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Fukuhara Ai, modest and low-key, sweet and lovely, was nicknamed "porcelain doll".

However, under the soft appearance, it has a strong explosive force and endless tears, which has made many "famous scenes" in the table tennis field.

He is not only a Japanese national treasure table tennis player, but also deeply loved by the people of China.

Being able to speak fluent Mandarin has a "great northeast flavor", and the contrast is strong and unforgettable.

Why does it smell like the northeast? As a teenager, Fukuhara Ai went to northeast China to train table tennis, and she got along well with China players. She was also dubbed by netizens as "the little gray raised by the sheep village".

It can be said that Fukuhara Ai grew up under the gaze of the Japanese, and she was deeply in love with China. With her excellent skills and warm and inspiring experience, she has greatly promoted the popularity of table tennis in Japan, and can be called a "lovely angel" for friendly exchanges between Japan and China.

Recently, Fukuhara Ai's marriage has been on hot search several times. The original marriage was sweet and on the verge of divorce, which made people worry.

20 17, and Jiang zai held a fairy-tale wedding.

But this marriage was very unpopular at that time, because the income and social status of the two were too different.

It is said that the income at that time was 20 times that of Jiang; He is a well-known love bean and national goddess in Japan, and Jiang is just a provincial athlete.

But I think Jiang is very kind to her.

Falling in love, she mistakenly thought that Jiang's goodness was God's goodness and was worth giving her everything.

So she married Jiang regardless of all opposition.

That Disney wedding was very romantic and almost satisfied all the fantasies of a girl.

Ironically, Fukuhara Ai tearfully requested the wedding.

The day before I went to discuss the details of the wedding reception, Jiang suddenly said, "My shoulder hurts and I can't go tomorrow."

Fukuhara Ai wanted to hold a wedding in Disney since he was a child. Moreover, the two men also discussed it first, and there is no martial art who suddenly turns his face.

Crying and begging Jiang to help her realize her marriage wish.

Facing the weeping, Jiang said, "It's all because of you, which ruined the atmosphere of this family!" "

Jiang, who looks gentle and handsome, didn't expect to be a duplicitous person.

Fukuhara Ai thought it was just a small accident, but he didn't expect that the long-term mental abuse process really started after marriage.

Because of the bad news, she can vomit seven times a day during pregnancy, and Jiang blames her for "the child should have no nutrition"; After eating normally, Jiang will say to him, "Stop eating, you are getting fat".

After the baby is born, it is inevitable that it will be in a hurry. Sometimes, Fukuhara Ai throws diapers into the washing machine, and cleaning the house is not clean enough. She can get used to it, but her husband stands by and scolds her.

At that time, she was under great pressure and said to her friend, "The child is so cute. I thought I could support them desperately. " But Jiang always scolds me with foul language, which makes me feel great pressure. Those days were unconventional bloodshed ... "

Once she went to the dentist, Jiang scolded her on her way home: "You naughty boy, open your mouth."

Jiang hugged the photographer who she regarded as her father and scolded her, "Why do you take pictures with people who take nude photos of others?" I also want to have an affair with other women! "

Internally and externally, we should oppose violence in Fukuhara Ai, but we should interpret the appearance of a loving couple to increase their popularity.

Jiang He once participated in the "Trio of Happiness", and their sweet interaction made people call themselves miserable.

In particular, Jiang has to kiss himself 100 times a day, so he can't refuse.

Results Two people kissed in front of the camera from morning till night 6 1.

At that time, these interactions made people blush, but now, it seems that they are only full of love for Fukuhara Ai.

Because "kissing 100 times" was Jiang's plan and forced to do so.

Besides, Jiang's family also drained their blood like vampires.

At the wedding, Jiang's specially designed 3.22-carat wedding ring has touched countless girls.

As everyone knows, it was Jiang's sister who negotiated with the diamond ring brand at that time, provided that the photo with the diamond ring was used for publicity.

In order to become popular, Jiang's sister even announced their private lives without permission: uploading photos of family performances online; Say to the camera: "Love sauce exudes aura even in pajamas at home." ……

Jiang unconditionally supported his sister: "No matter what your sister says, you must never say no to her."

It bothers me to announce private affairs, but Jiang feels very interesting: "I'm not worried at all!" Instead, I feel very interesting! "

Fukuhara Ai's mother-in-law would help her take care of the children and teach her to cook at first, but one day she said to her face, "Come on, our family made a lot of money. You are the chicken that we will lay golden eggs! "

Later, the true side of her mother-in-law slowly emerged, and Fukuhara Ai would be condemned by her mother-in-law no matter how hard she cooked; If you make a little mistake, you will be scolded all day.

It is hard to imagine how Fukuhara Ai survived in such an environment.

Apart from anger, we don't understand how an excellent woman who loves beans in China and Japan like Fukuhara Ai can meet such an out-and-out scum family.

In fact, not only in Fukuhara Ai, but also in love rat, there are many entertainment circles.

Rachel Momo, cute and sweet, acting online, but cheating.

The affair didn't stop. Four years later, the man came out to deny it and hinted that Rachel Momo and the team set themselves up.

Beautiful, elegant and rich, Yuqi Zhang experienced a failed relationship and two failed marriages. Breaking up is not enough, but it has also encountered various revelations and connotations from its predecessor.

Although they are excellent, is it really just because of bad luck?

Not exactly.

The answer may be the hidden lack of fatherly love in the family where they came from.

The documentary "Fukuhara Ai: A Quarter Century under the Lens" almost recorded Fukuhara Ai's whole life from the age of 4 to her marriage.

In this documentary, Fukuhara Ai's mother accompanied her to practice and interview, but she never met Fukuhara Ai's father.

The media once reported that Fukuhara Ai hit his head when he was a child, and he was bleeding profusely. Her father just said coldly to his wife, "Just put a band-aid on her."

Lacking the companionship and care of his father when he was a child, Fukuhara Ai mistakenly thought that all boys were like this.

It is not difficult to explain why a boy who is a little nicer to her may win her heart.

Japanese media also reported that after Fukuhara Ai became famous, his father became addicted to gambling and was heavily in debt, using all his daughter's income to pay off his debts.

From then on, Fukuhara Ai Jr. was forced to shoot advertisements and competitions everywhere to make up for the black hole brought by his father and become a "cash cow" at home.

Since then, Fukuhara Ai has developed a likable personality.

In order to meet the expectations and demands of her family, she tried to hide her emotions and needs, thinking that as long as she paid blindly, she could get changes from the other side.

Look at Rachel Momo and Yuqi Zhang, also in childhood, who didn't get complete fatherly love.

They are easily moved by boys, do not know what a good man is, and are more likely to find a partner similar to their indifferent father.

This phenomenon can be found in psychology.

Psychologist Freud once put forward a psychoanalytic term: "forced repetition", which means that people tend to involuntarily repeat some traumatic experiences in their early years because of "familiarity".

And this familiarity stems from people's inner pursuit of security. After all, familiar demons are more acceptable than strange angels.

In childhood, children's cognitive imperfections, coupled with high dependence on their parents, lack or trauma, are likely to gradually internalize into the intimate relationship model in their hearts, which will be repeated in the subconscious.

This is why, obviously, some excellent women are extremely easily attracted by "love rat" when choosing a spouse.

Maybe they feel familiar with this feeling; It may also be that some bad experiences in childhood gave them special protection; It may also be that their way of dealing with pain is to repeat the pain. ...

Can't the trauma caused by family background be repaired?

Not exactly.

Look, they are gradually waking up and trying to repair their wounds.

I have drawn up an "application for divorce" and told Jiang his firm will: "I have reached the limit. You won't change. "

As can be seen from her Weibo, she is looking for her long-lost self little by little.

I believe that after so much experience, she has understood that no matter how much she pays in her feelings, she will not change the essence of the other party's "slag".

The ultimate solution in life is to really live for yourself.

Look at Rachel Momo and Yuqi Zhang, one of whom has become a real version of the cool woman, with countless circles;

A changeable style, strength and responsibility, everyone who knows her will fall in love with her

This is the power generated by women, an uncompromising and unyielding power.

Maybe ordinary people, like you and me, can't shine like them.

But as long as you work hard for yourself and take a small step, you may also encounter a turning point.

Because a spark can start a prairie fire.

I hope every woman can go forward boldly and say "no" to "love rat".

Meet your true self, get rid of the fetters of your early years, and live as you are.

Encourage with you.

About the author: Meng Xiaomiao, obsessed with words, concerned about women, gossiping and interpreting emotions; Forever young, forever in tears.