26 years old, unmarried, no girlfriend, no job-high or low-what should I do?

Hello! Regarding career planning, many people don't like and are tired of their current jobs; Many people have worked hard for many years, jumping around, and found that they still haven't mixed up some tricks and can't see the hope of success; There are also many people who are disappointed with the whole industry environment and have no confidence. So, "Do you want to change careers? It seems difficult to change careers. Change to a new industry? Who will give me a chance without any experience? ! "This is a question that many people often think hard and never understand. We often say that there are three understandings of career change: 1, changing industries, 2, changing jobs, changing industries and changing jobs. Is it difficult to change industries? You can't generalize, the key depends on what position you are and what industry you transferred from. Whether you can successfully change careers depends on whether you have mastered the doorway. For example, in a regular financial position, generally speaking, it is not too difficult to change industries. Especially from a certain industry to some industries with little difference in accounting methods. Changing industries can't solve the fundamental problem. However, many people have changed many different industries and still have not solved the problem, and there is still no hope. Apricots are like this. After graduation from Xing University, I worked in Shanghai and Guangzhou. At first, I was assigned to a university as a cashier. I think this institution is too dull and lifeless to develop greatly. Later, I was transferred to a large state-owned electronics factory to do cost accounting. I found that doing well here is the same as doing badly, and there is no chance for development. Later, I joined a state-owned import and export company, but the situation has not changed much, and I still can't get the attention and promotion from the leaders. So I later transferred to a private consulting company and found that the company was very unstable and small, and I felt that I wouldn't have much room for development in it. Then she went to a multinational communication company, where she worked the longest. She likes the company's management style, which is standardized and everyone has clear responsibilities and greater power. They used ERP system, and she also learned a lot of financial software. The last one is a well-known domestic software company, doing general ledger accounting, which feels little different from the last one. In this way, apricot tried six unrelated industries, all of which were in finance, but still could not see the future, or did not solve the fundamental problem. At the same time, apricot feels that doing finance seems to have come to an end, and she doesn't know how to rise in this line. But my major is finance, and I don't have convincing capital to develop into other majors, no matter from diploma, vocational training to work experience. Her friends and relatives advised her not to give up her major. Every industry has its own stage. Many people can't see the future of their current jobs, so they want to change jobs and industries. In fact, the industry is not the key to the problem. Every industry needs talents in sales, marketing, technology, finance, administration and personnel. Many industries are suitable for most people. There is only one question: are you familiar with this industry, and then the development prospect of this industry is good. No matter what your personality and talent are, you can find a place in your chosen field or industry. Suppose you like movies and want to choose the film industry as your own development field. Your first instinct may be that this means that if I don't have the skills of an actor, playwright, director or film critic, there is no job for me in this field. That's not true. In this field called film, all kinds of skills are needed. On the cast list of each film, you can see the skills it needs-the names of these positions are as follows: fashion designer, makeup artist, hair stylist, photographer, lighting engineer, Andhadhun and sound editor, sound engineer, actor, musician, interior designer (setting the scene), carpenter (making the scene), painter (making the background) and so on. ), artists, computer animation designers (special purpose) the key to career change is job-hopping. For example, for Xing, under the guidance, she successfully applied to a company that does financial software and did training in financial software. This position can be said to be a brand-new position for her, but she is not only a person who has received financial training, but also has rich financial practical experience, including the experience of applying financial software. She only needs to convey what she thinks is right to others with her own talent and oral personality and appeal. I learned from her phone call last week that this time she really felt at home. Therefore, the key to changing careers is not to change industries, but to choose the position that suits you first. If you feel that your career development is not smooth, the first thing to think about is whether your position is suitable for your personality and talents. Changing careers is not as difficult as you think. You don't have to start in a completely strange field. You can stay in your familiar industry or field, all you need is to adjust your position slightly. I don't advise you to change industries. According to your situation, I think you should have some experience and skills in graphic design for three years, which should deepen your study in this field. Engaged in their own familiar industries. If you want to start exploring in a new industry, you should start studying again. Your graphic design experience, your own contacts, are not reproducible. Of course, sometimes opportunities come from different angles, so you need a pig machine.