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Thank you letter to mother-in-law.
Thank you letter Mother-in-law 1 Dear daughter-in-law:
Hello!
On the eve of you and my son forming a new family, I hope we can exchange views on some related issues for the sake of family stability and unity in the next few years.
First, economic issues.
The so-called economic base determines the superstructure. Let's talk about this problem first.
1, my son graduated from a prestigious school. Now it seems that even if he changes jobs, he basically doesn't have to worry about economic problems; His current annual income is 65,438+10,000. I think, according to the living standard in Beijing now, you two should be enough without paying back the loan and rent. This plan is based on your not working. If you have a job you like, I'm happy for you. If you have a well-paid job, I will be more proud of you and your quality of life will be improved accordingly. If you don't have a job, I don't have any opinions. It is natural for a man to support his family. Just have fun. As a mother-in-law, I am very supportive.
As an old man, we won't reach out to you in the future. We have worked hard for most of our lives and earned enough money. At this point, I hope you can use all your income to build your small family, which is getting better and better.
His father and I have raised him for more than 20 years, asking for nothing in return, and we don't need you to give us any living expenses, but we won't provide any financial support for your life. I hope you can be self-reliant and live a happy life.
Your family raised you, so you should be grateful. My son is not from your family, so please don't expect him to give back to your family. I understand and support him very much if he is willing to bear the corresponding responsibilities based on his love and respect for your family. But his father and I won't have any financial help.
You understand; Of course, if your mother's family is stronger than ours, we won't ask your mother's family for any financial help. We mean it.
Our assets and securities will be accompanied by a lawyer and will be notarized by the notary office. We will put the legacy in the names of our son and grandson. When our son is dead and our grandson is under the age of 20, this part of the funds will be entrusted by a special person and supervised by a lawyer, so you will not have the opportunity to contact our assets. Of course, you have the right to live in our house. I hope you can support our decision. After all, my son's future income is yours, and we will never miss it.
Second, the house problem.
1. We will provide the house where you live, and ensure that the commercial house is within the Fourth Ring Road, with an area exceeding 130 square meters, which is a mature community; The purchase of the house should be based on your opinion as far as possible within the reasonable price range, but your name will not be on the real estate license, so please try not to receive your distant guests inside; Decoration of home appliances will give you a budget of 200,000. I hope you will sympathize with us, save as much as possible and reimburse us at the invoice price. When decorating, I will try my best to control myself and not express any opinions, because I fully understand my daughter-in-law's aversion to her mother-in-law's decoration suggestion, and I agree.
We will leave a set of keys in the house where you live, mainly to prepare for emergencies (such as water leakage and power failure) without your keys. I swear to you with my personality that I will never enter your house without your consent, and we will not visit you without saying hello.
You will also have a set of keys in the house where we live, with the same functions as above. You are always welcome, midnight.
Or if it can be avoided in the early morning, the nanny is always at home, not afraid that no one is working.
In the future, when you buy your own house, we will provide a certain amount of congratulations as appropriate. Other than that, we don't make any comments.
Third, daily relationships.
1. My son is my own and a continuation of my blood. I won't love you more than he does. Please remember this. But you are also the closest person in the world except my wife and son, so when you have any conflict with outsiders (whether your relatives, friends, classmates, colleagues or my relatives and friends), I will firmly stand by and watch your side.
Please understand that no matter how bad my son is, in my eyes, he will always be the cute baby lying in the cradle, the naughty boy with mud all over his face, and you are a mature and sensible girl in my eyes, so I always think my son is easy to forgive. I'm very sorry about this, but I think you will understand when you are a mother, so I will try my best to be partial to you when you have an argument (my son is biological and won't hold grudges), but please tell me as little as possible about that boy, okay?
My son was born by me. Before you get married, I will try my best to communicate with you objectively my views on her, especially her shortcomings. But on the other hand, you chose your husband. After you get married, his ideological education has nothing to do with me. Please remould yourself later. I won't help or obstruct it.
For you, after all, you are not my own daughter. I will respect you first and hope to like you further. If you have something I don't like or don't like, if it's none of my business, I will shut up; If it is my business, I will try my best to exchange views with you politely, hoping that we can get knowledge.
5. For me, I hope you will respect me, and it would be better if you like it. If I have something you don't like or dislike, if it's none of your business, please shut up; If it's your business, please don't express it in front of a third person. Please tell me frankly when we are alone, and we will find a reasonable solution.
Fourth, the problems of daily life.
After all, we are not a family and have no experience in living together, so there will always be bumps and bumps. I hope we can abide by the following principles:
1, I have a nanny at home. You don't have to work when you come to my house, but I will be very happy if you are willing to put chopsticks at dinner.
I don't care if you have a nanny, but I won't help if we go to your house. If it's too much trouble for you, I can invite you out to dinner.
In my home, please observe my living habits and hygiene standards.
4. In your family, I will respect your living habits (I can't tell if young people like to be in a mess), and don't make irresponsible remarks and dictate.
Thank you letter to mother-in-law 2:
If northerners call you, you should call grandma. However, growing up, I still want to call you "mother-in-law", just like snuggling in your arms and chatting with you. I don't know why, at this time, I saw the tears when you sent me away, but I didn't feel sad, but I felt very warm. Hehe, can the temperature of tears warm my hands? It's possible.
Grandma, from the moment I started working, I took the initiative to contract all your living expenses until you left us at the age of 93. On the day of the funeral, I was not sad, but relaxed. I'm old. It's a natural law. I know your body has gone to heaven, and your heart has always been with me.
Mother-in-law, I still remember when I was a child, I was your little tail, and I followed you back to your mother's house every winter and summer vacation. Because you have been taking care of your brothers, sisters and children during the famine years of land reform before or after liberation, even if you are a landlord, you are in dire straits. You are respected and close among your relatives. Your parents and relatives are proud to invite you to your home. At that time, I will be happy to eat all the way. In retrospect, I thank you very much. Relatives love you eagerly because you help them with the money and food saved by thrift. These good relationships brought about by your kindness not only make me grateful for your hospitality, but also show me that your efforts without asking for anything in return have been rewarded with sincerity. In eating and drinking, I learned to be kind to others and generous.
Mother-in-law, you should know that the big bed that your mother's family paid for has always been very clean in my memory. Grandpa who works in the field is not allowed to sit. Among dozens of grandchildren's children, no one dares to go to your bed. I've slept with you since I was a child. Like all little dolls, I guess I hurt your sheets and plates in the middle of the night, but you never abandoned me. When I was very young, I peed my pants. When I was at school, I accompanied my homework, accompanied my endorsement, and accompanied me every night. As long as I don't sleep, you just sit under the covers and wait silently. In winter, you must tuck me in before going to bed; In summer, you gently fanned me with a big cattail leaf fan until I fell asleep in the cool wind. In fact, I have always been very grateful to you for taking care of me and accompanying me silently. In my present life, I often stay at home alone, but I seldom feel lonely. I think it must be because you were with me every day when I was a child, and I never felt lonely at night when I was a child.
Grandma, you always trust me so much. I want pocket money, you can give it without saying anything; I made a mistake and others came to complain at home. You tell others that she will change next time. If you are not satisfied with yourself after the exam, you will say, what's the matter? Why don't you do well in the next exam? As long as I tell you what I want to do, you will immediately support me ... In fact, I am not as good as you think, but your trust makes me particularly brave when I grow up.
Mother-in-law, I still feel sorry when I think about it now, that is, after I left Chongqing, I spent too little time with you. In fact, I should sit by your side, spend more time with you, silently, just like you accompany me to do my homework at night, so that you can enjoy the warmth of physical dependence and the sureness of inner satisfaction in a quiet night.
Grandma, I will go home on the 7th. When I come back, I will definitely go to your grave and stay with you quietly for a while.
Your granddaughter
XXXX,XXXX,XX,XX
Thank you letter to mother-in-law 3 Dear mother:
I hope you don't feel uncomfortable adding "dear" in front of your mother. This is to address you more kindly and treat you as your own mother. You don't have a daughter. I hope you treat me as a daughter. ......
I've always wanted to tell you what's on my mind, but I'm too embarrassed to say it from my mouth, so I choose to express it in the form of a letter. In fact, I've always wanted to say to you: Mom, you have worked hard to take care of us. I have always sincerely thanked you for your hard work. You really did a lot to take care of us. I keep all these in mind.
It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with. I think the two of us get along well. Of course, the most important thing is your hard work and tolerance, which makes me only respect and appreciate you. Thank you for not only taking care of Xuan in your busy schedule, but also taking care of her diet and daily life. You have to take Xuan shopping hard almost every day. In order not to let the sun shine on the porch, you carry the little guy and the food you bought under the eaves. When a section of eaves is finished, we have to take it down hard, especially to pick up the car and pick up Xuan. Sometimes grandma Wang next door watches the rain or the sun is too bright, and you don't feel at ease if you leave Xuan at home and ask her to help. You must take your porch with you, so that you can feel at ease and satisfy your little wish to go out. Thank you for learning. As long as it is good for Xuan, you will put it in your heart and do it seriously. For example, I let you read some books on parenting, print some notes on my computer, and download some videos on parenting knowledge. Although you didn't read much before, I was very moved by your earnest and open-minded study. This is the scene where you teach Xuan to read, dress him, urinate and feed him. Thank you for taking Xuan and your father to pick me up from work every day on our way to work. Every day, I look for you on the road. As soon as I saw you, I forgot the fatigue of a day's work and ran to your side to pick up my lovely baby. I really felt very happy at that moment. Occasionally I feel uncomfortable and empty because it is inconvenient to pick me up from work for a few days. You and Xuan came to pick us up from work rain or shine, which really touched me. Thank you, when we are going to work, you always enthusiastically teach Xuan to say goodbye to me and Xuan's father, and walk us to the door with Xuan, sometimes watching us from the balcony, cultivating Xuan's deep feelings with his parents since childhood. Thank you for giving me the porch as soon as you get off work. Let me play with Xuan and run to the kitchen to cook or wash clothes or mop the floor. You are always busy at home anyway. Thank you for accompanying me to set up the shooting scene. Although you saw me carrying my sleeping porch into the scenes I arranged several times before, and worried that I would affect porch's sleep, you slowly supported and cooperated with me. This is a photo of the sunbathing scene. When the little guy's clothes were caught in the clip, he suddenly woke up and began to cry. Thank you for understanding that I am weak, and you are holding Xuan hard most of the time when I go out. I only occasionally saw that you were too tired to take Xuan from you, so that it's been 13 months now, and I haven't taken Xuan out alone. You and we are far and near, so we insist on taking publicity almost every weekend. This is a collection of photos of you playing with Xuan at school and in the park. Thank you for joining us in the activity. Although you thought it was a close call to take such a small porch to play in the sun at first, and you didn't support it very much, when you saw that porch won the first place in the rock climbing competition, you laughed more happily than all of us, and gradually became as fond of such activities as I did. This is a photo of taking Xuan to Tao Le for a meeting and rock climbing competition on Children's Day. Thank you for taking Xuan to sleep every night and insisting on peeing in the middle of the night. Recently, I usually wake up after five o'clock in the morning, which makes you unable to sleep well at night. For a while, you caught a cold. I understand that you are not feeling well. Have a good rest at night. I'm taking Xuan to sleep for a few nights. Thank you for being my photographer and Xuan's. You haven't taken pictures before, and you don't know much about taking pictures. But at my request, you slowly learned to take pictures with your mobile phone and camera, and you can basically take pictures. Hehe, it would be better if your skills can be improved. This is your photo work, and the effect is not bad. Thank you for your kindness to Xuan. Sometimes I think you are better and more concerned about Xuan than we are. Sometimes Xuan accidentally falls down. You must be the first person to rush up and hug her. It's a great honor to have a grandmother like you. There are really too many words of gratitude to say. I often tell my parents and friends around me that you are kind to us, and I really want to thank you. I wanted to give you some money to buy what you wanted the other day, but you refused, so I'll find a chance to buy something to show you later. Although you don't have any money income now, please remember, mom, what is ours is yours, don't worry about having no money on hand and so on. If you want anything, just tell us. I remember saying something from my heart to Li some time ago: "I think God is fair to everyone, at least to me. Although my mother-in-law can't give us financial support when we need money to buy a house, her diligence and simplicity have given me more help, helping me take better care of Xian than myself, which makes me feel at ease and satisfied. " I really feel happy being your daughter-in-law. Although you didn't provide us with a rich material foundation, you made us work harder and face life more actively. I prefer plain and real life to luxurious and flashy life, and there is not much happiness in it. My father and I promise you that we will work hard to make our family's material life more and more affluent and spiritual enjoyment more and more fulfilling. In addition, I want to make a small request to my mother, that is, don't be too hasty in doing things in the future, and speak quietly. We also know that you are concerned about this aspect, just to remind you to pay more attention in the future. Sometimes I don't do well enough, so I don't feel at ease if you say a few words loudly. Sometimes I talk to Xuan or other people in the room in a hurry, which makes everyone a little unaccustomed. Hey, hey, mom, you're doing great. It would be better if you pay attention to this aspect. Sometimes it's okay not to pay attention. I'm just reminding you in good faith I hope we can get along better in the future. Think of me as a daughter. If I'm not doing well enough, just say so and I'll try my best to correct it. We will treat you and dad well in the future, don't worry.
Finally, I wish you and dad good health and all the best!
I am here to convey
Salute!
Thank you: xxx
Date: 20xx year x month x day
Thank you letter to mother-in-law 4 Dear mother (father, father-in-law, mother-in-law):
Hello!
At this moment, with joy, I am very honored to inform you that _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _
As a well-known early education brand in the global chain, XX Company knows that it is not easy to train outstanding talents, and thank you for training such outstanding employees for XX Company. They are not only your pride, but also the greatest pride and wealth of XX Company. We will treat them like our own children.
As a member of the company's big family, your children are valuable assets of the company. Behind their unremitting efforts, you are always unknown, and there is only support and concern. How many days and nights you can't get together and be happy, and how many days and nights you worry about our family. It is you who hold up half the sky, and it is your meticulous care and support that compose a song of triumph. The glory of victory belongs to our company as well as to all employees and you. Dear parents, it is you who have cultivated children's diligence and dedication and noble sentiments. It is you who have given them confidence and strength to overcome difficulties. This has been infecting every employee and making them better serve our members. To this end, we have specially set up the excellent employee family award, and hope that you can continue to support your children's work.
To this end, our enterprise is also training and promoting managers, giving outstanding employees a broader platform. Your child will continue to make a new journey on a brand-new platform in the process of struggling and growing with the enterprise. We will meet the dawn of the enterprise's take-off together.
XX company 20xx June
Thank you letter to my mother-in-law 5 Dear mother-in-law:
With a grateful heart, I want to say to you: I don't want to express it either, so today I hid my gratitude in my heart through the parenting network. I don't know any sweet words and witty remarks, and I'm not the kind of person who is duplicitous and duplicitous. I am an outspoken person, so we often have conflicts in speaking.
How time flies! Every day is 13 months. We have been together for a year and have learned a lot about each other's personalities. What you have done for every day in this year is what I have seen and heard as a mother. Before you are born every day, you have prepared disinfection, crying, clothes and so on for every day. From not accepting me before to being so kind to me every day, I really feel very satisfied with such a big change. I totally understand your rejection of me before.
Parents-in-law, your later transformation and acceptance will be so happy every day, and you will also have a complete home, grandparents who love him so much, parents who are with him, and parents who care about him, so I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Without your acceptance, my husband and I may still live a life of separation. We don't have a complete home every day, which will be looked down upon by people and have a great impact on our physical and mental health every day. Every day is your favorite grandson, and some people may think that it is natural for grandma to take care of her grandson every other generation. But I don't think so. It's not easy for you to raise a son. You have no responsibility or obligation to raise your grandson. It's time to enjoy it. But you are still worried about us in your career now, and the two of us will live so easily and happily. Can I come to work without you? Can I learn to drive so recklessly? Can we sleep that late? Can you sleep so well at night? Do we still have time to surf the Internet? Can you still spend so much money? Do I still have time to go shopping and buy clothes? Do we eat your breakfast at home every day?
Mother-in-law, I know you always forget to eat protein powder because you didn't sleep well, and you don't have time to dress up any more ... For the sake of daily care, you always get up so early, dress him, feed him milk powder and play with him. It's really not easy to take care of a child and pay a lot for him. Every day is a naughty and stubborn child, and everything must follow him, which is more difficult to coax than other children. Last year, I was hospitalized with pneumonia, and I know that you broke your heart every day and took injections every day. You stayed with him for a week, watched him, and didn't come home once, for fear that his little hand would drop. I see all this in my eyes and keep it in my heart.
Every time my baby son jumps on my grandmother from my arms, I'm not jealous. I don't feel like a failure, but I'm very happy, because grandma is getting better and better to him every day, which shows that grandma loves him more. Can a mother be unhappy when her son is loved?
Although we quarrel occasionally, I really can't accept your sometimes outspoken, stubborn and harsh demands on me. I will refute you to your face, but I am very grateful to you from the bottom of my heart. Actually, on second thought, we shouldn't quarrel, because our goals are the same. We all want this family to be good, my son, your grandson, your son and my husband, but our methods are different.
Mother-in-law, you also said that you have no daughter, and you regard your daughter-in-law as your own daughter. As for me, my mother is so far away that I only see her two or three times a year. I want to be as free as my own mother. My dear mother-in-law, I thank you very much from my heart.
xx
XXXX,XXXX,XX,XX
Thank you letter to mother-in-law 6 Dear daughter-in-law, hello!
First, thank you for marrying my son. I can see that he is happy and I am happy for you. And I became your mother-in-law, which is also a kind of fate, at least we should cherish it.
But after all, we are short of 20 years of nurturing, and it is difficult to be considerate like a mother and daughter in a short time, but we all love the same man, and I am willing to live in peace with you for his happiness. If we can't be mother and daughter, we will be friends. Maybe this relationship can make us feel more relaxed and natural.
We understand your point of view that you intend to live alone after marriage. Although I have been used to my son's life of going home every day for many years, I will feel lost and lonely, but that is the besieged city of your marriage, and you should operate independently.
We have paid the down payment and decoration expenses for your new home, and the next month will be borne by you alone. We are not the home of the very rich. We must save enough money for our retirement. You and my son are both only children, and I don't want to add to your burden in the future. When the elderly can't do anything, we have to rely on our own savings to enter the nursing home or read the passport materials, so please understand our hearts.
As you study economics, I will advise my son to leave your income to you for management. In this era, your future survival pressure will be greater than ours. You must learn to arrange your income and expenditure reasonably, and you won't panic if you have surplus grain in your hand, no matter what time.
Please don't mind me telling my son everything, just as your mother told you everything. It is inevitable that a family will stumble. Even if I am dissatisfied with you, it is my respect for you to communicate with my son alone. Don't you often tell him about me?
If there is any problem between us, it is good for our son to "thread the needle" to eliminate misunderstanding and communicate emotions. I didn't mean to make my son not love you, and you should not try to keep him away from me, let alone ask him who he would save first if we both fell into the river at the same time. My son's love for us is not in conflict. Such "vinegar" is very boring. I also believe that my son will not be biased, and he will learn to make "double-sided tape" from some failed lessons.
However, we all have to understand that if there is a constant "war" between us, he will always be the first to get hurt. Ask yourself again, do we really love him? Then learn to be considerate and generous. Of course, I am an elder, so I must relax my mind first. After all, you are not my daughter, so you can't take anything to heart.
The era we live in spans more than 20 years. You don't understand my business, and I don't like your question. This is normal. But if you have something to say, don't carry a machine gun everywhere. After all, I'm not your real mother. I can't do it. I have to follow you and ask you if you want it.
I won't take full responsibility for raising your future children. This should be your parents' responsibility. Moreover, we are too old to undertake the heavy responsibility of educating him. His father still exerts his afterheat in his work. Although I am about to retire, I also want to have a real rest and arrange my happy life. This is not selfish, but we insist on self-reliance and give less trouble to the younger generation.
Of course, after you give birth, I'll hire a new moon and a nanny for you, and we'll pay for it. We will do our duty as grandparents in this way.
I can also understand that as a mother, it is inevitable to breastfeed and work at first. I will urge my son to work harder to make you worry about food and clothing and give you more care so that you are not lonely. If he is a man, he should do what men should do.
You can also choose to return to your family to be a full-time wife, but I hope this is only a stage, because you are still young, and you should not pin your hopes on your husband and children early. In the process of children's growth, grandparents are also duty-bound if they need our help.
If we need a better kindergarten or school in the future, we will also give financial support so that our grandchildren can receive a better education. But remember, you are the child's first teacher, and setting an example is more important than anything else. You should always set a good example for your child.
I love my son, and I will try my best to love you. I believe that love can finally transcend everything and let go of everything. If your parents-in-law didn't give birth to your children, they wouldn't expect you to take care of our elders. We just need some sons to accompany us to comfort our aging hearts, even if it's just going home for a chat on weekends.
My son has grown up. It is his duty to provide you with a solid arm. We will not interfere in this respect. At the same time, he has an obligation to take care of our old age. You shouldn't be dissatisfied with this. We should all be content to be ourselves first, and don't hurt each other's hearts with selfishness and ruthlessness. At this rate, we will all lose the love of a good man.
I hope you can grow old together like us. This process itself is a romantic thing. Now his father and I can sit in the rocking chair together, watch the happy life of our son and you, and talk slowly.
Dear, don't be too close to us, it may bind your hands and feet, which is also our regret; Don't be too far away from us, let's watch you two fly happily, which is also our happiness.
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