How are the DINK families around you who don’t have children doing?

My uncle and aunt are a pair of DINKs. Both of them were born in the 1960s. At that time, DINK was still a very rare concept. At first, they didn't plan to be a DINK, but neither of them was in a hurry to have children, and wanted to enjoy life to the fullest and indulge as much as they wanted. After five or six years of marriage, they finally began to discuss having children and carefully analyzed the pros and cons of having children. Having a child will definitely put a huge strain on the aunt's body, it will put high demands on the family's financial conditions, and it will also put high demands on the two people's ability to shoulder and solve problems, because there will be a life without any endurance. In their lives, they need to rely on them to grow. And if they don't want children, they will inevitably face an unstable relationship between the two, unable to maintain a relationship, unable to face social pressure, unable to handle issues such as old age care well. After discussion and careful decision-making, they finally decided not to have children, because compared to having children, they believed that the risk of not having children was more controllable, because it only concerns themselves and not others.

Therefore, they pay great attention to information about financial management and fitness. They do not want children. Their financial conditions are relatively comfortable. A few years ago, they gave their grandparents a sum of money for retirement. At the same time, they also saved a large amount for themselves. Pension fund. Because they know they will have no children to take care of them when they get sick, they pay great attention to their health. They usually do not give up exercise and use holidays and other time to travel and experience the world. In fact, whether you are a DINK or not is just a personal choice. As long as you can bear the corresponding risks, it doesn't matter if you don't have children.

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