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Go to a friend's house to play, adults are talking about things, and children are playing in the game room.

After a while, Jessica Hester Hsuan from a friend's house ran to his mother and said, Mom, come and see the house I built.

Friend: Xuanxuan, go and play. Mom and aunt are chatting.

Xuanxuan has escaped.

After five minutes or so, he came again: mom, I spelled another kindergarten. Come and have a look.

The friend said patiently, mom believes you spell well. You play with your sister.

However, in less than five minutes, Jessica Hester Hsuan came again.

The friend said helplessly that the child didn't know what was going on. Whenever a guest comes to my house, he always comes to me.

Ignore him or criticize him, lest he be sad.

I really don't know what to do.

When parents are busy, children keep crying and screaming to attract their attention;

When the child does his homework, let his parents keep bringing him food, drink and find something.

Its essence is that the child is in self-doubt, he has no sense of value and is not sure whether he is important or not.

Children must let go before they can learn to deal with it and realize their sense of value.

When a friend's house Jessica Hester Hsuan interrupts her mother again and again, hoping that her mother can see the house she built, her friend can do this:

0 1. Judge whether the child's behavior is excessive.

When Jessica Hester Hsuan interrupted the chat for the first time, she could judge whether Jessica Hester Hsuan's request was normal or excessive.

Xuanxuan is five years old and can build various shapes independently. When his mother chats with friends, what Jessica Hester Hsuan needs is his mother's attention.

Therefore, Jessica Hester Hsuan is in a state of excessive demand.

02. Tell the child gently and firmly that the adult is very busy and he can handle the current situation by himself.

For the first time, a friend can tell Jessica Hester Hsuan with a smile that he is chatting with his aunt, and his mother can only visit his house when she is free. Mother believes that he can spell many kinds of figures.

03. In the face of excessive demand, don't respond, let the children exercise and satisfy their abilities.

When Jessica Hester Hsuan comes to see her mother for the second time, her friends can not respond or simply tell her: I am busy.

Jessica Hester Hsuan knew that he had to learn to satisfy himself, and his mother's attitude made him understand that it was not difficult.

04. When a child behaves well at ordinary times, he should affirm it in time.

Children will re-examine their behavior and confirm their value.