Why are young people increasingly anxious to find a good job and a girlfriend?

In the final analysis, it is one reason. Nowadays, young people, whether they are college graduates or not, are too impetuous.

I was born in 1985, and it's not our parents' time yet. My last high school was when I was highly educated. Now is not the time for our uncles and aunts to come back from college and become soldiers.

I graduated in 2008, when I studied mechanical manufacturing. After graduation, Foxconn came to recruit, saying that I hated being buried in the workshop, so I didn't go there at that time but went straight home. After returning home, I worried about my parents and stayed at home for more than half a year (like many graduates now). Later, my mobile company recruited, and I stumbled into the mobile company by mistake. At that time, the mobile company was treated well, with four dishes and one soup. Excluding the probation period of one month (326), the basic salary plus commission for one month after becoming a full member will probably be 1800. So I worked for a year or so and transferred from the front desk to the background, mainly responsible for the construction of rural outlets. At that time, I went to the countryside if I had nothing to do. I went to the countryside to eat and drink with those dealers. To tell the truth, I don't like this kind of life, so I resolutely quit my job. I didn't discuss with my parents at that time, which made them very angry.

Later, I worked in Liaohe Oilfield and Xinglong Family. I was a good company at that time, but I didn't work long. To put it bluntly, I was impetuous and didn't annoy my parents. After I quit Xinglong, I went directly to Lhasa by bus the next day. At that time, I talked to someone and introduced me a lot. Personally, I am 188. I'm not ugly. I also like playing ball and taking pictures. The conditions are ok. I was in love at that time, but I didn't pay attention to it. At that time, I wanted to find someone with 170, and my hobbies were similar, but I never met them.

Looking back, I was in a bad mood. I've always wanted to earn more money and have a lot of time to go out to play. In fact, there is no such occupation except those who travel as their profession. At that time, I was ignorant and naive. I didn't know until I was older, except Xinglong, all other units are quite good, and it is particularly difficult to get in now. How difficult it is for graduates to find a good job now!

Later, I went to Lhasa twice and thought about it for many days on the road, and I understood some truth. After coming back, I feel that if I want to improve myself, I have to work hard to improve my quality and do what I should do now, instead of aiming too high. If you improve yourself, someone will automatically introduce you, and you can get to know more excellent girls through your social circle. I can't believe you can't meet a girl you like? It takes hard work to strike while the iron is hot. I advise those confused graduates and those confused young people not to worry. It is king to do your own thing with peace of mind. When it is in full bloom, the butterfly will come!

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If you are seriously anxious, it is recommended to go to the hospital for treatment.

Anxiety, insomnia, depression, this is step by step, mutual influence. According to research, more than 80% patients with depression will have symptoms of anxiety and insomnia. Anxiety and insomnia can lead to depression.

I know an old Chinese doctor. His prescription for treating depression is to recuperate insomnia and anxiety first. No matter how serious insomnia and anxiety are, it will be effective on the same day and will be solved for a few hundred dollars.

With the intensification of social pressure, people have all kinds of things to worry about and worry about every day. Even fear of tomorrow, fear of the future, panic all day, occasional anxiety can be alleviated by some methods, but how should long-term anxiety be adjusted?

First of all, let's understand what anxiety is. Anxiety is a neurological symptom. The tension of an objective object is full of uncertainty.

Long-term insomnia will not only upset, dry mouth, but also lead to sudden death.

It is urgent to relieve stress and eliminate anxiety.

According to the survey, more than 90% people are anxious, and 54% people are anxious every day.

Among them, 36% people suffer from mental illness and coronary heart disease due to long-term anxiety.

1. First of all, the most obvious harm is that it will lead to insomnia.

Being in a worried mood for a long time can't get rid of it, nor can I stabilize my nerves, thinking about it day and night. Then, it is difficult to have a good sleep at night and fall asleep in time, and it is easy to wake up in the middle of the night. Insomnia and anxiety will slowly crush a healthy body.

2, leading to sudden death

Anxiety and irritability are likely to be accompanied by the risk of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular accidents, leading to sudden death. As far as life cases are concerned, news of sudden death caused by driving test anxiety has long been common.

3, prone to cancer

According to research, people's anxiety will directly affect the body's resistance and immunity.

When the body's resistance and immunity are reduced, cancer will take advantage of it. If you are depressed and anxious all day long once your life or career is frustrated, it is very easy to get cancer.

Cardiovascular diseases are caused by rapid heartbeat and high blood pressure.

When you are in a state of anxiety for a long time, or the anxiety you feel instantly, it will be accompanied by physical discomfort. The simplest, such as rapid heartbeat, high blood pressure, even chest tightness, shortness of breath, poor breathing and so on. In the long run, a series of cardiovascular diseases will occur.

At present, the lack of psychological counselors is obvious to all. Relatively speaking, psychological counselors or psychologists can change patients' cognition through professional psychological consultation, which is better for psychotherapy.

Why are young people increasingly anxious to find a good job and a girlfriend? I think on the one hand, it is our own reason, on the other hand, it is the environmental reason. Next, let's analyze it together and break it down one by one to get rid of anxiety!