her circle of friends. Through her circle of friends, I am glad that she can engage in her favorite career.

But the last time I talked to her, I felt that her mental state was not very good.

She said, "I dare not make friends now."

I said, "Haha, I'm getting old."

She said: "This is not true, because there are always people who will say that you don't have to lick these photos all day. Everyone knows that you are doing well. You said, isn't this a mockery of me? "

I said, "live a good life, there are always people who are jealous." Why care about their eyes? You don't live for them. "

Yes, in our circle of friends, we will share some good selfies or things we find interesting and novel with our friends, but it also attracts some people's cynicism.

Whether joking or intentional, Meimei's mood is affected instantly.

Such people are typical. You are not necessarily better than him. Once you feel that your life is colorful, they will be afraid, afraid. Compared with their boring life, they will feel that their existence is threatened. So, you have to get a slap and seek some psychological comfort, or you will die.

Let's talk about a buddy around me who grew up playing. In the past two years, he started an e-commerce, earned a little money, bought a house in Guangzhou, and his life became rich.

Last time I went back to my hometown, someone in the town talked about him.

Some people say that he suddenly became rich when he was young. I guess he did something not very clean by some means.

Some people say that he may have grabbed some thighs, kissed his ass and followed.

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I still remember a few friends chatting at that time. When he talked about this, I could see that he was angry and wronged.

No wonder, I get up early and get greedy for the dark, and my day and night work has become opportunistic and flattering in the eyes of others.

Why do we always have such a group of people who are not as good as you?

Because they not only want to comfort themselves, but also because they are unwilling.

I don't want to be low because I don't work hard, and I don't want to be eliminated by society and struggle.

A lot of people do. When they see you getting better, they don't want to get better, but think about how to drag you into the water, just like themselves.

However, can this really slow you down?

No, you will only get better and better. You will work harder and have a broader mind.

Those people will only get worse. They can only ridicule the losers and curse the winners in the dark swamp, but they get nothing.

Yuji Guangzhou