The reason why your hero is world-famous is because your world is too small.

Text/Ximen Jun

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1.

In my mind, the most classic Chinese movie is "Westward Journey". Combined, I have watched the two parts no less than four times, and each time I have a different feeling.

The most touching part is the death of Zixia.

Fairy Zixia was originally a wick of Tathagata Buddha. After she transformed into a human form and came to the mortal world, she believed that the Supreme Treasure was the destined husband. Her bold pursuit failed and she was lost in the desert. The Bull Demon King forced her to get married, but she refused and died in the arms of the Supreme Treasure, which turned into Sun Wukong.

It can be said that from the moment the purple-green sword was pulled out of its sheath, Zixia was destined to have a tragic ending.

Zixia's most famous line in the film must be:

"The man I love is an unparalleled hero. One day he will come to marry me on the seven-colored clouds."

She said this sentence twice. The first time, full of expectant joy; the second time, half regret, half satisfaction.

Every time I see Zixia dying with a smile on the screen, I can't help but sigh:

"Your unparalleled hero has arrived...and then what?" ? ”

2.

In fact, Fairy Zixia doesn’t have to die at all. What really makes her fatal is not the Bull Demon King's thorns, but her almost paranoid obsession with love.

There is a chicken soup saying on the Internet that goes like this:

"When you are heavily attached to someone, you become a child waiting to be picked up and dropped off in kindergarten."

My friend Xiaoya is such a "kid" who is crazy about love.

Her boyfriend took great care of Xiaoya:

Seeing that her backpack was too heavy, he snatched it away without thinking that it would be difficult to carry a women's bag. mother.

She fell asleep in the car. He was afraid of waking her up, so he parked the car quietly on the side of the road.

She said she was tired from shopping, so he carried her on his back without saying a word, not caring about the looks of passers-by.

During that time, Xiao Yafenren smiled with unconcealable joy:

"I met my own unparalleled hero. It's great."

Unfortunately, Jay Chou once sang that love is like a tornado, it comes and goes as fast as it comes.

When the gust of wind dissipated, the smoke disappeared without a trace, leaving Xiaoya alone standing there, unwilling to accept the reality.

Shortly after the breakup, she typed a text on Zhihu:

When you finally take off all the layers of disguise and decide to pounce on someone regardless of your own safety.

When you finally stop being hesitant and think you have found a lighthouse on the foggy sea.

When you start to reflect, start to repent, write off all the bad debts in the past, and plan to start over by standing next to him.

When your life becomes vivid because of a person, when the sun finally shines into your dusty heart.

When you are filled with joy and want to tell him all this.

He pushed you away.

Goodbye, my unparalleled hero.

When I read this passage, my first reaction was heartache. As a friend, I have had the urge to throw cold water on her more than once:

"The reason why your hero is unparalleled is because your world is too small."

I hope Xiaoya can wake up. .

3.

Unparalleled heroes, unparalleled heroes, where did the heroes come from, what are the unparalleled heroes?

Mr. Mu Xin’s poem "Slow in the Past" is widely circulated. The part in it is "The sun has become slower in the past / Cars, horses, and mail are all slow / There is only enough time to love one person in a lifetime." He is loved by everyone because he eulogized the precious love that lasted forever in the old days.

However, I can’t appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.

Nowadays, airplanes, high-speed trains, the Internet, everything is fast, and you can love many people in your life.

Furthermore, even if everything is slow and you can only love one person in your life, would such a life be too boring?

We have all heard the story of the "frog at the bottom of the well". There was a frog living in an abandoned well. It naively thought that the scenery at the mouth of the well was the most beautiful in the world.

What a sad thing.

I once read such a story on the Internet:

A girl insisted on staying at home as a stay-at-home girl, despite the dissuasion of her relatives and friends, just because her boyfriend would make money. More than enough to feed two people.

Look, she doesn’t look like a frog in a well.

Unfortunately, the boyfriend's business was in trouble and he was heavily in debt, so their relationship had to turn a red light.

Love is gone and financial resources are cut off. At that time, the girl only had four words in her mind: "Everything is in despair."

However, with the encouragement of her friends, she tried to get out of the trough of life, regained the photography skills she had learned in college, and took photos all the way from home to abroad.

A few years later, she owned her own private travel photography studio and met her new true love.

At that moment, she was delighted to discover, oh, the world is so big.

Just like Han Han said, "If you haven't seen the world, how can you get the world view?"

Because the number of people you come into contact with is limited, so whoever you fall in love with is a hero.

Because the road you walk on is too narrow, as long as you are a hero, your world will be easily overturned.

Fan Bingbing has a very arrogant saying: "Why should I marry a wealthy family? I am a wealthy family!"

Wake up, girl, there are no unparalleled heroes in this world. If there were, then I'm afraid it's you.

ABOUT ME

Ximen Jun, a good young man who studied TV program editing

Can write scripts, jokes, soft articles, complaints, poems, essays and short novels

Served as the editor and director of the first season of Zhejiang Satellite TV's "Running Man".

Currently studying for a postgraduate degree in communication at Zhejiang University.