Reflections after reading Hu Yinmeng's autobiography "The Incredible Life"

After carefully reading a famous book, I believe everyone has a lot worth sharing. It is important to record it. Let’s write a review together. So can you really write a review? The following are sample essays (selected 5) that I compiled after reading Hu Yinmeng's autobiography "The Incredible Life" for your reference. I hope it can help friends in need. Thoughts after reading Hu Yinmeng's autobiography "The Incredible Life" 1

I bought three books before the holiday. I didn't expect that the first one to read among the three books would be this one - Hu Yinmeng's "Life" "Incredible" is also an opportunity. I just finished reading this book, and I wanted to write about my feelings. While reading, I felt the author's good intentions in writing this book, and felt her ups and downs of life experience and profound insights into life.

This is a book I have read that has had a greater impact on me in terms of life. Although it is a biography, it is not just a biography. Hu Yinmeng has a paragraph in the appendix of the book. From the Q&A, I learned that she was only 46 years old when she wrote this book, which is not the age I originally thought she would be writing a biography. Through the Q&A, I also learned about her motivation for writing this book and gained insight into her understanding of life. .

In just five days of vacation, the process of reading this book was also the process of my understanding of Hu Yinmeng. It was as if I had seen the first half of her life from the side. Among them, there are some experiences that I deeply understand* **Ming, because I have similar experiences, but there are more people and things that outsiders don’t know about. If she doesn’t write about it, no one will ever know about it. It can be seen from this that she is a frank person, which proves the views she said at the end of the book. Her understanding of life is extraordinary. Otherwise, how could she write this autobiography.

In addition to the main text of this book, which is her autobiography, the appendix contains a question and answer dialogue, two of her speeches and some photography works. I have heard many people say before that reading allows readers to get closer to the author, but I don’t think so. When I read Hu Yinmeng's autobiography this time, I felt that reading really seemed to let me enter her life and her world. I deeply realized that the sentence "the reader narrows the distance with the author through reading" is nothing less than a sentence Correct words. Thoughts after reading Hu Yinmeng's autobiography "The Incredible Life" 2

"The Incredible Life" is an autobiography written by Hu Yinmeng after half a life of exploration and stumbling. She opened up the process of self-growth with words of observation. Following the detailed and bit-by-bit narration in the book, you will find that the author faces himself very deeply and courageously. It is a "map of the soul" that examines the self and presents the rich inner nature of human nature. This book starts from her parents' generation, until she becomes an actor, writer, translator, and finally transforms into an explorer and healer of "body, body and soul". The book vividly describes her childhood experiences, love stories, the origin and end of many events around her, as well as her macro-reflection on life. When reading, it is a shock that directly points to the original awareness and suddenly enlightens you. This is the purest and most candid biography about growth, self-awareness and self-rescue in recent years.

After reading the entire book, many words in the book made me deeply moved. Hu Yinmeng said: "My nervous system needs an outer home where it can relax and be sloppy, but I also need an inner home where I don't have to explain to the world or ask for approval." Now I often lack foresight, but I always gradually understand my own truth as things progress. For a moment, I asked myself: Can you have the courage to face yourself? I have no idea. Everything is unknown to me now. With a pious and firm heart, I am afraid, yearning, expecting, and exploring. Self-examination is too important for a person. It's not about correcting shortcomings and learning from each other's strengths to make progress every day, but about introspecting one's own inner soul, discovering oneself, and discovering that oneself is more than just self-rescue. I think this activity is meaningful even if it is just for us to live for ourselves. The more painful aspects of your life are those that you can transform most quickly and most completely. The most painful place, the most difficult place, the most depressed and hesitant place is precisely forcing myself to seek a breakthrough. Other comforts and smoothness will make you ignore your own problems and indulge in pleasure. The hardships I have experienced in my life are also guiding me towards the path of true self-realization. Without these hardships, people would not be able to finally realize who they are and where they are going, and they would not even have the opportunity.

Hu Yinmeng spent a lot of words in the book talking about alternative therapies. When she was in pain again and again, she bravely tried various treatments, with success and failure. You can see the courage behind her. She is a brave woman. Then she came to life. And this part of her description also gave me a lot of inspiration. Life has ups and downs, and you don’t know what the next scene will be like. You can only face it with courage and full effort. Every growth is a journey, and behind the journey are sufferings and challenges. She, Hu Yinmeng, came over and reached her 46-year-old age. After reading this book, I know what is waiting for me ahead, and I can only face it again and again with courage and full efforts. A few years from now, I hope I can proudly say to myself that I have made it through this and that I am indeed moving towards a higher level of progress in life.

Thoughts after reading Hu Yinmeng's autobiography "The Incredible Life" 3

At this time, I was sitting alone in a corner of the cafe in Terminal 2 of the Capital Airport and had just finished reading Hu Yinmeng's "The Incredible Life". I have been thinking about this legendary figure in my mind for several days.

Before I read this book, I didn’t know who Hu Yinmeng was. In my opinion, her most worthy identity should be the past of Li Ao’s ex-wife. After reading this autobiographical novel, I feel that I am ignorant in many fields. There are two things that impressed me the most: one is the author's father's emotional experiences; the other is the author's marriage and love history.

Hu Gengnian was orphaned in childhood and has a deep Oedipus complex. When he was ill, he was taken good care of by his first wife Pan, and they got married out of love. Because of his deep inferiority complex after marriage, he gradually became emotionally alienated from Pan. A third party appeared, that is, the author. Hu Yinmeng's mother, Hu Mu, took the initiative to show her love, but Hu Geng decided not to do so when he was old enough, and divorced his wife.

Men are probably like this, self-esteem comes first. Later, Hu Gengnian and Hu's mother also parted ways. They were also unable to bear the strength and ego of women. Those past kindnesses will not exchange for the tolerance and understanding of love.

What I want to say is that even if you pay a lot for your former lover and no matter how much kindness your love turns into, it will not be enough for you to hurt his self-esteem once. A smart woman must not only know how to give, but also how to manage her own emotions. She must not relax even a little bit. There is an old saying that "cultivation" can "keep the family together". That's the truth. Thoughts after reading Hu Yinmeng's autobiography "The Incredible Life" 4

I finished reading Hu Yinmeng's "The Incredible Life" in two days. It shocked and moved me. I was moved by her transformation, her courage and truth, and her incredible life. Driven by the mystery that exudes, I wanted to know more about such a rich life. I saw many photos of her when she was young on the Internet. It can be said that she was quite beautiful. At that time, she was a beauties of the same generation as Brigitte Lin and Hu Huizhong. , compared with today's transformation, there is no shadow of the past. I wonder if compared to Brigitte Lin marrying into a wealthy family and Zhang Sijia's intellectual independence, is she happy? Life is really too complicated. No matter what life course you choose, you can only have no regrets and no regrets, and you must experience it happily and bravely. This is life.

Yesterday’s gathering with my junior high school classmates was a practice for me to take the initiative to strengthen my connection with others, an experience of giving and receiving. The communication with... seriously tests the authenticity of the first love complex. I think he must have felt that the love he had suppressed because of his excessive self-esteem and low self-esteem had hurt himself and his emotions. So decide to express it when appropriate. This expression is not about any results, it is only about respecting your own emotions and allowing your emotions to flow naturally, so that you can learn to let go of yourself. Maybe it’s because the magnetic field of reminiscing about the past is too strong, so I can’t fall asleep peacefully when I get home, and I also feel like I’m traveling through time and space when I wake up in the morning. It can be seen that I am quite a nostalgic person. In my dream last night, I actually dreamed of having sex with..., shame on me!

Childhood without love is terrible. The book says: "Constraints" are the decisions made when we were young because of some things that happened. This is the formation of life patterns and the lack of father's love since childhood. , the "hatred" for my father planted in my heart by my mother at a young age formed my future hostility towards men (subconscious) and my unreasonable demands for love from men. I didn't give, and I didn't have love, but I asked the other party to give me something that was almost twisted. The reciprocated love, as well as the low self-esteem, depression, and unwillingness to give when it comes to true love. This is my life model for relationships between the sexes. The "love" of men in the past satisfied my twisted desire for men in the same way, but all ended in vain because there was no reciprocal contribution or because I had wrong standards for love.

Sad, ugh, I am 37 years old, and now I am just waking up from a dream. I hate him, I hate him for only having children but not raising children, I hate his ignorance and ruthlessness, I hate him for giving me 10 years Wasted emotions.

Can I still change the pattern of my life? Can I find my happiness? Thoughts after reading Hu Yinmeng's autobiography "The Incredible Life" 5

It took almost a week to finish reading "The Incredible Life" written by Hu Yinmeng.

As I closed the book, I felt the urge to cry. Although while reading this book, when I read each chapter carefully, I had the urge to cry several times, and I also had the pleasure of letting go of my throat and crying loudly. I did not explore specifically what was hidden behind the crying emotion, but I was truly, immersed and completely immersed in this huge sadness, sorrow and scream.

After every cry, there is a sense of cheerfulness and brightness, as if the sky has cleared up after the rain. I thought: This is also a deep self-healing!

Looking at the photos of the author’s characters in different stages from infancy, childhood to adolescence and middle age, I seem to see what a difficult and hard journey a life has gone through in the long river of time. After every moment of laughter, pain, awareness, and introspection, I experienced this so real and extremely touching book, and an inexplicable and huge sadness surged into my heart. And this kind of sadness makes me feel that it is not a kind of emotional catharsis and expression, but a kind of compassion and touching that comes from the inner and is constantly being filled.

I seem to see a life making unremitting efforts and persistence to find the true self, facing and bearing the processes and consequences of various worldly affairs with a correct attitude, and being so brave and courageous. valuable. This made me feel envious and appreciative, as well as a sense of responsibility and confusion. Forgive me for my lack of words and language expression. I am really not able to express my feelings and touches in detail. I can't express it that deeply, maybe because I haven't reached that deep enough level. After all, there are still too many things I don't know.

Although I don’t know where this feeling comes from, I just feel so clearly and clearly that I have such a clear and clear feeling.

I couldn’t help but ask myself a question: What kind of opportunity did my life bring me here? Come into my family? How can I complete my life lessons? How to experience this feast of life seriously, completely and bravely? What is my mission in life? None of the answers so far are fixed or unique. Although I am actively on the road to finding my inner self, there are still so many unknown areas to be explored, and so many life patterns to be discovered and broken through.

Life is an incredible journey, and you need to enjoy it in every life, just to experience it so that you can find yourself and return to the beginning.

Thank you for being able to read this book during such a period, thank you for every opportunity, and thank you for every existence.