Why are many girls unwilling to have sex with boys now?

In the past, the roles of men and women were clearly defined, men assumed more economic responsibilities, and women assumed family responsibilities. This division of labor is also reflected in the AA system, that is, men will bear more expenses. However, with the change of social values, more and more women begin to pursue independence and equality, hoping that their economic independence and status will be respected and recognized, rather than passively accepting the "care" of each other just because of their gender.

The social reality of inequality

Although social values are changing, there are still many inequalities in reality, such as wage gap and occupational discrimination. Because women face more economic problems, for some women, AA system may be regarded as recognition and respect for their status, rather than an unfair practice.

Men's attitudes and behaviors

In some cases, men will show some behaviors that don't respect women, such as "scalpers" occupying seats and not respecting women's wishes. These behaviors may make women feel uncomfortable and unwilling to be with men, but they want to maintain their independence and self-esteem.

Personal choice

Finally, some women may be because of personal choice. For example, some women like to be pampered and cared for by men, and the AA system does not meet their expectations. Different women have different preferences and values, which is one of the reasons why some women don't want to be AA with men.

Personal opinions and suggestions

For this problem, I think it is necessary to analyze the specific situation. If two people have enough consensus and are willing to AA in some cases, then this is acceptable. But if one of them passively accepts AA system because of gender or other reasons, it is unfair. Therefore, it is suggested that men should respect women's wishes when paying, and women can also offer to share the cost at an appropriate time.

Finally, AA system is just a way to share costs. Both men and women should respect each other and should not have unpleasant feelings for each other because of such things.