Can a husband and wife be reconciled after their infidelity is exposed?

At present, extramarital affairs, one-night stands and other cheating phenomena are becoming more and more common. It is often intolerable for both husband and wife to have such a thing, and it will naturally make a fuss, and the result can be imagined. I read a report yesterday that a man in Putian lied to his wife that he was going to Beijing for a meeting, but actually went to check in with his lover. Unexpectedly, when he checked out, he met his wife and a strange man checking out. This 35-year-old man feels that his wife has a low education and little knowledge. Since 26, he has been lying to his wife, saying that his business is very successful, and he is often invited to attend meetings in the district and the city. In fact, he always goes to meet his lover, so his wife often stays alone. Later, Cheng's wife fell in love with online chat, taking advantage of her husband's frequent "meetings" and often meeting with netizens. A few days ago, Cheng lied to his wife that he was going to Beijing for a meeting, and it would take at least a month to go home. His wife, who was addicted to online chat, was also very happy to learn the news and had the opportunity to meet with netizens again. Results In a hotel in Putian city, when the man went to the front desk to check out, he happened to meet his wife and a strange man who were also checking out. Out of the psychology of "washing your dirty linen in public", he and his wife looked at each other and pretended not to know each other and left. After returning home, he scolded his wife for stealing men, branded himself a "green hat" and asked her to settle the accounts. Her wife also exposed her husband's lie of "frequent business trips and meetings" on the spot. During the quarrel, he picked up a wooden stick to chase after his wife, who picked up a stone and hit her husband. Later, border guards and soldiers rushed to the scene for persuasion and education. He realized his mistake of snubbing his wife first, and his wife also admitted that he made a mistake because he was temporarily lonely and could not resist the temptation of netizens. In the end, the couple said that they should be loyal to each other and live a good life in the future. This is a typical example of a husband and wife cheating on each other. Generally speaking, it is unlikely to make up again. Even if both sides express their desire to live a good life, I am afraid it is difficult to make up. On the issue of infidelity, society has always been tolerant of men and harsh on women. The same is cheating, Pan Jinlian will never be able to turn over, and although Ximen Qing also bears the blame, I dare say that there are many more people who envy him than those who scold him. In the present real life, most people laugh at men's infidelity, even if they condemn it, it will be much cry and little rain, and eventually the responsibility of men's infidelity will be blamed on women. A common scene in life is that behind every derailed man, there is a woman who is scolded by the world as a "fox"; Behind every cheating woman, there are few men who are scolded by the world. However, women's indulgence, for whatever reason, has to bear the pressure of public opinion and moral torture referred to by thousands of people. Life is full of irony, both of which are derailed, but they are on different tracks. When a woman sleeps with a man, it must be that the woman is in love with the man, but when a man sleeps with a woman, it doesn't mean that the man must like the woman. Generally speaking, when a woman cheats, her heart is cheating, which is different from that of men. Men's infidelity is often to satisfy the desires of the upper body and the needs of the lower body. It is also a broken thing of derailment. Women will feel uneasy and full of guilt when they cheat. Men who cheat will feel at ease and full of pride. Even in some occasions and places, cheating will become a kind of capital for men to show off. A man likes to think with his lower body, which determines his desire to conquer. Women often bear all kinds of injuries helplessly, but they can't be tit for tat. In fact, whether men or women, in the face of an affair, there are actually not many ways to choose, only two: one is to forgive, and then no longer turn over old scores; The second is to break up and no longer entangle. Regrettably, modern people often can't go to the end, forgive, but always turn over old scores; Break up, and resentment is hard to level. Torture each other in pain, live a painful life in torture. Cheating means that marriage is broken, even if the marriage life is maintained for some reason, it is only in name only. With the emergence of humanism, more and more people begin to pay attention to and respect their internal needs, which is also an important reason for the existence of marriage in name only. Marriage is a combination of interests, so any form of continued maintenance under interests is a reasonable result. The interests mentioned here not only refer to the interests of material property, but also include other personal interests such as social relations, emotional and psychological needs. Compared with women, men have a broader space of concern and more choices of emotional ways. Marriage is more of a form for men, and it is a carrier that exists in order to complete the tasks at a certain stage of life and achieve their social roles and identities. Under the guidance of such consciousness, the continuation of marriage forms is far more important than their own internal emotional feelings and needs, so they will choose an evasive attitude to deal with the fact that their wives are having an affair. From this perspective, there is no divorce in the world, only those who are unwilling to divorce. But in any case, it is hard for men to tolerate women cheating like their husbands. I don't think many men in the world dare to say that they can tolerate their wives cheating. What's more, women are not as leisurely and comfortable as men on the issue of derailment. I dare not say that in the rolling world of mortals, who accounts for a larger proportion of men's infidelity and women's infidelity? But what is certain is that there are not a few women who cheat. This may be the reason why women are largely tolerant of men's infidelity. According to a survey on Netease, 6% of men have found a lover or a young lady, while 7% of women will choose tolerance. However, men generally don't choose to tolerate it, unless the wife's cheating is hidden, the passionate interpretation is not exposed to the sun, and at the same time, the man himself is cheating. Although he knows the signs of his wife's cheating in his heart, he doesn't catch it red-handed, and he won't make a hullabaloo about. Let's make peace, and everyone will withdraw from the deviated track and return to the small circle that belongs to two people, and live in peace. However, there will definitely be shadows in their hearts, and even if they make do with not getting divorced, it will be difficult to make up. More articles in this blog expect you to like Mito: Emotion: The colorful terraced fields in Yuanyang (Photos). Can't a man in marriage not find passion? Hanas: A fascinating fairyland on earth [Photos] Will a woman pay for love and a man appreciate it? 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