"Mom, I have nothing but you!" Stop making trouble

The mother who said this is very low and boring.

"Mom, I have nothing left, only you."

Mothers think this is a shot in the arm, and they often talk to their children, In fact, it was nothing more than a dose of morphine.

It may be effective in the short term, but it is not long-lasting and has irreversible side effects. If used for a long time or used too much, it will become a drug.

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I once saw a promotion where a mother cooked a table of dishes and eagerly waited for her child to come home for dinner. Didn't come, extremely disappointed.

The purpose of the promotional video is to get everyone to go home and watch it more. The original intention is correct.

But my first feeling after watching it was:

I will never be such a mother in the future.

Although I didn’t have children at that time. Now that I'm a mother, I still have the same reaction.

You cannot be a mother who completely revolves around your children. Even if you enter old age, you must still have your own interests and hobbies, your own circle of friends, and your own rhythm of life.

Such a little old lady is so cool!

Aging is a natural law, but aging is not.

Some people die at the age of twenty and are buried at the age of eighty; some people have a hundred-year-old appearance and a thirty-year-old heart.

Filling your life with fun and making your life interesting is the cultivation of human beings.

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It is particularly sad to attach one's own value to others to reflect it.

Have you ever asked the person being attached:

Are you happy?

Are you willing?

Can you bear the burden?

Mom hopes to have a smart, healthy and excellent child.

Why don’t children want a good mother who is beautiful, elegant, intelligent, active and interesting?

The better a mother is, the less she will give up her demands on herself, and the less she will superimpose all her value on her children.

Every time I hear: That’s it for my whole life, all my expectations are on my children.

Typical gambler theory.

I have no chips, and I don’t want to raise chips. I put my children on the table as the only bargaining chip, and I put all my money into it, trying to turn over at once.

Shudder.

It’s terrible to be their child, how much pressure they have to endure and how much a low-pressure environment they have to grow up in.

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This type of mother often has low pressure and is good at pressure education in a miserable way. famous.

Traveling in the world depends on being miserable, telling how hard it is for you, how much blood and tears you have to endure, and forcing children to complete their life path according to their wishes.

Please, those are all your own life choices, okay?

Wouldn’t it be easier to put pressure on the next generation instead of yourself?

It’s hard to put pressure on yourself.

You just choose the easier thing to do after weighing the pros and cons.

How can a person have nothing? It is not too late to start learning painting at the age of fifty, photography at the age of seventy, and taking the college entrance examination at the age of eighty.

It is easy to give up the requirements for oneself and impose strict requirements on others, because this is a typical double standard.

Modern society has a definition for this, called "double-standard bitch".

Don’t let a double-standard bitch ruin your child’s wonderful life experience!