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Abstain from prostitution

Author: Populus orientalis

The following questions are put forward by Xiaomi:

"I'm single, never understand men and women. Perhaps because I have always been curious about sex, or perhaps because of the influence of environment and habits, I often have behaviors that can't restrain my physiological impulses and comfort myself. I think the first task of spiritual training is to get rid of prostitution, but I have never been able to beat it. I'd appreciate it if you ask the stationmaster if there is a wonderful way to dissolve lust! "

I really appreciate that Xiaomi can be honest with his own problems and actively seek solutions to them. In today's materialistic society, this question raised by Xiaomi is universal and practical. Therefore, I decided to answer his question with a special topic, so that more Buddhist monks can benefit from it.

Diet, men and women are the great desires of life. So eating color is the hardest thing to get rid of. People can face him squarely and try to get rid of him, which is a good start.

First, the harm of lust

Normal sexual life between husband and wife is not adultery. The harm of lewd indulgence to people is endless. I roughly sum up the following five points:

1. Damage to Indra and Forde. For example, it will lead to financial bankruptcy, unexpected disasters and so on.

2. Damage the body and shorten the life span. Damage to kidney and liver. People in too much sex, kidney water is exhausted, liver wood can't be moistened, and liver and kidney are prone to illness. In addition, the kidney governs the bone, and people who indulge in sex are prone to osteopathy.

3. lust damages the brain and intelligence. True water can't flow back, so adulterers are dull, which can be said to make them dizzy.

4. turbid water leads to greed. Lust will encourage people's greed, make people greedy for money, gluttony and vanity.

5. Never be clear-headed. If lust does not go, the true spirit will be lost, and the five spirits will not return to Yuan. People who study Buddhism and practice will never be clear-headed.

The head of all evil. The retribution of prostitution, reported to their own people, reported to their wives and daughters; Those who report in this life, those who report in the afterlife, and those who study Buddhism and practice must be cautious. Sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS are visible retribution, and the invisible retribution is even worse. Some people are reincarnated as beasts, while others are reincarnated as prostitutes.

There are many related articles and books in the "Moral Books" section of this website, which readers can download and read. The harm of lust to people is not discussed here.

Second, the correct way to quit lust:

Lust is not only a physiological phenomenon, but also a kind of strength. Many people think that a person is in good health and has a strong sexual desire. Actually, it's not. The better a person's physical condition, the more peaceful his body and mind should be, the less desire he has, and the more peaceful he is.

Lust is the acquired human heart, not the innate Tao heart. The heart is pure and has no desire, so a person has no desire in a quiet and natural situation.

The emergence of lust, one is the fascination with hue, and the other is the sense of karma. Some people are born with a strong lust and make all kinds of mistakes because of lust. This is an industry created in the past.

In order to get rid of lust, some Buddhists learn Buddhism, or get an abstinence curse there, or forcibly restrain themselves. In the end, not only can not solve the fundamental problem, but also the mental burden is very heavy. In my opinion, the correct way to get rid of lust is nothing more than the following:

1. Be reasonable.

This is the only way to get rid of lust completely.

"On the bloodline of Dharma ancestors" said: "Q: How can Bai become a Buddha if he has a wife and does not get rid of lust? A: Just talk about sex, not lust. Only for stealth; However, if you can see sex and lust are empty, you are unhappy. No matter how many habits you have, it doesn't hurt. Why? Sex is pure. Although in the five-color body, its nature is pure and cannot be dyed. "

Some people who study Buddhism read this article and mistakenly think that they can become a Buddha without desire. Actually, that's not what Father Dharma said. The founder of Buddhism is directed at people's hearts, expressing "only visibility, lust and self-destruction." The truth.

Consciousness determines thought, and thought determines behavior. A truly rational person, because he has seen through the essence of things and changed his ideology, doesn't have to give up his lust deliberately, and naturally disappears gradually.

This is achieved through understanding, understanding and real cultivation.

2. keep the precepts.

Buddhists should abstain from five meats and three evils.

I find that desires are interrelated. If a person can abstain from alcohol and meat stimulating food and eat vegetarian food, other desires will be correspondingly weakened.

The word debauchery is often associated. Because alcohol can promiscuous and stimulate people's lust, people who are determined to give up prostitution must give up drinking.

3. details.

Buddhists should pay attention to all aspects of life and not be tempted by things outside their hearts. For example, consciously resist pornographic content on the internet and TV, and don't paste pictures that will induce sexual desire in the bedroom.

4. quantify.

To abstain from prostitution, we should set goals, quantify goals, and gradually reduce them until they are removed.

For a detailed discussion on the quantification of details, please see Lecture Notes of Tao Te Ching-Learning from Buddhism and Cultivating Buddhism.

5. Eliminate prostitution.

Do more good than evil.

1. Do not copy and disseminate obscene CDs and books, and do not induce others to commit adultery.

2. Don't do unjust things. Such as adultery, seduction, seduction and so on.

(3) Do good books, do good deeds, talk about abstinence, and help and encourage others to abstain from prostitution.

Master Guanyin said in The True Solution of Prajna Paramita Heart Sutra, "It is immoral to be outside. This is no different from animals. Punish it with its own laws. The ghost will punish it. The result is obvious. Why use my rap? What I said. Especially for those who correct the truth. With people who know a little etiquette. It's bitter. "

Another cloud said, "If this pass cannot be broken. I can't see the space. All heroes and talented people come forth in large numbers for nothing. I still hope to become immortal and Buddha. "

Therefore, people who study Buddhism and practice Buddhism will never be able to overcome their lust and understand their hearts. Listen to me:

Ancient man-made words are completely ceremonial.

The word smart is closely linked.

Ming is the sun and moon.

The moon is included in the word water mirror.

Without the essence of the sun, moonlight would not appear.

True essence dissipates without Dan.

Dry water cannot put out the fire.

Fire, pneumonia, phlegm, cough and asthma.

There are no aquatic diseases in the liver and gallbladder.

Yin deficiency and yang damage the body.

Mo Dao lives forever.

Burning in the darkness of the moon, the sky is over.

It is not difficult to live forever.

Don't waste money and refuse to accept Dan.

As long as there is no desire, it is always quiet.

Self-cultivation means removing everything.

Dongfang yangxi