Honey, what if someone is outside?

What should I do if someone is cheating outside my wife? I choose divorce. When my passion faded, only a piece of chicken feather was left. Men must take responsibility for their families. Once he changed his mind, he had to beat up and break up, and there was no way out. Now, what should I do if someone is cheating on me outside my wife? I choose the divorce technique.

What about people other than wives? 1 The source of women's sense of security is men's sense of responsibility. Avoiding responsibility and shirking responsibility will only make your wife lose trust in you and feel insecure, which is why she cheated! If your marriage is like this, it proves that your understanding of marriage is biased. You need a professional tutor to help you correct your cognition. Please add Uncle Guo as soon as possible and reply to "Marriage" to get 30 minutes of free consultation and guidance service from professional tutors. It is not difficult for our professional tutor to save the marriage. The difficult thing is whether you have the determination to save this marriage.

Hello, everyone, I'm Guo Shu's tutor, and my major is marriage recovery, the third party intervening, and the emotional intelligence of marriage improving. Help you get out of the marriage dilemma, untie each other's hearts and make your family complete and happy. The following is a real case of my student. I hope you can get some insights through this case and have some practical help for your marriage.

Mr. Wang: 32 years old, self-employed, monthly income 15K.

Lady: 3 1 year-old, company employee, with a monthly income of 4K.

Family background: My wife and I have been married for ten years and have an eight-year-old son. My wife is very kind to me. I had a car accident a few years ago and lost a lot of money, but my wife never left me. I vowed to take care of her all my life. From then on, I began to work hard to make money and want her to live a good life. My wife also works hard, but because she stayed at home for four years after giving birth and had no job, she was not confident in herself. I have been encouraging her, but she still changes jobs every year.

Last May, I asked her to find a job as a company clerk. She is doing well, and she is in a good mood every day. To this end, I am happy for a long time, because she finally has confidence. But reality slapped me, and later I learned that her happiness was not because of her work. ...

Story: Last August, I had to travel for three months for work reasons. During my three-month business trip, I will video chat with my wife every night. The first month was fine, but for the next two months, she was absent-minded every time she chatted with me. At that time, I thought it was because I had been with her for too long, so I felt particularly guilty and found nothing unusual.

But when I came back from a business trip, I found something was wrong. She has become particularly fond of dressing up and often goes to the toilet with her mobile phone. I'm a little skeptical that her cell phone never leaves her body every day. After a week, I really can't stand my doubts. While she was sleeping at night, I secretly looked at her mobile phone. When I opened the chat record between her and her boss, I suddenly collapsed, and it was full of particularly ambiguous chats.

I couldn't stand her "betrayal", so I woke her up at once and confronted her face to face. I didn't quarrel with her for fear of affecting the children. We talked all night, and she said that she didn't love me, and she fell in love with her boss. Anger, pain and confusion, these three emotions occupied my brain instantly. Although she later said that she could not bear to part with this family, let me give her some time. But when I saw her go to work the next day, I felt an indescribable pain in my heart.

Story ending: So far, she still works in that company. Every time I ask her what she thinks, she asks me to give her more time. But I really can't stand this pain. Every day when she comes back a little late, I feel uncomfortable and can't help calling her. Calling too much, she said I was watching her. What the hell should I do now?

If you are confused now and don't know what to do, please add a tutor and tell your tutor the details. For our professional tutor, whether it can be redeemed depends on your determination. As long as you are determined, your marriage problem is not a problem. After the problems in marriage and the anger, pain and confusion, I believe you have tried to save your marriage yourself. The result is self-evident, the success has not been redeemed, and even your relationship has become worse.

This happens because you have lost the ability to think rationally. After discovering that his beloved wife is cheating and experiencing all kinds of negative emotions, I finally find that I still can't let go and will try my best to save it. But you are still in the abyss of pain, can you still think rationally? You're an alcoholic now! Let alone saved! Your behavior will only make her more tired of you and push her further and further! Is this really what you want?

Therefore, the first thing you have to do is not to save it, but to keep your mouth shut and stop talking about cheating. I know this is painful for you, but if you have a wound on your arm and you keep touching it, what will happen? The result is that the wound is more serious! If you really want to save your marriage, the right thing to do is to shut up and learn to control your emotions first. Keep yourself in front of her, keep a positive and sunny state, and let her feel your change.

This step is painful, but it is the only way to save it! But now, it is difficult for you to control your emotions. It is easy to be influenced by other factors, thus giving up all previous efforts. You need someone to help you control your emotions, and you need someone to help you solve your negative emotions. Please add Uncle Guo as soon as possible, and tell your tutor your details, so that the tutor can help you control your emotions and solve your negative emotions. Tutors help you solve problems online 24 hours a day, and guarantee to provide you with solutions as soon as you encounter problems.

When finding out that their wives are cheating, most men will choose communication to save their marriage, but the result is not good. Why is this happening? Communication is indeed a way to save marriage, but before communication, it is necessary to observe whether the other person's emotions are suitable for communication.

There are four manifestations of the other person's emotions: which state do you think is suitable for communication? Obviously, it is the fourth state. Only in the fourth state, when she is in a state of positive sunshine, can she communicate well. Forcing communication in other States will only lead to the deterioration of your relationship, which is exactly the mistake that men often make. So before communicating, you need to observe whether she is in the fourth state.

What if she's not in the fourth state?

If she is not in a positive sunshine state, you need to guide her into a fourth state. You need to transmit positive energy and influence her bit by bit. This is the correct way to communicate. First pass positive energy to influence her, and then inject happiness to make the atmosphere between you relaxed and happy. Only when both sides are in a state of positive sunshine can we solve the problem through communication.

However, it is difficult and aggrieved to transmit positive energy at this stage. Because she hates you now, at the beginning, it is difficult for you to receive a good response, and even beat you and scold you. If you want a good response, you need to persevere. After all, your marital problems have existed for half a year, a year or even more than two years. Of course, it is impossible to solve the problem at once.

My students will often come to me at this stage. Speak ill of your wife and give up a lot. At this time, I will ask them, do you still want to save your marriage? For our tutor, the key to saving marriage lies in your determination. Self-confidence is given to you by your tutor. We have rich experience and professional ability, the only difference is your determination to save it! If you really want to save your marriage, now add Grandpa Guo and reply to "Happiness", and you can get the professional tutor 1 hour counseling service for free. As long as you make up your mind, your marriage problem is not a problem!

For men, the blow brought by the "third party" is enormous. It will make men feel deeply frustrated and even lose the goal of their efforts. But from another angle, the "third party" is actually a mirror! Its appearance is to tell you that the way you managed your marriage before was wrong!

What should I do if I find my wife cheating?

The appearance of a "third party" directly exposed all the problems in your marriage. This is a good opportunity, a chance to make your marriage more stable! You've missed many opportunities before. If you really want to save your marriage, do it now. Seize this opportunity to completely solve all the problems in your marriage and make your feelings unbreakable! Now add Uncle Guo and reply "Uncle Guo", and you can get the professional tutor 1 hour consultation and guidance service for free. The top ten students can also get temporary solutions tailored for you by professional tutors!

Wife, what if someone is outside? 2 what are the performances of wife's derailment? In the development of a relationship, the most troublesome thing is the person who has given up. It is no ordinary trouble to save each other's hearts. As the saying goes, a woman's tears are water in her head, and it is difficult to cheat when the water is drained. Such women have basically given up. So, how to save the dead wife?

Hello, I'm Chopin. I've been focusing on emotional education for eight years. More than 30 emotional counselors with psychological counselor qualification certificates have helped thousands of students successfully save their true love and repair their marriages. Mainly solve five emotional problems for brothers: saving girlfriends, repairing marriage, attacking true love, long-distance love, and how to chat. Through actual combat, I will teach you to recover and catch up with the girl you like, so as to get true love.

Every broken relationship can be repaired. It is important to find the right method. There are professional and emotional problems. If you have unresolved emotional confusion about marriage, or don't know how to maintain marriage, please add us, and click (copy the tutor number and add it in the search) to consult with us one-on-one. The counselor will analyze your situation and her situation and teach you how to save and maintain marriage.

The following are real cases of students in our team. I hope everyone can get some help through this case and have some practical help for your marriage! My name is JUNG WOO. I am 32 years old. I am in charge of sales in a company. My wife Weiwei is two years younger than me. She works as an event planner in a company and now has a 4-year-old daughter.

In fact, my wife has always loved me and treated me well, but she doesn't know how to cherish it. Before we got married, she got pregnant unexpectedly. Later, I accompanied her to an abortion. While she was in surgery, I went outside to find friends. I didn't know that she had finished the operation until she called me after the operation. I also know that she did something wrong. Then she forgave me.

I lied to her many times before. I often pick up girls online and sometimes ask them out to meet. Another time, I told her that I worked overtime at night, but I actually went out for a drink with my friends. I don't know where she found me. It's embarrassing to ask me directly and loudly. I suddenly got angry and gave her a beating. Then I regretted it. She didn't forgive me until I kept apologizing to her.

Until we got married, we would still quarrel about some things, but as the child grew up, she began to change and was not as enthusiastic about me as before. At first, I thought she cared about the children. Later, I found out that she had been playing with her mobile phone and chatting with people. I asked her who she was talking to, and she said that all she was talking to her friends were children's problems. I'm dubious.

Until one time she told me that she was going to travel with her friends. I said I would go on my birthday, but she refused, saying that she had already made an appointment with a friend. I felt something was wrong, but I let her go. Later, I called her and asked her to call her friends. She said she wasn't here. At this moment, I realized that she might be with another man. I can't believe it.

When she got home, she found her friend's phone number. They didn't go out together. At this time, she came back and we chatted at home. I cried at that time. I cried for a woman for the first time, and then I cried with her. She asked me if I would forgive her. I said I would, because I love her very much.

Because after this happened, I began to be nice to her, because I knew that she had feelings for other men because I was sorry for her, but the better I treated her, the worse her attitude towards me. Once or twice, I couldn't bear it until one day, the contradiction between us finally broke out again. This time I hit her and she insisted on divorcing me. The next day, she packed her things and went back to her father-in-law's house. I kept calling her, and she was very determined and insisted on divorce.

Because I really love her so much, I also realize that I have forgotten my previous mistakes. I call her every day, send messages, and even go to see her on the grounds that her child is ill. At first, she replied to my message, but in the end, all the contact information was blacked out directly. If I don't agree, go to court and sue me.

The wrong way to save will not only help you save your true love, but also push the other person further and further. If you want to seize the only opportunity, please join our one-on-one consultation. We will analyze and answer according to the two-way personality of you and the girl to help the brothers solve their emotional problems. Click on the tutor's avatar for private chat consultation, and everyone will get an opportunity for emotional consultation.

Now, with our students, you will have the opportunity to get an emotional gift package worth 1899 yuan for free! Have a one-on-one voice call with your tutor to help you analyze whether she still loves you, whether you can get back together, and whether she still has feelings for you. In fact, the problems in this case are not uncommon. In life, the following are the mistakes that many brothers will make, and they are also the main reasons why many couples break up. Many people rushed to the hospital after a woman filed for divorce, trying to save each other, so they blindly saved each other, begged each other, and constantly created troubles, but they didn't know that these methods would only make the other party push you further and further.

The first step is to know why she divorced you, and why. A relationship may lead to divorce. Maybe they're both wrong, but now it's up to you to fix it, not each other. You can't find fault with each other. You have to find the reason from yourself, otherwise the problem will never be solved.

Many times, it is not just one or two things that lead to emotional breakdown or even divorce. The reason for the deadlock or divorce is often not the truth, but just the fuse, or even an angry word. The reason you come up with in your mind is not necessarily true.

Therefore, no matter who is right or wrong, as a man, we should reflect on ourselves in the face of this situation. Whether my daily actions hurt her intentionally or unintentionally, making her unacceptable or even unbearable, whether I love her enough and treat her well enough.

Romance is actually the killer of long-term relationships. Romance, for women, is not only an expression of love, but also a feeling and surprise. But students don't know how to create romance and surprise. Life is like a stagnant pool. Without any passion, girls will get tired of this lifestyle. Without emotional memories, there is no leverage after divorce.

If a relationship wants to last, we must know how to manage a relationship, how to develop a long-term relationship, how to prevent the relationship from breaking down, how to manage, how to treat, how to deal with problems, how to love deeply, how to treat love correctly, and feel a sense of belonging and security from the freshness.

To maintain a long-term relationship, the most important thing is to grasp each other's needs, get along more sincerely, understand, trust and respect, and learn to think from each other's perspective. People are often irrational when saving money. When you are irrational, you will get more negative feedback by making emotional actions to recover, so it is more difficult to recover.

No matter how smart you are, get her back. If the other person doesn't feel your sincerity, all your actions are in vain. On the contrary, even if you are a little slow in the whole recovery process or lack consideration in some cases, everything you do is full of sincerity. If you do it with your heart, the other person will feel it and come back to your arms willingly.

Saving marriage should not only pay attention to methods, but also pay attention to opportunities. The wrong way to save will only miss the best opportunity to save, thus causing a regrettable situation. If you don't want to miss it, you still have hope for him. You can add a tutor (click to copy the tutor number and add it in the search), consult us one-on-one, teach your emotional confusion, tell the tutor, and I will tell you the success rate of the rescue and help you analyze it in detail.

The core problem of recovery: failure to recognize the reasons for divorce, failure to reflect on and improve yourself, failure to be romantic and fresh, and failure to maintain feelings can recover mistakes. Through in-depth communication with the trainees, analyze the specific situation of both parties at the first time. In view of the students' own problems, a set of scientific and rigorous recovery plan is formulated privately, which is divided into four steps.

In the process of understanding the situation with students, we found that students' mentality is seriously unbalanced, lacking in self-confidence, depressed and out of control. Through more than an hour's phonetic instruction by Chopin's tutor, the students' mentality has been adjusted and the sense of demand for goals has been reduced. With the attitude of "winning my luck and losing my life", the recovery success rate is the highest. When you face your feelings with such a calm mind, this is the first step to restart your feelings.

How far two people can go depends on whether they have the same hope for the future and whether they believe that they will be happy together. If such trust and hope can be established between you, then you will have a good emotional foundation.

When you can convince the other person that you will be happy with you in the future, your life will be very good. Therefore, the establishment of love requires you to think about the future and let the other person slowly believe in your happiness. Once you have strengthened your confidence in being with you, it is easy for you to make the other person change their mind.

The so-called "recovery" measures taken by students without authorization will only blindly expose their strong sense of demand. The stronger the sense of demand is restored, the earlier the sense of demand is expressed, and the more likely it is to arouse the object's disgust. If you want to save the disappointed other half, you must first know how to abandon your subconscious pleading and entanglement, correct your mentality, and admit that it is your own mistake that has led your feelings to the road of no return. Only when you make a change will the other person come back to you.

When two people get along, they often have the habit of getting along. Now that you have decided to be with each other, you must find ways to change yourself. In the process of communication, two people need to constantly adjust themselves to each other. Rescuing the initial choice of breaking diplomatic relations means avoiding contradictions in time, controlling the escalation of contradictions, calming yourself down, reflecting on yourself and re-examining this relationship. Because the other party is emotionally unstable at this time, it is not suitable for salvage. Break is not absolute break. Cut off all contact and give each other a break, instead of being bombarded by your phone calls and text messages all day. This will only make the other person hate you more.

Now that the other party has left, I will definitely give up on you. In this case, why not put your temper away, think about the real past between you and measure what is most important to you. If it turns out that you still love each other, try to touch each other again.

Getting back together is much more difficult than pursuing girls, because it is a process that needs to rekindle the personal appeal of the case. Correcting the wrong way in the past also requires rapid change and self-improvement, and at the same time, it also needs to eliminate the negative emotions of girls towards you, which can be described as step by step.

Through Chopin's team image tutor, the students got in-depth understanding and communication, and transformed the overall image of the students according to their actual situation. Self-image and temperament have been significantly improved. After you improve your self-worth, you can inadvertently show your self-worth to a woman, know why she broke up with you, and you have made changes for it. Then, if you convey this change to each other and naturally change their views on you, you can establish women's admiration and secondary attraction.

The purpose of secondary attraction is to let a woman know that you are plastic, make your feelings more valuable, and make her feel that her return is correct. Later, we arranged for students to socialize more and show their living conditions more. While training students in related courses, we should give technical guidance to students' photography skills, help students share the daily life trends through positive pictures and words, show positive attitudes, and indirectly hint at their goals. The students walked out of the shadow of breaking up and returned to the attitude of living on the right track. If you want to save your goal, of course, you need students to take the initiative to attract their attention. It is important for her to see the change of students.

If a person gives up on you and makes the other person lose confidence in you and stop paying attention to you, if you don't take the initiative, even if you become better and better, it may be difficult to attract the other person's attention. Only when you take the initiative to approach her can you attract the attention of the other party again because of your change, so as to pay attention to you again.

When the other person doesn't trust you, you can't directly restore your feelings, so what you need to do is to rebuild your trust, which can never be rebuilt as an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband, so you need to return the relationship to ordinary friends. In order to effectively improve students' communicative adaptability, we suggest that they take strangers of the opposite sex as experimental objects and practice their time with various social software. In the process of communication, female psychological tutors teach students how to communicate with the object, understand the object's inner thoughts, analyze the hidden emotions and needs in the other person's speech in real time, how to interact with girls, improve students' social intuition and help them express their feelings in the right way.

When the other person is not in such a bad mood, you can communicate with the other person again. However, it should be noted that in the process of your contact, you must not expose your sense of need. Don't let the other person clearly feel that you want to make up with each other. You need to talk about some topics that the other person is interested in. Let the other person feel your change from the side, slowly unload your guard and re-recognize and trust you.

The relationship between you will heat up, but it is very likely that the other party just won't give you a clear attitude. This is because the poor communication between you has left a shadow on the other side, and the other side can't make up with you directly. In the process of chatting and communicating, we must master each other's relevant ideas, don't do anything too radical, and fully improve our recovery plan, and make reasonable adjustments at every step to get the results we want to see most. Recognize each other's emotions, provide her with comfortable communication experience and emotional value, make her inseparable from you, naturally upgrade your relationship, and achieve your goal of redemption.

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In the process of communication, we must first understand through various channels, and then meet the real thoughts and needs revealed by the goal in words, and completely resolve the contradiction between them. Under the guidance of the tutor's professional patience, students began to learn to use the target interest points to guide the topic and adjust their emotions through appropriate humorous words. Judging from the students' chat feedback, the response to the goal is still positive, and the words unconsciously show concern for the students. Some small ideas to meet the goal, slowly let the goal generate trust.

In order to further close the relationship between them, the tutor helps students implant appropriate ambiguous topics in the chat through one-on-one real-time chat guidance. While chatting well, it is supplemented by telephone communication. The importance of telephone communication is to let girls hear the voice of positive and happy goals and good emotional state. Even better, go back to the state after you two started to fall in love, when you were full of charm and passion.

Then, through push-pull attraction, it is convenient to invite the target on the grounds of going to a friend's party. In the process of getting along, the students are very calm and confident, and get along very happily. No matter how clever you are to save your girlfriend, if the other person doesn't feel your sincerity, all your actions will be in vain. On the contrary, even if you are a little slow in the whole recovery process or lack consideration in some cases, everything you do is full of sincerity. If you do it with your heart, the other person will feel it and come back to your arms willingly.

After many dates and daily chats, Chopin's tutor immediately guided the students to implement the final rehabilitation plan. After marriage, the trainee and the target never traveled together again. The tutor arranged for the students to go to the travel agency to sign up for the tour and sign up for the romantic trip. When the target got the news, he didn't agree immediately. After the trainee confessed deeply, the goal finally nodded, giving the trainee a chance to reunite successfully.

If you want to save your marriage successfully, the key is yourself. If you are not determined to recover, there is no way to recover. Correct recovery of mentality can make you stick to it, be yourself first, and then talk about compound probability. Parting is not what you want, the second time. If you really want to save her and end the future marriage crisis forever, please click (click to copy the tutor number and add it to the search), and you will get my free one-on-one emotional consultation. I will tailor a special rehabilitation plan for you and her to help you remove all obstacles on the road to recovery. Today, I joined Chopin's tutor and published "I want to save". The tutor will send you the cheats to save, so that friends who want to learn and change can be promoted.