"Desert Flower": When you meet someone you like, confess your feelings. Unfortunately, if you are rejected, give up.

I recently took the time to watch "Desert Flower"/The film is adapted from the best-selling autobiography of Somali black model Waris Dirie/It tells the story of Waris's emergence from the Somali desert/to becoming the world's top The Story of a Supermodel/

Of course, the film is about circumcision, but it’s not just that.

A benevolent person sees benevolence, and a wise person sees wisdom.

A thousand readers, a thousand Hamlets.

Let me talk about love.

A common topic. When you meet someone you like, confess your feelings. *^_^*

1. Wallis finally became a world-famous model and stood at the top of her fame.

She finally no longer feels inferior, is no longer shy, and no longer shrinks back.

She is now recognized as the most beautiful woman in the world, and countless men want to have her.

She even has international status and considerable wealth.

But the white moonlight in her heart is always the only one.

Harold Jackson.

They met at a dance and only had a brief relationship.

The time we spent together was less than half an hour, and we didn’t even chat a few words.

Hualisi ran away in despair. What is she afraid of?

Born in the barren Somali desert, she underwent an inhumane circumcision when she was three years old. When she was twelve, her father married her off to a sixty-year-old man for five camels. He walked barefoot through the desert to escape from marriage, and was displaced due to the war.

Is it because of these?

Or is it because she reveals that she lives on the streets and doesn’t even speak English.

She picked up the piece of paper with Jackson's address many times and put it down countless times.

Thinking about it.

Never forget.

2. Later, Wallis Dili was discovered by a famous photographer while working in a restaurant. Later, she swept London, Paris, Milan, and New York and became the most dazzling black pearl in the fashion industry.

She finally mustered up the courage to go to London to find her dark horse prince.

Even waiting for the door to open was uneasy.

She thought about the scene of their reunion probably tens of millions of times.

Finally, the eternal hero in his heart opened the door, with his beautiful wife standing next to him, and said lightly, "Hello, who are you looking for?"

Yes, He has forgotten her.

Now Hualisi has become a better person, even so good that she is unique and irreplaceable. However, the person deep in my heart had already completely forgotten about her.

Will you be disappointed? Probably so. Will you regret it? You will regret it for the rest of your life. Then why didn't you make an effort earlier?

"Why choose a secret love?"

Whenever I hear this answer from many people, I can't understand it.

"I have low self-esteem. I am not worthy of him or her."

"I think he or she deserves someone better."

"Wait I will confess my feelings when I get better."

"I will work hard in his direction, even if I fail, my youth will not be wasted."

Hey, girl, don't fool yourself. Okay?

Hey boy, you are just making excuses for your cowardice.

You can guarantee that when you become better, the other person will still be standing still, waiting for you.

Or, you have been silently in the corner, waiting for time to dilute your love, and then keep it as a memory for the future, or regret it for the rest of your life.

3. I used to particularly like a book, "I Don't Like This World, I Only Like You" by Young Master Qiao Yi. There is this passage in the book:

I When I was the most ignorant, I once told him, go away, you will find a better person.

He replied with something that still shocks me. He said: "I never want anyone better, I just want the person in front of me. When will you understand."

The moon on the sea is the moon in the sky, and the person in front of you is your sweetheart.

4. Many people know that Eason Chan has a song "Under Mount Fuji", written by Lin Xi.

However, few people know Lin Xi’s famous “Mount Fuji Love Theory”.

"Actually, liking someone is like liking Mount Fuji. You can see it, but you can't move it. Is there any way you can move Mount Fuji? The answer is, you can walk over it yourself. The same is true for love. , just strolling around is enough.”

Not to mention strolling around is enough.

First of all, you have to fight for it.

You have to work hard. If you don’t work hard, how will you know the result?

Even if the chance of success is very small, will it definitely fail?

You Is it God? Do you dare to conclude that all your estimates and considerations are 100% correct?

So what if you really fail to confess your love? If you don’t want to be friends, there’s no way you can be friends with the person you like! Otherwise, would it be obscene if you kept your contact information? They should still be kept and taken to the grave for burial after death.

Moreover, the chance of meeting true love in a person's life is so low. Meeting someone you like is really a gift from God.

5. My psychology teacher once mentioned this passage when she was talking about the "view of love" in a class. She said that when many people are in their forties or fifties, when they look back on the past, they will find that They had met the right person at the right age, but they just didn't make the effort due to various reasons.

Look, the most regrettable part of growing up is actually that we meet the most suitable person at the best age without knowing it.

Even if you know it, you don’t dare to make an effort.

6. So, when you meet someone you like, confess your feelings.

Don’t be too sad if your confession fails.

You make efforts, try, and try your best, but the result is not what you want or want.

Then give up.

Otherwise, do you have to hold the knife at all times and stab you to death if you fail to express your love?

You can be persistent but not paranoid.

Don’t be overly persistent.

I have seen too many people go all the way, pursuing the person they like for one year, two years, three years and ten years. They are exhausted, exhausted, and even feel that life is meaningless. And the other party also found it very annoying.

I can't make too many comments about these.

I can only express my views, have a correct attitude, do my best, and obey fate.

There is a poem in Jin Yong's "Book of Swords and Rivers", "Don't leave without looking back. Since you have no intention, I will give up."

Since you have no intention, I will give up.

This is the state I admire most.

Be open-minded and optimistic. At worst, wave your hand and say goodbye.

It’s better to have you. It’s a pity not to have you, but it’s also good.

7. Finally, I wish you be kind and be kind.

No matter mountains, rivers, lakes, seas, kitchens and love, you can find the future.

Postscript: After watching "Desert Flower", I was particularly shocked and angry. In fact, the film contains many things, not just circumcision, but the biggest theme of the film is also circumcision. Many people have already discussed this topic, so I chose a more cliché level, the love level. If there is any bias, please correct me.

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