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"I promised not to cry, but I cried after listening to this song"

Introduction:

Time flies, but feelings remain undiminished. Jay Chou's song "Say Good or Not Cry" earned enough tears from the emotional audience. Those who sing know the feelings of youth best, while those who listen to the song burst into tears...

First love is the most unforgettable! A heart that has been deeply loved will break, just like a rose that will wither one day. The pain of a rose pricking your fingertips will cross the traces of memory and be imprinted in the depths of the soul. You will suddenly think of it in a midnight dream...

Ignorant, hazy and pure, the sacred first love can best arouse people. The first and most genuine emotional ripples in my heart...

A few days ago, Jay Chou's new song "Say Good or Not Cry" hit a new high in click-through rates, blowing up v-blogs and even Moments.

The MV of this song has also aroused heated discussion. It tells the love story between a girl who works in a milk tea shop and a boy who studies photography.

The boy has a dream of photography. Not only did the girl secretly sign up for him, but she also actively distributed leaflets on the streets, held up signs to promote milk tea, and delivered milk tea to customers who placed orders. She finally saved enough money to buy a camera and gave it to the boy.

This camera, which costs about 20,000 yuan, has been a favorite of the boy for a long time, but he could not afford to buy it because of its high price. This beautiful and kind girl understands the boy's longing eyes...

For a girl working in a milk tea shop, 20,000 yuan is a few months of hard work.

The boy got his wish and went to study at the photography school of his dreams, while the girl still stayed in the original milk tea shop and worked day after day.

After the two separated, the girl still stayed there and waited hard for the boy. Looking at the girl's solitary back makes me feel sad and cry!

The kind-hearted girl spared no effort and gave her all to fulfill the boy's dream. But what did the boy do for her? It seemed like nothing. A girl regards a boy as all she loves and occupies an important position in her heart. However, the road ahead is long and the future is uncertain.

The girl’s desperate efforts, such a love story, sounds really touching. The ending of the story given by this song is beautiful. The kind-hearted and infatuated girl finally waited for the sweetheart of her dream.

At this moment, I am listening to "Say Good Not to Cry" and watching the MV. When I hear the sentence "You have nothing, but you still cheer for my dream." I am still full of tears. , full of emotions... Because in the 1970s, there were many girls who were desperate for love like the heroine of the MV!

People born between the 1960s and the 1980s must be deeply touched by the contemporary lyrics and backgrounds of "My Deskmate", "Xiao Fang" and "Say Good or Not Cry". Most girls of that era were kind and simple, and could really give everything for love.

However, reality is sometimes cruel, and such girls often suffer the fate of being left empty-handed. Just like the lyrics and story of the song "Xiao Fang" that was once popular all over the country, the kind and infatuated "Xiao Fang" was eventually let down!

There is a classmate whose sister Jing is kind and infatuated. After graduating from high school, she was born in the 1970s, but missed out on college because of a few points. Back then, every family usually had several brothers and sisters. In order to reduce the burden on the family, Jing decided not to repeat her studies. Place the opportunity and hope of studying on your younger siblings.

When Jing was in high school, there was a boy named Xuan in her class who liked her. On the day when Xuan, who had excellent grades, received the university admission letter, he asked Jing to come out to meet him and gave Jing a beautifully wrapped gift with a blushing face.

Jing was the class liberal arts representative at the time, while Xuan served as class leader and blackboard publicity officer. As both class cadres, they admire each other and have feelings for each other. They cheered each other privately for the college entrance examination. Xuan got his wish and passed the XX Academy of Fine Arts. He deeply regrets that Jing failed in the college entrance examination!

In the evening, Jing, heartbroken, opened the gift package and found a brand new copy of Rabindranath Tagore's "Birds" in front of her. There was also a love letter inside the book! Jing read the 6-page long handwritten love letter with her heart racing, and she couldn't calm down for a long time! She shyly and sweetly kept it under her fragrant pillow, and fell asleep with the love letter on her pillow at night.

During the summer vacation after graduating from the college entrance examination, they had a sweet date, riding to the nearby beach to watch the sunrise, and going to Huguangyan together... The happy time always went very fast, and in the blink of an eye it was the beginning of the school year. Xuan packed his bags and prepared to report to school. Jing gave Xuan a pure white shirt.

On the day before leaving, Jing couldn’t bear to leave Xuan all the way to the city train station. The two had to say goodbye reluctantly, and there was a touch of sadness in the air. Until the train carrying Xuan sped away, Jing still stood on the platform in a mess in the wind...

In the days after farewell, Xuan, the proud son of heaven, roamed the ocean of knowledge to his heart's content, chasing his lofty dream. Jing helps her parents farm at home and helps her younger siblings with their homework at night. They rely on swan geese to send letters to express their love for each other.

In order to make money for her younger siblings to study, Jing and her sisters from the village went to work in the Shenzhen Special Economic Zone Electronics Factory after the Spring Festival the next year. The smart and capable Jing was quickly promoted to workshop supervisor.

Jing sends half of her monthly salary back to her parents to support her younger siblings in their studies. Apart from basic expenses, most of the rest is sent to Xuan for food or art equipment. Because many families were generally in difficulty at that time, the kind-hearted Jing Sheng was frugal and worried about everything about Xuan.

Before Xuan entered his junior year in college, he had maintained close contact with Jing. We also see each other frequently during holidays and express our sincere feelings to relieve the pain of missing each other.

At the beginning of his senior year, Xuan's letters gradually decreased. The original two love letters a month became only one every six months, and the tone was extremely perfunctory and bland. I only went to Shenzhen once or twice to visit Jing during the winter and summer vacations. How could the delicate Jing not feel Xuan's increasing neglect and alienation!

During the internship, Xuan had less contact because he was busy and nervous. He told Jing not to send him anything anymore. Jing had no choice but to lock an unsent letter full of longing and sadness at the bottom of the box. Although she understands the busyness of internship, she also knows that Xuan's heart has changed!

After Xuan graduated, Jing, who had seen through Qiu Shui, received a letter from Xuan and Liao Liao. He told Jing that he chose to stay and work in the city where he studied. Tell Jing to take care of herself, stop sending him letters, stop waiting for him, and hope she will be happy in the future...

Although Jing was mentally prepared, the moment she saw the breakup letter, her heart was still filled with tears. It's so painful! She hid in her room and cried all night. When she went to work the next day to instruct new employees, due to a mental trance, her left index finger was stretched to pieces by the machine... She had an accident and was heartbroken, and then fell seriously ill.

Because Jing is usually serious and responsible at work, smart and capable, the company leaders value her very much. Her bosses came to the hospital to visit and comfort her. There is a vice president who has been secretly in love with Jing and silently cares about her. How could Jing, whose heart is as fine as dust, not know? It's just that she had her own heart at the beginning and had no distracting thoughts.

The company allowed Ah Jing to take three months of paid leave to recuperate. During the healing period, former classmates and friends also visited Ah Jing one after another. A classmate told Ah Jing that Xuan was chased and beaten by a girl in his class when he was a senior, and they later became together. They now choose to work in the same city.

After three months of healing, Jing’s body gradually recovered. But the injured heart is still aching and has not healed. How can we forget the most innocent first love of more than three years, how can we let go of it!

Considering that she would not be able to work in a short period of time, Jing decided to resign and let her mind wander for a while. The company tried its best to retain him, and the vice president he had a crush on also sent Cupid's arrow. But Jing was disheartened at that moment and had decided to leave. She packed her simple luggage and started a pilgrimage to Tibet...

After returning from Tibet, Jing decided to apply for a correspondence university. She has had a dream since she was a child to be a people's teacher. Because she had a strong foundation, she was successfully admitted to a correspondence college. After graduation, he was assigned to teach in a local primary school. From then on, she devoted herself to her career, loved her children as much as her children, and was deeply loved by her students.

With her mind as calm as water, she no longer had any feelings for her subsequent suitors, and there were no more ups and downs. Once upon a time, there was no water in the sea, but it was nothing except Wushan. This worried her kind parents! Later, her parents slowly figured it out and let nature take its course.

During those days when love was heartbreaking, Jing once said to her best friend that Kelly Chen’s song "Notepad" seemed to be written specifically for herself: "I have waited too long for you, and I think you will shed tears. Flow. And what is happiness? It hurts so much that I cry, and I am so tired from crying. The pages in the diary are filled with persistence, recording your goodness..."

Jing has been promoted. As the principal, she still works conscientiously. After Xuan worked for two years, he opened his own studio and held many art exhibitions. He had a successful career but was frustrated in love. It is said that Xuan gave birth to a son not long after he married the female classmate. Later, due to the personality differences between the husband and wife, the conflicts gradually intensified, and they have now parted ways.

One winter vacation, I went to visit my old classmate and met her sister Jing. The beautiful and delicate girl in the past has changed her face, and her face is engraved with a touch of the vicissitudes of time. However, despite having suffered emotional trauma, her gentle and kind nature remains unchanged. She was as warm and considerate as ever to me as a visitor.

Just when I said goodbye and turned around, I remembered her pure first love, but my eyes were filled with tears...

"Look for the sun where there is no wind, and warm you where you are cold. Yang. People are busy, but you are always too naive...The past is fleeting, and you will always be moved..."

Just like the lyrics of Ma Liang's "The Rest of My Life" are full of love, the tune is full of regrets. . The love explained by this song is like a place of loneliness after prosperity. It makes countless listeners cry and scream as this song sings their own stories in their earthly lives.

I hope that everyone who is full of expectations for love can meet the right person who cherishes and dotes on you: "For the rest of my life, you will be your poverty, your glory, your tenderness in my heart, and your eyes. To, it's all you!"

There is a classic saying in Rabindranath Tagore's "Birds": "The world kisses me with pain, and asks me to repay it with songs.

Finally, I wish the gentle and kind-hearted Jing: From now on, the time will be clear, and the rest of my life will be peaceful and peaceful!

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About the author: Purple Loves Blues, Live with your left hand, and dream with your right hand. You can make delicious soup and travel far away. I have tea, and you have stories. With a cup of tea, you can watch the ups and downs of life with your mind.