Five people who are not suitable for choosing a wedding dress with you

In the process of choosing a wedding dress, many brides-to-be are used to bringing their good sisters or elders to choose together, but I believe many brides-to-be have found that the person who chooses a wedding dress with you will definitely affect your decision to choose a wedding dress and the mood of the day! The following are five kinds of people who are the least suitable to pick a wedding dress together, sorted out by online and wedding professionals. Look who they are ~

First of all, mother-in-law

Ahem ~ Although many brides say that they are as close as mother and daughter to their mother-in-law, they still have to persuade the prospective bride. Unless the mother-in-law has ordered them to take his old man with them when choosing a wedding dress, I really suggest that they really don't invite their mother-in-law to try on the wedding dress together. ...

Bride fantasy situation:

You can get closer to your prospective mother-in-law

Actual situation:

Many brides and their mother-in-law share the process of trying on wedding dresses. Either the mother-in-law thinks the bride shows too much, or she thinks it is not shiny enough to show her husband's financial resources. .....

Or my mother-in-law will smile all the way. At first, she said gracefully, "You just pick what you like, and what you like is the most important thing ~", but at the beginning of trying it on, she changed her mind again, "This one is good but not good enough, that one is good but not bright enough ~"

Some people say that mother-in-law and mother are not the same? Mom doesn't like it, but she really thinks it's most important that you like it, because you are a daughter. Even the most difficult mother and daughter are adults. If they don't like it, they may compromise ... but mother-in-law is different. If her mother-in-law feels bad, most brides will avoid losing styles that her mother-in-law doesn't like.

Of course not. I think all the mother-in-law in the world are the same, and some have the courage to be their own brides. But a bride who chooses a wedding dress with her mother-in-law in the mood of "being closer to her mother-in-law" can choose a wedding dress that she really likes? (wry smile)

Second, any female elder other than mother.

Well, since mom is away, since my mother-in-law is away, I can always find an aunt or aunt, right?

Please think carefully ~ These female elders are no less powerful than their future mother-in-law ~ In addition, for some unknown reason, about 80% female elders will act as if they want to marry their own daughters, and they will not only give orders at the wedding, but often make others mistake them for the mother of the bride ~

How bad would it be to choose a wedding dress with the female elders at home? In fact, there is nothing wrong with it, except that you have an 89% chance of not choosing the style you like, and they will also lure you to choose the one you think is the ugliest. ...

Third, the queen bee friend

How many friends will have one or two such queen bee friends? What is a queen bee friend?

I just feel that the whole world is working for her, and when she cries, the whole world will cry for her ~ friends who don't find her when traveling are crowding her out. You must be standing in the middle of the photo. The recent photo must have been taken by someone older than him. When you walk on the road, you will feel that everyone is watching her ... If you find that the above description matches one of your friends, remember to try on the wedding dress, even if she will always say that you are not a friend, why don't you go to her? Don't ask her to go with you!

Because once you start trying on the wedding dress, you will only feel like a doll changing the wedding dress. Everything you try on feels bad ~ "This is so tacky! That's not fashionable enough ~ the version just now is good but the material is not good! In fact, it's not tacky, not fashionable, not material, because she's not married or wearing a wedding dress, or these are what you like, not what she likes.

Pick out a wedding dress with such a friend. In the end, you will definitely find someone else another time or simply try it yourself ~

Fourth, broken-hearted friends

No matter whether these heartbroken friends are mean or not, do whatever you want on weekdays, and never have intensive contact with them when planning a wedding! Because the bride in this period is very fragile inside ~

Think about how busy you are, how hard it is to take a vacation or go to the wedding dress company/studio to choose a wedding dress as soon as you get off work. They will start to think about how hard it is to park cars, how hard it is to find parking spaces, why there is so little space here, and why there is so little dressing style ~

Or you've been bragging about how big you look in your favorite skirt. This white gauze makes your breasts look super small, and that skirt looks super cheap. ...

In short, as long as you try it on, she will understand. This kind of friend will never be much better than the queen bee friend when choosing a wedding dress. In the end, they will say that the beautiful one will definitely be the one you think is the least beautiful to wear, because they are not choosing a wedding dress for you from your point of view.

Five, omniscient friends

Since you are a friend who knows everything, do you think you can help a lot? What's wrong with it?

Know-it-all friends often hear such opening remarks: "I'll tell you" or "Just listen to me, I won't lie to you, I've been there ..."

In fact, in the process of preparing for the wedding, the bride received too many opinions. Will the bride be satisfied with the wedding if she has to listen to other people's opinions about the wedding dress she wants to wear?

Plus, this kind of friend may say what he knows or has experienced, but it doesn't mean that you will be like him or encounter exactly the same situation, does it? :)

In fact, whether choosing a wedding dress or in any wedding preparation process, the bride should know what she wants most and suit herself at the same time. The opinions of relatives and friends around you can naturally be used for reference, but the bride should not let herself choose what she really likes because of human pressure while listening to these opinions and suggestions. Knowing what she wants is the most important thing:)

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References:

1 Zhang 2006 Taiwan Province wedding photography industry website content analysis

2. Li Yuying dressed as a bride in 2004: the rise and development of the wedding industry in contemporary Taiwan Province.

3 Hui Gao Joan 2004 wedding photography shop signs image communication research.