Armored Knight: Out of the Lost Self

It's like walking in the jungle, turning left and right, and losing yourself. In order to get it, I keep running around every day, thinking that that is the peak of my life ahead.

Because of fear, we arm ourselves with heavy armor, thinking that we can avoid injury. A high barrier was erected between armor and self. Over time, I fixed my shape and couldn't see the existence of myself.

Who knows, the road to self is shrouded in layers of fog, and we can't hear the voice from the bottom of our hearts. Stop, calm down, clear the fog and listen to your inner wishes.

Laughter is to hide sadness, strength is to hide fragility, conceit is to hide inferiority, and chatter is to hide emptiness and loneliness. We use armor to cover up the opposite meaning in our hearts, thinking that everything is normal and the world is peaceful.

We like to wear various masks and play different roles. Can you tell which one is you? Everyone is you but not you, and your nature will not become better or worse because of pretending.

When you are in great sorrow, you find that that armor can't protect you from heartache. Armor just thinks that others will like their way of life.

Fear of loneliness, lack of security, want to get love, face the inner desire. Take off my armor and express yourself truly. I am who I am, and I won't be different because I hide it.

We often exist in our own world, thinking that we are the center of the world.

There is a saying in Wukong's story that when you realize that the earth doesn't revolve around you, you grow up.

There are six views between you and me, myself, I think, you think, you think, you think, I think.

When I think of myself and I think of you, these two thoughts occupy all of you, and you have a huge deviation from the objective world.

Feel each other's needs and pay attention to the inner world of others. I understand each other, but I don't have to do things according to each other's needs.

Empathy can let us see how we are connected, so that I won't be confined to my own point of view.

I have you, you have me, you are a part of me, I can feel your thoughts.

I hope it will be sunny tomorrow so that I can go out to play. It will be a rainy day tomorrow, and I can't help feeling a little disappointed.

Tomorrow's weather is fixed, which is beyond your control, but expectations are born in your heart. It is natural to realize your expectations, and if you don't, you will be disappointed. And this disappointment is my unnecessary sadness.

Expectation is like expecting that there will be no traffic jam on the road. You will spend your leisure time at work, your friends will help you, and your partner will follow your wishes. And these expectations make you in an insatiable state, kidnapping others with the mentality of "victim" and opening the way for your expectations.

Expectation puts you in an emotional maze and you can't escape. Accepting the truth is to see everything clearly and face all the things that should happen calmly.

Accept the imperfect self and the unchangeable facts. Only in this way can I have the courage to change myself and spend those wonderful moments in my life with a peaceful and happy heart.

People are born with kindness, wisdom, compassion and purity. We let foreign things blind our eyes and dust cover our hearts.

Hold down the position of the heart with your right hand and hear its "plop, plop" beating. This is the original powerful vitality.

Think about it. Do you mistake need for love? There are conditions for you to love someone. Your relatives should tolerate all your ups and downs, and your lover should pay for you. You need them, you think this is love, and you meet your needs in the name of love by taking.

Listen to your own voice, you love someone, simple and simple, just love. Listen to your own needs and let everything you do be a heartfelt wish.

Distinguish between need and greed. Necessities are the foundation of life, just like our basic necessities. Greed, like illegal wealth, is the accumulation of evil.

What you do, don't hurt others, don't aim at getting, listen to your inner thoughts.

Do you often ask yourself why I was born in a difficult family, why my friends betrayed me, and why others live better than me with hidden rules? You are trapped in this alley, and you can't get around a question.

Afraid of what hasn't happened, afraid of what has happened.

When you make it clear that they are just illusions, you won't worry about things that didn't happen because of fear. Recalling the past and imagining the future are not an entity.

Really grasp the happiness of the moment.

A rabbit is satisfied because he is a rabbit. On the other hand, people find it difficult to be happy because they are lonely.

What do we insist on? Personal characteristics, the difference between you and others. Faith, what is worthwhile and what is useless. Right and wrong standards, what is right and wrong.

Buckminster Fowler said: "I" is actually a verb, and we are creating "I" ourselves.

Self needs to rely on experience and the emotional color of experience, and it will be built around strong desires. When the emotional color is neutral, the self often slowly returns to the background.

Let go of yourself and strengthen the connection with the world. You can feel the flowers, smell the breeze and see the green trees. You are integrated with the world, you love yourself, you love others, you love nature and you love the world.