The dream of a 19-year-old boy

While eating out, there was a mother and son at the next table. The distance was so close that I listened to the entire conversation.

My son is a freshman at a university in Jining. He should be going abroad and learning Korean. Children born in 2003 are full of confidence in the future, saying that their first car in the future must be a Mercedes-Benz, and they will never drive if it is not a Mercedes-Benz. His mother tried hard to persuade him to focus on his studies and successfully pass the language test. He should study hard and work hard before considering what kind of car to buy. But my son thinks he’s awesome if he doesn’t fail the exam. He must have just installed a 16,000 yuan computer, which is currently the best among his classmates. But because someone said that he would buy a 20,000 yuan computer when he went home for the New Year, he was a little unhappy and told his mother to change his mobile phone. I think What he got in his hand was Ai Crazy 12pro.

It seems that the relationship between mother and son is good. Although there are differences in the chat, there is no conflict. The 19-year-old child is trying to act mature and sophisticated, but the emptiness in his mind is obvious. I can’t help but think of a few years ago when my ambitious cousin told his second aunt and uncle before graduation to please rest assured that he would drive an Audi home to visit them within three years of graduation. He has three degrees in private education and relied on his parents to sponsor his marriage and childbirth. His parents are still helping him repay the loan. But after being severely beaten by real life, his cousin finally gave up his dream of becoming an official and a boss and worked a down-to-earth job. Real estate agents make money to support their families.

Young people should have dreams, but they are illusory and unrealistic, and vain comparisons are ignorance and not dreams. Adler's saying "Anyone can do anything" also requires the courage to overcome difficulties and break through yourself. As a parent, it is really a big issue in life to raise children who are determined and powerful without pampering or pampering, without cracking down or punishing.