Is it normal to get married without happy events?

I think it is normal. Not everyone is happy when they get married. After all, some people are afraid of getting married, and some people have symptoms such as anxiety before marriage. Therefore, we can't generalize everyone. There will always be someone special. Don't worry too much about this, don't think too much, try to find something to calm yourself down, or tell your future partner to help you share the troubles at the moment.

Many people are more or less looking forward to the day when they will be the groom or bride before marriage. On that day, the groom was the most handsome and the bride was the most beautiful. You can't count on an important event in life, but when you really want to get married, you won't feel this way.

Just like a friend of mine, who got married soon, during the time when she was taking wedding photos to prepare for the wedding, she said that she only felt tired and busy and had no joy in being a new person. For example, when taking wedding photos, the photographer will only say that the bride and groom are more intimate and smile more naturally. A friend said that her face was cramped with laughter, but the photographer was still dissatisfied with his work and felt like laughing.

There are others who invite relatives and friends, choose wedding dresses and hotels, and have to do it themselves. I'm exhausted. After listening to her words, I feel that I have no feelings about marriage. It is really a good thing that two people who love each other can finally come together and become a loving couple, but marriage needs a sense of form. If you need to plan all kinds of things for this huge form, it will kill your happiness.

So it's normal to be unhappy when you get married. Perhaps it is because of this triviality that you don't feel happy. Maybe you are worried about the unexpected happiness in your married life. I want to say, let go of all your troubles, be a happy bride and leave all your troubles to your future partner.