Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Photography major - When someone says that one of Kobe's basketball players died, it has nothing to do with us. How should we reply?

When someone says that one of Kobe's basketball players died, it has nothing to do with us. How should we reply?

It has nothing to do with others! For a person who doesn't watch basketball and doesn't like sports, Kobe's death may not feel as good as the death of his neighbor downstairs. Why should everyone feel the same way? I understand that you and the person who said this have problems, so brush the sense of existence. You are a Kobe fan. You were sad after Kobe's death, and then you sent a circle of friends to Weibo to try to find someone who could agree with you. He felt disdainful at first sight and tried to prove the difference between him and you in a tough tone. He may also try to prove that he is more rational and mature than you. Circle culture, just sprout from the enclosure, just go to the tiger-flapping post bar and watch the ball with the same sadness. It is impossible for everyone in this world to synchronize with you.

I don't think it's necessary. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Take myself as an example. A while ago, an actor with the three-character name "What's his name" died suddenly while attending the program. Personally, I have no doubts about the actor's death. I still can't remember who he is and what he looks like because I don't know him at all. Fans of the actor mourned the death of his idol. Then I don't know him. I'm just an actor. What does it have to do with me? This is no problem.

I think it's normal for some people to think so, just like I don't know actors. If I see relevant news, I won't open it at all, let alone go in and comment. However, if you have to say "a basketball player" under someone else's post mourning Kobe, it is really disappointing, and it is understandable that fans will be angry and scolded.

I don't understand. Why did you challenge him? He was right, too. For those who don't watch games or don't like Kobe, Kobe is a player. Whether he dies or not has nothing to do with us. Do you still want to say that Kobe is 5+2+ 1, one person, one city, Mamba spirit, 8 1 and so on to comfort him? Great, great, don't be ridiculous. In the eyes of non-fans, these things are worthless, but they stink when they are in a bad mood. Who cares? If he told you that a bunch of famous people in fields you are not interested in died and made you cry, would you go? Take care of your heart.

Finally, I really want to say, watch the ball. Idyllization will be idolized. Don't be fascinated. So what if Kobe dies? The world won't turn. As a fan, you can feel sorry for yourself and go to places like Kobe Post Bar to vent, no matter what others say. And objectively speaking, Kobe is not friendly to China. As early as the 2008 Olympic Games, Kobe took the lead in boycotting the China Olympic Games and asked his teammates to sign, but James refused.

China's hosting of the Basketball World Cup as Kobe Bryant's endorsement has real advertising endorsement interests in China. When the Mo Lao Dog incident came out, Kobe didn't even dare to fart. James stood up and was kneeling under the red flag by American netizen P, but James had no real interest in China. By contrast, do you think Kobe is friendly to China, who is also a big-name star? Is it worth this obsession? I quite agree with that person's point of view, "Basketball player Kobe is dead, which has nothing to do with us."

He is a basketball player! I'm definitely a Kobe fan! The day Kobe died, I was still sleeping in. My mother woke me up and told me what she saw on the news. I feel sorry for that moment. Imagine receiving such news from my mother just after waking up. It's outrageous! So, I slowed down, stood still for a minute, and then turned on my cell phone to watch the news, making sure it was true. You asked me how I felt, but I wanted to say nothing. I just don't believe it at the moment. I don't believe it. Kobe left us because of a helicopter accident! Then accept, accept the truth. He did leave.

Does this matter affect me? It is unrealistic to say anything, but it really doesn't matter. At most, when I am idle, I suddenly see friends and news, and I will think about it, that's all! There are so many feelings, it is better to put them on the people closest to you. He is really just a player. There are so many excellent people in the world, and he is just one of them. We remember him, but there is no need to remember him too much.

Why comfort?

Kobe is not everyone's idol. Maybe for him, he is really just a basketball player. Everyone has different views and opinions. Maybe it has nothing to do with him. If she is a photographer, a tourist or someone else, and she is not an American, a fan of Kobe Bryant, or even a person who doesn't watch NBA, and her work or circle of contact has nothing to do with basketball, media operation, sports or marketing, what do you think Kobe Bryant's death has to do with him?

Kobe Bryant is a legend, which is undeniable, but he is not everyone's legend. His misfortune is very sad, and it is only sad. What else do you want? What time is it now? How many people tried to face COVID-19? How many people are dying? When faced with this, really, Kobe's death is just the fall of a star. Therefore, in the face of this answer, there is no need to comfort him. It depends. If you just send a circle of friends, he will come to comfort you like this, that is, he really has no quality. He is a knight with a keyboard as a weapon. I wish such a person didn't talk to him. You can also delete friends.

If you send a message to mourn Kobe every day and he comforts you like this, then you both have problems. He couldn't help spitting. A person will feel bored in a few days as long as he sees what he doesn't feel every day. This is human nature. Your problem at this time is: I hope others will support your faith. Everyone is an independent individual, and you can't force others to support your beliefs. So let me give you an example, if someone in your circle of friends sends Kun every day. Lu Han and Li Xian are so handsome, are you bored? The last one is the most annoying. That is, if you just send the news of Kobe's death to every group, it will be disgusting.

It's no problem if you send it to friends with the same hobbies. If you send it to any work group, community owner group or classmate group, a few people will comfort you, and more people will think, "Why send this?" It's none of my business. Waste my traffic. " Just like Godfrey Tsao. How do you feel if a classmate sends a mourning article to the group after your death? Will it be a little disgusting? I always feel that it is good to believe in my beliefs. Don't go around saying that everyone doesn't need to agree with my beliefs, as long as my beliefs are not harmful to society.