When my sister's brother-in-law has a baby, do you want to buy eggs?

I recall that when I gave birth, I had a lot of eggs, brown sugar and some milk at home. That's the gift I received from the villagers. This is a necessary gift for rural people to visit relatives and friends. Very practical and practical.

I dare not eat more brown sugar. I haven't finished eating it for two years, but I haven't eaten enough eggs for a hundred days. Of course, I also received a red envelope from my relatives. My parents can't come to see me because my family is too far away. I don't blame my parents. Menstruation's cousin came to visit me when she was out of the month, and she also brought me red envelopes wrapped by her parents' sisters. I was already satisfied.

My aunt's cousin, who is in the confinement period, has been through it and is similar in age. She also helped to buy nursing clothes and underwear, baby's small clothes, disposable diapers and so on. As a daughter-in-law from other places, I still can't tell the difference between east and west, and I don't know where to buy things. I am really grateful.

I think the best gift I have received is the care and help of my relatives and friends.

Since it is a gift, I think it is best to know what the other person is missing. This way, you can buy things and send them without wasting them.

Since she is the wife's elder sister, she should be very close. Let her directly ask her elder sister what she needs to buy, or ask what she already has, and then buy something to visit her.

If you have been through it, the best gift is to give your sister some practical things and suggestions in feeding or parenting and confinement.

1. If you buy it for your baby:

You can consider these aspects: eating, wearing, using and playing.

what can I buy? Generally, new mothers will prepare bottles, diapers, skin care products, baby clothes and so on.

so you can prepare what you wear, use and play. Just buy two sets of

clothes

of newborn size, and use

diapers

(or disposable diapers). You can buy more diapers, and try to buy larger ones, because babies grow up quickly. My peas used size M in the second month, but size S didn't work. I sent them to my sister for use. You can also buy two larger

diapers

. See if you have bought a

trolley

(you'd better ask first).

fun: you can buy a small rattle and a bed bell.

If you want to buy something meaningful and valuable, buy a pair of baby's

silver bracelets or other ornaments.

It also shows your intention as a little uncle.

2. For the new mother: You don't have to worry about eating, wearing and using

. My sister can give some advice to her sister:

Drink less thick soup and drink more water

Wear: If my sister knows her figure, she can also buy two sets of

nursing coats

nursing underwear

for her sister, and sweat after confinement. If possible, you can help your sister buy

postpartum body shaping clothes

for use:

Please ask your wife first whether your sister has bought

breast pad, maternity sanitary towel, breast pump and urine pad

? If you are not prepared, you can help your sister prepare.

These things are necessary for confinement and lactation, and they are very practical.

If possible, you can also invite a photographer to help the mother and baby take a group of photos of the newborn and mother at home, make a

beautiful photo album and give it to your sister.

If your sister is breast-feeding, you can recommend a local breast-feeding guide to make her breast-feeding more smooth.

In fact, new mothers are prone to depression after confinement. To make my sister happy, talk to her often and help her solve her problems in time. This is the best gift.

confinement is a special period for women to grow up.

Some people say that marriage has changed women.

I want to say that giving birth and confinement really changed women. This is a period of transition from a woman to a mother, and it is a period when a woman exudes maternal strength and grows up.

yes, we know: insomnia is nothing, and work difficulties are nothing. Nothing is nothing ..... We are all Superman moms!

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