A video of a young man in Zunyi, Guizhou, being rejected for getting married has sparked heated debate. What do you think of this?

I think this young man should be lucky that he did not succeed in getting married. It can also be seen from this incident that the two people are not suitable for each other. It is fate that two people can walk together and enter the palace of marriage. Cherish it, marriage is not a bargaining chip for negotiation.

Many people may not understand why this young man was rejected when he wanted to marry him. This is mostly caused by a piece of underwear. The custom there requires that the man should give the woman a set of clothes from head to toe on the night before the wedding, because the underwear bought by the groom is too small. It was very late, all the stores were closed, and there was no place to buy underwear. When the groom went to welcome the bride the next day, he was rejected by the bride’s parents. As a result, this wedding cannot be held regularly.

The bride from the woman’s family also stood up and responded that the wedding could not be held, not because there was no new underwear, but because of the man’s approach and attitude. The man directly said that he didn’t want to buy it and just wore the old ones. The man may have some communication problems, but this matter is a trivial matter compared to marriage, and there is no need to make it such a big deal.

How do the woman’s parents, including the woman herself, consider such a small matter as underwear? Even if their parents do not agree, it is not easy for the woman’s parents to stop a woman from marrying a man. Is it because she is guilty? Is there any other way for them to say that before the wedding is held, is this the result the woman wants? It is also very good for this young man to take advantage of this moment to see this family clearly.

The groom’s family is also very adaptable. He changed the wedding into a New Year’s party for relatives and friends. This wedding cannot continue, but these relatives came to the scene because of the groom, and many relatives have not seen each other for a very long time. This can only mean that the relationship between the two of them has not reached his level. If he truly loved each other, he would not care so much and would coordinate, communicate and be considerate with each other. Marriage is actually just firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, and nothing more than trivial matters. Only when two people work together can they live a better life.