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Shenzhen is now violently taking over marriage. Are these marriages excessive or enemies? From165438+1October 18, a video of "violent bride-picking" went viral online. In the video, the groom's brother, the bride-picker, swung a sledgehammer to break the door open, and the bridesmaids and photographers were scratched on their faces. Subsequently, the staff of Shenzhen Baoan Public Security Bureau said that it happened in Songgang, Shenzhen at this time, but the person who took over the relatives was Shajing and was scratched. ...

Besides picking brides violently, what other wedding habits are there around us? For some time, similar incidents caused tragedy, fracture, sexual assault and even death because of the bridal chamber. The marriage custom of China people seems simple, but it has a long history and far-reaching influence. It can be said that it spread all over the country, and it almost ran through the whole feudal society from its existence, and it was quite popular until modern times.

However, after thousands of years of changes and baptism, coupled with the sprint of foreign culture, this custom has undergone "earth-shaking" changes in meaning and purpose and has become vulgar. Many places have evolved into vicious incidents that simply ridicule and insult newlyweds. People can't help but reflect: tragedy should not have happened. When will China people's wedding habits stop?

Getting rid of bad habits in time is the top priority in life. From ancient times to the present, there is a custom of "getting married" everywhere, and the ways and means are different, but the theme of lively and festive remains the same. However, nowadays, the stereotypes in some weddings are becoming more and more serious, which makes the marriage customs become chaotic and vulgar.

Not long ago, Ada from the entertainment circle attended Bao Beier's wedding and was almost thrown into the water by the groomsman group, which caused great controversy on the Internet. However, a wave of unrest has started again. At the wedding scene in Henan, it was reported that the groom's parents were mixing donkeys to pick up the bride. This kind of disrespect for filial piety and etiquette makes the author feel very surprised after reading it. Why did the "wedding" become a "faint ceremony"? Is the world too big and I know too little, or is there something wrong with the folk customs?

Summarizing a civilized wedding is a precious memory for the couple and their family and friends. Rome was not built in a day to improve bad marriage customs, and it needs the common response of all people in society. We should inherit the excellent cultural customs that embody "loyalty, filial piety, courtesy and righteousness", such as issuing "family letters" and inheriting "family instructions", and get rid of the ugly habits and quirks of pretending to be ugly for fun.