Who can gossip about Dou Jiang Weixin's Faye Wong Plateau?

About the beginning of Faye Wong and Dou Wei, we have to start with Dou Wei's ex-girlfriend Rulu.

When Rulu was a female college student, she accidentally stepped into the rock circle and met Dou Wei. According to Rulu, when they first met, Dou Wei touched her, but at that time she only liked tall and handsome boys. Dou Wei was a little far from this goal and didn't take it to heart. That night, Dou Wei gave her an early warning to stay away from his friends, because they would "eat" her. She didn't listen to Dou Wei's advice. Not only did she get close to those people, but she even dropped out of school. A year later, she and Dou Wei met for the second time. He took her to a house rented by a friend, and they began to fall in love, and soon moved to Dou's house to live together.

Many years after they broke up, Rulu wrote an autobiographical novel, Days with Long Hair, about her love affair with Dou Wei, including Faye Wong. Later, Rulu said in an interview with the media that the D in the novel is Dou Wei and Faye Wong is called "her".

In fact, they have known each other for a long time, but at that time, everyone had their own lives, their own feelings and nothing to do with each other. As for her, I only know that she has left Beijing, flew back to see her boyfriend occasionally, and met her at some parties several times, that's all.

H band went to her place to perform, and when she came back, she heard that she had broken up with her boyfriend. But of course it has nothing to do with me.

Then, one afternoon, I was alone at home, and the postman sent me a parcel pick-up slip, but she wrote it at the sender's place. This surprised me a little, because she and D never seemed to have any contact before. D and I had a good time, so we didn't think much. It's just weird. What will she send him? D came back, I gave him the list, and he went to the post office to get something back. That's a CD record and a beautiful hat, in addition, there is a letter. D opened the letter, read it, and then generously gave it to me: "Are you jealous?" He smiled and leaned down to observe my expression, and found that I was a little unnatural (I wanted to pretend as if nothing had happened, but it would cost a lot of money to send such a big box of original CDs from so far away. Ordinary friends can be so generous? How can we completely turn a blind eye? ) "Don't be narrow-minded, huh?" D put a thread cap on me: "Isn't that enough?" Go and take a picture. Have a good look. "He kissed my cheek, made a famous face, and then opened those CDs with great interest. ...

I read the letter. Although he left me speechless, I couldn't help but look at it out of curiosity: it was two light blue stationery (if I were you, I would probably choose this color). The handwriting is clean and neat, nothing more than writing something that I have been in a bad mood recently ... Only in the end, she said, can you stop calling me Xiao X in the future?

This relationship was destined to be full of storms from the beginning. But, does Faye Wong in love know this?

According to Rulu, it is no secret that she and Dou Wei have lived together for several years. Faye Wong should know. So for some time afterwards, the media accused Faye Wong of being a third party.

In Rulu's view, Faye Wong is a latecomer, and it seems right for the media to accuse her of being a third party. But during the three years that Rulu and Dou Wei lived together in Faye Wong, Rulu and Dou Wei broke up several times. It is hard to say whether Faye Wong entered the life of Dou Wei during this period.

In her autobiographical novel, Rulu talked about a confrontation between her and Faye Wong.

It was a spring night. After Dou Wei left Panther, the self-built band was finally ready to debut after a secret training in winter. Before he left, Rulu personally made up for every member of the band. When leaving, Dou Wei repeatedly said, "You must go to the show and pay attention to it for me, listen to everyone's feedback and see if there are any problems." There was also a performance in Rulu that evening, so it was impossible to get there before the performance. Dou Wei said that he would negotiate with the organizers to push back their playing time as far as possible.

That evening, when Rulu arrived after attending his own performance, the performance was only halfway through, but Dou Wei's performance was over, and the rest of the band were there, but Dou Wei was nowhere to be seen. The band's teammates told Rulu that Dou Wei could "fly" a little (smoke marijuana) and would come back soon. Rulu didn't believe it. He waited while watching the performance. Until the last band performed, he still didn't see Dou Wei, and those teammates who were looking for him had already disappeared. Rulu's friend came forward to inquire and learned that Faye Wong flew back to Beijing that afternoon and came to the performance site. Dou Wei and Faye Wong left together.

Then, Rulu suddenly thought that Faye Wong stayed in a hotel every time he came back, so he called the hotel to ask and found Faye Wong's room number. She stopped a taxi and went straight to the hotel, and then went straight to Faye Wong's room regardless of the security guard's inquiry. In the bathroom of that room, Rulu met Dou Wei. He has just taken a bath and his hair is wet. The incident alarmed the hotel security department, and the three were taken to the security department office somehow. Faye Wong was a "foreign guest" and was soon allowed to return to his room. Dou Wei and Rulu were left until the next morning. After going out, the two walked silently for a while. Later, Dou Wei walked faster and faster, pulled away from her, started running forward, and then disappeared from her eyes.

According to Hong Kong media reports, Wang Fei went to Beijing whenever he had the chance. Later, people realized that she was going back to Beijing to fight this battle, and she had assumed a posture of winning without fighting and never giving up. Faye Wong later sang his feelings at that time with a song "Love": "Wind, fire and fire are vigorous, and our love is like a war. We didn't bleed, but we all sacrificed, buried the heart of martyrdom and ruined the wisdom of our life. "

This song is absolutely wonderful, and it has almost become a portrayal of all Faye Wong-style love.

1992 Faye Wong became popular, and then Faye Wong naturally became the target of media attention. Many reporters rushed to interview her, without exception, asking her about her views on love and the criteria for future boyfriends.

The reporter asked her what kind of love she hoped to get in the future. She admits that it is difficult to say clearly, mainly depending on whether she has feelings. Maybe she fell in love with the plumber in the elevator. The reporter asked her again, can you describe what your future boyfriend looks like? She said in a mysterious and happy tone, "There are no special conditions. However, you must know Mandarin. Also, I like people with narrow eyes and single eyelids, which are very ordinary northerners. " In fact, Faye Wong's words have let the cat out of the bag. Dou Wei is such a man. He is not handsome, but he is very personal, talented and independent.

1993, Faye Wong personally admitted the intimate relationship with Dou Wei for the first time. She said, "I can say that we are really close now." She also said that it was a "beautiful misunderstanding" for the Hong Kong media to identify her lover in Black Panther as Chang Kuan. She said, "that man is not Chang Kuan, he ... he was dragged into the water." It is interesting to say that it has never been Chang Kuan, suggesting that there have been at least two panthers, which is why I said this. People know more about this love affair in the future, and Dou Wei once said "conspiracy", so the outside world thinks that Faye Wong admitted this love affair is also a part of the "conspiracy". I prefer to believe that this is only a step, a strategy and a propaganda offensive to effectively use the media resources that Wang Fei can control. If it must be related to "conspiracy", it is an open plan rather than a conspiracy.

According to Rulu, she finally decided to quit the war because of a series of events in September 1994. Dou Wei didn't give her any explanation about the hotel incident before, but after a period of cold war and Faye Wong's return to Hongkong, they made up again. In this September, they had the opportunity to go to the cave, Rulu went to Shishi, Fujian, and Dou Wei went to Shenzhen. At that time, mobile phones were definitely a luxury for ordinary consumers. They can only agree to call Dou Wei's sister after checking into the hotel. But Rulu called back countless times a day, and Dou Ying replied that my brother had never called. Rulu realized that there is only one river between Shenzhen and Hongkong, and Dou Wei's mysterious disappearance must be related to Faye Wong.

He finally returned to Beijing. Unexpectedly, the next day, she also came to his humble home in a quadrangle in Beijing. At this time, Jiang Xin realized that she went back to Beijing with him, and they were already together.

Rulu wrote:

It was a sultry afternoon, and the sudden situation seemed to increase the humidity in the air ... It was a very strange day: three people actually sat at a table to eat, and then stayed under one roof until late at night. Of course, we seldom talk, but I know that everyone can't be calm inside ... He once said something as chaotic as talking to two girls and talking to himself. It was a long speech, and I can't remember the specific wording. This is what I've always wanted to say. I know I may be selfish, but today, I still want to say what I really think, no matter what you think. I know you love me, and I love you too. But, to be honest, I don't think there is a contradiction. I can give you anything you want from me, so I really don't understand why we should make ourselves miserable. I have been afraid to say these words, and I have been hiding them in my heart, because I am also asking myself: Is this normal? Is it correct? It's not that I have never overthrown myself and forced myself to make a choice. But after that, I always had a bad conscience ... I really felt that if it was because of love, it would be wrong to make any choice ... After that, he held my hand and hers respectively. I was sitting on the bed with my back against the wall, she was sitting on the sofa, and he was sitting in the middle chair. We didn't refuse. It's strange, as if we were trapped. He went on to say something, but I didn't say a word with her. Later, he stopped talking. Three people are so silent. I only talked to her once, when he went to the toilet. We all drank too much water that day, although we seldom talked, probably because we were bored. And I, he and she, have been very considerate to add water to each other's cups. She asked me, "Do you think he loves you?" I said, "I don't love, why are we together?" She said, "But that's what he told me."

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Later, late at night, she said she was tired and wanted to go to the hotel. He said he had to see her off. I didn't stop because I was tired, too. He still didn't come back that night, but I waited. The next day, he called back and said, "I'm sorry …" I said, "I just want to ask you a question. Do you love her? " He was silent for half a salary on the phone and then said, "love!" " "I said," then you'd better make a choice. Your ideal is too high. " He said, "That's what she said." He was silent for another half salary, and then said, "well ... I think she is." I'm sorry ... "I hung up.

Rulu reluctantly but helplessly back out. In this war, Faye Wong finally won a temporary victory.

At the first opportunity, Faye Wong flew back to Beijing, walked into Beijing's hutongs, walked into a small quadrangle, lived in a house in Rulu for four years, and secretly lived with Dou Wei. At this time, Faye Wong is no longer a superstar rising in Ran Ran, Ran Ran, but a happy little woman who cares about her ordinary husband. If the days go on like this, it will be the most classic modern fairy tale.

This is Faye Wong. For love, she can be desperate and give up everything.

1995 One morning in early summer, a Hong Kong reporter touched the quadrangle deep in the alley, waiting for a photo. At this time, one of the doors opened and a young woman in ordinary pajamas came out, with fluffy hair and hazy eyes. At first glance, this woman is no different from other women in any hutong in Beijing. After careful observation, it was discovered that she was actually the famous Faye Wong. Faye Wong's hand was carrying a spittoon with nocturia, and she tiptoed to the dirty and smelly toilet. The reporter quickly pressed the shutter in his hand and took this photo. This photo soon appeared in the media in Hong Kong, and the whole Hong Kong society made a fuss about it. Many people don't understand, Faye Wong. What is this for? A superstar with a net worth of tens of millions is willing to live this life?

We can't know Faye Wong's expression when she saw this photo, let alone understand her thoughts. However, we can feel her mood from her singing "I do".

I'm willing to do it for you, I'm willing to do it for you, I'm willing to forget my name for you/even if I stay in your arms for one more second, it's not a pity to lose this world/I'm willing to do it for you, I'm willing to do it for you, I'm willing to be exiled to the sky for you/as long as you really respond to me with love/I'm willing to do anything/anything for you.

Some people say that Dou Wei conquered Faye Wong's heart with music, which is quite credible. This year, Faye Wong released a new album "Perseverance without Regret", which is regarded as the beginning of Wang Dou's music cooperation and a portrayal of Wang Dou's love: this time, I stubbornly faced it, willfully indulged/I don't care, right or wrong/even if I was deeply involved, I was desperate/even if I was obsessed with it, I still insisted on no regrets/don't give up, I want to open my eyes/I want to see it with my heart and feel it with my heart. Let me insist/I'm not as perfect as you think/I admit that sometimes I can't tell the truth from the false/it's not that I don't want to get out of the maze/it's just this time, it's me, not who/whose heart I should use to feel the surroundings/even the pain, even the tears/my sadness/whose heart I can use to feel the surroundings/even the fatigue.

1994, Faye Wong finally made up her mind to give up the name Wang Jingwen imposed on her by others and restore Faye Wong's real name. Faye Wong, who changed her name, held her first solo concert, which set a record for a newcomer's concert with a performance volume of 18.

1995, Ye Xiang dumped by Faye Wong was still in the air, and Dou Wei and Rulu came together again. The media agreed that in 1995, Dou Wei and Rulu met again at the funeral of Zhang Ju, a guitarist of the Tang Dynasty band, and their old feelings rekindled.

According to Rulu, they never really ended. Rulu went to Changchun to sing, in order to escape for a period of time. But his clothes and other daily necessities are still in Dou Wei. When Faye Wong emptied the toilet in that quadrangle, he could see Rulu's clothes when he opened the closet. When winter came, Rulu had to send someone back to Beijing to get clothes. The man found Dou Wei. Dou Wei wrote a letter while packing her clothes. This is a special envelope for Dou Wei. On the front, there are two lines of English written by Dou Wei in the middle of their names. The top line says: let's

Make love! Behind it is a pot of green tea, still steaming. It says to love everyone at the bottom.

Others. On the back of the envelope is an enlarged plaster head with four lines printed on the lower right corner: countless messy wrinkles are the scales of years/spots of different sizes are memories of the past/this is a balanced and plain real life/creating a rich artistic life.

The letter was warm and touching, as if they had never had a conflict. The title is "Dear Xin" and the signature is Miss, Kiss-Love.

After Rulu returned to Beijing from Changchun, he lived in a rented house and never contacted Dou Wei again. Dou Wei had a lot of things to do, so naturally he didn't contact her. It was not until the winter of 1994 that Rulu met him very accidentally while running around the stadium. They sat in the box and said a few words without salt and light. Then at the end of the performance, Dou Wei offered to treat her to a snack, and Rulu followed him like a hypnotist. So they got in touch again, and he left her a message saying that he wanted to see her new house. After the Spring Festival, Dou Wei was ready to turn the agreement into reality, so she called her. They agreed to meet in the street garden, then go for coffee and have dinner by the way. The next step is to visit her new house. Naturally, he didn't leave until the next morning

Faye Wong had to continue to fight this love war. This year, she traveled around, shuttling between Beijing and Hong Kong. Even pushed off all the jobs that could be pushed off, and only those that could not be pushed off managed to fly back to Beijing. Faye Wong's agent explained that she was ill and had to go back to Beijing to recuperate. What reporters saw was that Wang Fei followed Dou Wei step by step. Dou Wei is busy with her work, while Faye Wong, like a girl in her first love, is sitting in the corner with a novel and watching happily and contentedly.

This circle will never be monolithic. Someone reported to the media that Dou Wei and Faye Wong had an affair, and reporters immediately surrounded Rulu. Rulu made a high-profile appearance and told reporters: "I really can't accept that Faye Wong will go to Faye Wong when he returns to Beijing. Faye Wong went to Hongkong, so he came to me. This relationship has been maintained for some time. "

This passage has puzzled all Filipino fans. They never thought that the story of the modern seven fairies and Yong Dong would become like this.

Dou Wei refused to respond to Rulu's remarks, but continued to hold Faye Wong's hand and make public appearances. The reporter asked him, who is the person you love? He said he only loved Faye Wong. The reporter asked him again, are you a playboy? He confessed that he used to be, but now he won't. Wang Fei responded to the theory of emotional change in one sentence: nothing has changed.

Really hasn't changed? Some people say that love is blind. Faye Wong at this time is obviously blind. She didn't see the man's heart behind the eternal vows.

Faye Wong has publicly admitted that she is a confused woman more than once. This is often the case in the world. I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but I am only on this mountain. Anyone who can understand at a glance is confused. If a confused woman has been confused, it is hard to say that it is not a kind of happiness. What she fears most is that one day she will have to wake up from sleepwalking.

After more than a year, a child came unexpectedly. When Faye Wong realized that some changes had taken place in her body, it was the most tense time when she and British Sao Ling launched their own special album "Impetuousness". This album, which is greatly influenced by Dou Wei, is full of Dou Wei's shadow. She hopes to regard this as the best gift for Dou Wei and an eternal witness of their love. During that time, she often traveled between Britain, Hong Kong and Beijing, and took this opportunity to make an appointment with the hospital for abortion. However, due to unexpected changes, she had to inform the hospital that the agreed operation could not be carried out as scheduled. Unexpectedly, when she went to the hospital for the second time, the doctor told her that the fetus had been three months old and had taken shape. If she has an operation, she is afraid that her body will not support her and her life will be in danger.

Dou Wei then said to Faye Wong, "Let's get married!"

This is a typical "child marriage". As can be seen from some things later, Dou Wei was full of helplessness when he proposed. It is natural to get parents' consent and blessing for such an important matter as marriage. Faye Wong's staff has been busy for several days, and everything has been arranged for Dou Wei so that he can feast on his future mother-in-law. However, just as a group of people were sitting in the private room waiting for the arrival of summer, Dou Wei suddenly made a surprising speech. He said: "In fact, I am not a good person. You have to decide whether to marry me or not. "

This is obviously a retreat. When Chen Jiaying heard this, he got angry at once. He couldn't help being angry and asked Dou Wei, "Now I know that a good man is not a good man. What do you want? Do you want to marry her or not? " Chen Jiaying regards Faye Wong as his daughter, but this daughter is too strong and stubborn. She will have a crush on Dou Wei, and Chen Jiaying can't do anything about it. I've been angry for a long time, and now I'm venting it all at once. It is not only Chen Jiaying who is not worthy of Faye Wong, but also Na Ying's friends in Faye Wong and some staff around Faye Wong. At that time, all the dissatisfaction found a breakthrough, and they attacked Dou Wei in succession.

At first, Faye Wong also wanted to maintain Dou Wei's face, and he kept persuading his people there to forget it. But once the volcano erupts, it can't be closed immediately. Faye Wong's best friend is getting angrier and angrier, which will obviously show Dou Wei's faults. At this point, Faye Wong was also surprised that these things that he felt very romantic were so unbearable in the eyes of others? She couldn't bear it any longer and began to cry.

Perhaps, she should not cry at this moment, but should sing:

I think, I can always be so relative/several times, so I can't bear to sleep. /If you can give me a sincere absolute/Never mind, I don't care about anything. /The road ahead may be really unclear/You may feel tired after walking safely. /I may want to stop. /The darker the sky, the darker my heart. I saw your face/I heard your unspeakable vows. /At that moment, I

1July, 996, Dou Wei, Faye Wong got married. On the surface, Faye Wong became the ultimate winner of this love war. But she had no idea. Behind the victory, the dark tide is surging, and the clouds are light and the wind is light. After all, she beat back an open enemy, but she didn't know there was a hidden enemy around her.

As the best wedding gift, Wang Fei released the Mandarin album Impetuousness the month before, and his works include Impermanence, Impetuousness, Imagination, Anxiety, Where, Fallen, Disappointment, Doomsday and Wild Hillside. About this album, it can be said that there are both positive and negative comments. Such works are naturally unlikely to be sought after, and the market response is flat. Faye Wong herself said that in this disc, she does not pursue the market, but only pursues a kind of self, and interprets her understanding and interpretation of music with her personality. Later, when referring to her own work, she repeatedly stressed that this is her favorite work, and only this disc is the music she really wants to make.

Although this disc has not caused a strong effect in the Chinese music scene, it is becoming more and more famous overseas. Because of this disc, she appeared on the cover of Time magazine in the United States, becoming the second China artist to appear on the cover of Time magazine after Gong Li.