The significance of studying in college is precisely because it is useless.

There is such an article on the Internet, transferred from:

Youth is for trial and error.

It is precisely those meaningless things in the eyes of parents and teachers that have become memories of our lives.

What's the use of going to college?

Four years in college, I actually learned nothing.

After studying in college for four years, which one is useful for your present job?

What have you learned in four years of college?

What's the point of going to college?

Is it different to find a job after graduation from scratch?

Have I wasted any time in these four years?

How many college students have not wasted their four years?

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These questions must have been asked by many college students and asked themselves.

The children who can go to college are just a group of happy children, which proves nothing else.

I remember when I went home for the Spring Festival last year, my cousin's two daughters had just entered junior high school, and both sisters were very beautiful and lovely. When we had dinner together in the evening, my uncle told me earnestly: I only hope that my two daughters can successfully enter the university and be obedient and clever. I looked up at the expressions of my two sisters. They are really clever and obedient, but I always feel something is missing. Then I said to my uncle: children who have the opportunity to go to college are just a group of happy children, which have nothing to do with the stability and success of their lives and cannot prove anything else.

Many parents think that the college entrance examination can change their fate. After studying in university, they can find a good job. Since then, they have been different, and they can make money by sitting in an office every day.

In fact, anyone who went to college will know: it's all bullshit!

In reality, there have been countless examples to prove that even students who graduated from domestic colleges and universities still can't find jobs. Besides, is the real meaning of going to college really just to find a job?

I still remember that in the first season of "The Story of Qipa", I highly criticized a "Tsinghua male god" who was worried about finding a job: You deserve to be educated in Tsinghua for more than ten years!

As soon as he appeared on the show, liangzhi said that he had three Tsinghua degrees in law, finance and journalism, but now he is very worried about what to do after graduation, hoping that three tutors will help him. After chatting for 1 minute without thinking, Cai Kangyong, who is good-natured, directly knocked out the bell on the grounds that the program asked the contestants to ask questions from their own point of view, instead of asking liangzhi to find a job. Later, liangzhi tried his best to defend himself, explaining why he chose these three majors from undergraduate, master and doctor, saying that it was to enrich his experience. At this time, Gao couldn't listen any longer, saying that he knew he was one of the best students in Tsinghua at present. But for a famous student, he has no idea about the country and society, but is obsessed with work. Such a small design is really detrimental to the identity of Tsinghua high flyers. Gao even completely denied it with a heavy sentence: "A famous student came to ask us what job you should look for? Do you think you deserve more than ten years' education in Tsinghua? "

One of the four books, University, is about how to be a man. Zhu said that "university" is "the study of adults". Nan said that although officials are called "adults" in traditional culture, their original intention and Zhu's original intention are not known to officials. The so-called "adult learning" is about how one can become an "adult". The essence of going to college is never to get money, but to absorb benefits.

Looking back on the four years of college, some students are addicted to learning, become masters of all kinds, and get various scholarships and trophies; Some students start their own businesses, open their own Taobao stores, open their own micro-stores, and experience their own entrepreneurial life; Some students have participated in various societies, held various large-scale activities and have rich experience in group activities; Some students do part-time jobs and internships to enter the society in advance to enhance their practical ability; Some students stick to their hobbies, such as traveling photography, writing articles, dancing and playing the piano. Even some students are already online little red people, making their own models and receiving advertisements.

Two years after graduation, we looked back at this group of people. In fact, every group of people above are doing work closely related to their personality and hobbies in their own posts and circles. And only students who do their own tonal work often go further and longer. Ten years later, students who like to study may have become doctors and professors in universities; Students who started a business in college may have their own careers after a few years of ups and downs in the mall; Students who like club activities may be exposed to various activity planning; Students with early social experience may also have entered the middle and high-level jobs in the company; Students who love photography may have become photographers, opened their own photography galleries and even started to hold their own photography exhibitions; Former classmates of online celebrities may have become online celebrities or small stars, and so on.

However, all this, when we look back, seems to have nothing to do with what we learned in college.

Actually, it is not. It is the university that spent a lot of time and youth in these four years, which made us explore our own life and career. Give you a chance to get in touch with all the new things you haven't tried, meet a group of people you haven't met, and let you know: what you like and what you don't like; What kind of people do you like and who are incompatible with your magnetic field make you more aware of which field you should choose for sustainable development and what kind of people are more suitable to accompany you throughout your life.

As a small society, universities can not only give you a variety of choices, but also give you a lot of time to make decisions.

Look at those children who didn't go to college. They are like being pushed off a cliff by a cruel eagle. At that moment, they must grow up quickly. They don't have that much time and choice. In a society where they are all busy with their own work, it is impossible for them to grow up with a diverse group of people. Their owner is often only one person, and they can only be reborn by themselves. This growth is really hard-won.

It's not that college children are not as good as college children, but they want to achieve the same growth and progress. The chances of trying more possibilities are too small. Every step of their growth is like stepping on glass slag, and every step is too distressing!

Therefore, children who have the opportunity to go to college are really happy! In fact, the original meaning of the university is useless, and it is precisely because it is useless that we have plenty of time to discover ourselves, explore ourselves, and find what we are really interested in in in such a diverse atmosphere. There are various courses for you to participate in, colorful club activities for you to find team partners, tutors from various professions to help you find your inner voice, and like-minded friends to accompany you.

As a result, in the past four years, you have met many people you never thought you would meet. Some may become your friends, some may never meet, and you may have quarreled with some classmates, making you think there are such people in the fucking world? Some students may also make you realize that life can be like this, and life can be carried out like this. It is these interesting people who let you know what kind of people you should live in and what kind of people you want to live with in the future.

Thank you for these four years of useless college life.

But it is really meaningful to my life!

Youth is for trial and error.

I hope these four years are enough for you to dig yourself out.

Source: WeChat official account post-90 thought museum.

Author: Xue Zheng