How can women enhance their sexual charm? What are some tips for successfully seducing your husband?

In married life, it is very important for a woman to dress herself up carefully for her husband, hoping that her husband will be attracted to her and love her more. This is what the so-called "women want to please themselves to look good". However, in order to achieve the desired effect, women need to learn some seductive techniques. So how can women enhance their sexual attractiveness? What are some tips for successfully seducing your husband?

1. Tips for seducing your husband

1. Wearing high heels

A suitable pair of high heels paired with thin silk high-cut pants will make your legs slim and slim. It adds a lot of unspeakable charm in the eyes of men.

2. Moderate nudity

If a woman exposes too many key parts, she will be mistaken for being an "exhibitionist" and immoral. Therefore, how to expose yourself appropriately is a great science.

Women who are confident about their necks can wear V-neck clothes, paired with gold necklaces, to set off their beautiful necklines; women who are confident about their shoulders may wish to wear straight-shouldered and straight-cut clothes. If you are worried about showing too much shoulders, you might as well sew some lace or match the shoulder circumference; those who are confident about their breasts can unbutton one more shirt and wear a transparent shirt with a lace bra of the same color; for thighs Confident people should wear mini skirts. If you wear a long skirt, you should expose your ankles.

3. Showing shyness

Shyness is a secret weapon for women to attract men and increase their mood. When it appears at the right time and at the right time, it becomes flattering, which is a kind of female beauty, like a school. No young man would not be tempted by the girl whose innocent face suddenly turned red. But be careful not to "overuse" this posture, otherwise it will have a lewd meaning, which will lead to the opposite.

4. Use a fixed brand of perfume

Choose a fixed brand of perfume that suits you, and it will become your exclusive trademark. When he smells this fragrance, he knows you are coming. Most people sprinkle perfume on handkerchiefs and clothes. This not only makes the fragrance disappear easily, but also causes the clothes to become moth-eaten. Some women apply perfume on the roots of their hair, behind their ears, neck and armpits, which is not good either.

The best way is to apply perfume around the belly button and breasts, and use a small ball of cotton dipped in perfume to put in the middle of the bra. This will not only keep the fragrance for a long time, but also make the fragrance follow. The heat of body temperature spreads in all directions.

5. Learn the language of movement

That affectionate gaze, that charming smile, that elegant demeanor, and that charming face are sometimes worth a thousand words. Thousands of words.

6. Cultivate your "mysterious beauty"

Create yourself into a mysterious image, so that he will feel that you are always a mystery and a book that he can never tire of reading. .

7. Give your boyfriend a sweet nickname

Giving your lover a sweet nickname will make you appear closer to each other. What is surprising is that some prominent presidents and congressmen are also willing to be called by their nicknames by their lovers. These female nicknames that men find cute include: little duck, little handsome boy, little melon, little bastard, little fool, little darling, strong man, big head boy, big tiger, teddy bear boss, honey baby, Baby Egg, Mighty Bear, Mr. Bodybuilder, Vegetarian Pie, Charming Essence.

8. Childish confession

It will make your boyfriend feel very happy. When you spend a lot of money to buy a few theater tickets and prepare to ask your husband to watch the theater together, you can call him Zhong said in a child's naughty tone: "I am a very, very bad, bad boy. I bought a few theater tickets. If I tell you how expensive the tickets are, you will definitely lose your temper. But I promise, as long as you If you’re not angry, I’ll kiss you from the top of your head to your toes.” I believe your husband will laugh and say, “From the top of your head to your toes, right?”

9. Women should be romantic but not obscene

Elegance and obscenity are both related to women's charm, but there is a difference in proportion: if the charm is just right, it is romantic, if it is too charming, it is romantic. For obscenity. Usually, the so-called romantic nature is congenital, while the so-called romantic nature is acquired. Women who do not have romantic characteristics will be boring to men; women who have these characteristics can be called obscene: wearing disgusting underwear; having bad breath; having black teeth; having a muddy voice; often saying obscene and inappropriate things; eating while eating. Make a sound; spread rumors to cause trouble.

10. Showing "vulnerability" is the secret to femininity

In order to satisfy men's natural desire to "protect" women, it is necessary to show "vulnerability" appropriately. This kind of "fragility" can be manifested physically, with a weak appearance, or it can be manifested as mental "fragility", such as being afraid of thunder or being prone to tears.

11. Make awkwardness look cute

When a man is late for a date, if he says: "Ah! I'm late." You should hold back your complaint and reply: " I was worried that you wouldn't be able to find a place!" This is the appropriate manner for him to be late for the first time. But if he is late again next time, the quarrel will come in handy: "Huh! I'm late again. I'll punish you by inviting me to dinner!" This level of anger will make him like him quite a bit.

12. A gentle sigh can penetrate his heart

Encourage him to go to a slightly romantic bar together, sit side by side, and then sit 30 seconds in front of him. Chat happily as usual and drink an appropriate amount of wine. After 30 minutes, you started to play with the wine glass in your hand, and stared at his fingertips, sighing quietly: "Alas!" He noticed sensitively, and looked at you with worried eyes. You quickly avoid his sight, give him a fatal blow, and say "Alas" softly. His sighs towards you will definitely give rise to many suspicions, worrying that you no longer like to be with him. At this time, he will try his best to check his faults and be eager to tell you how much he likes you, and the love comedy will be further staged.

2. Sexual Life Suggestions

A report published in the American "Reader's Digest" pointed out that couples approaching middle age are prone to problems in the same room. It's better than when you are young. If you don't adjust well, your marriage will be endangered. For this reason, many sexologists in the United States provide readers with tips so that you can still have great sex after the age of 40.

Understand the body’s natural changes. "After the age of 40, both men and women will have physical, psychological and hormonal changes, which of course also includes active sexual organs." Salil Shu, a clinical sex psychologist in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, USA Maher said. For women, the tissues in the female private parts will become thinner, drier, and slower to lubricate. Caress that was once pleasurable may now be uncomfortable or even painful. If a woman does not understand these changes, she may complain that her husband is too rough, and her husband may mistakenly think that she has lost interest in sex. Men's bodies will also undergo changes, the most important of which is testosterone. Men's testosterone levels peak at the age of 20-30, and then gradually decline. A French study shows that after the age of 40, men's testosterone levels will drop by 25%, which will greatly reduce desire.

Don’t worry about these changes all day long. A study by Lore Sujavi of the Human Sexuality Project Research Center at Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York found that after the age of 40, although men's desire and sexual activity gradually decline as testosterone levels decrease, their sexual satisfaction does not change. . If women feel discomfort during sex, the solution is simple - change positions or use some lubricant.

Adjust sex speed. "Sex among young people is fast and passionate," said Professor Horente Kechadolen, a professor of human biology at Stanford University. When a man is in his 20s, he can reach climax 2 to 5 minutes after starting; while his wife may still be warm up. However, after a man turns 40, it will take longer to reach climax. He will become more in tune with his wife and more interested in slow, sensual seduction. Therefore, after the age of 40, men should slow down the speed of sexual intercourse, which can enhance the pleasure of both parties.

See less and act more. Judith Seifer, president of the American Association of Sex Educators and Therapists, said: "Young people may have an erection when they see a hat and a bra falling to the floor, but after the age of 35, the visual stimulation effect will weaken, kissing and caressing will It is easier to arouse his impulse. "A study by the University of Chicago found that 51% of men aged 25-29 will become very excited when they see their wives taking off their clothes. By the age of 40, this proportion is less than 1%. 40%. Therefore, couples should take more actions.

Women dominate. Hormonal changes in the body will bring couples into a new state. The man will become more willing to follow, he will be happy for his wife to take the lead; and the woman will become more proactive. Adapting to this new balance will allow both couples to gain more "sexual happiness."

Move from quantity to quality. For mature couples, neither party should place too much emphasis on frequency, but should pay more attention to quality and strive to make every time more special, exciting and memorable.