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Friends are like umbrellas and guiding lights in the rain, sheltering us from the wind and rain, and helping us point out the way forward when we are confused and don't know how to move forward. Such a friend is a true friend; Sometimes we haven't contacted for a long time, but when we meet, we are as familiar and cordial as we just met yesterday; Sometimes we know what the other person wants to express with one look and one action. Friends are not only tacit understanding, but also real understanding.

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Life is so long, you will always meet some so-called "friends". When we met her, we felt that we had known each other for a long time. We think this person is very congenial to ourselves, so we told her a lot about ourselves, our experiences, our love affairs and our worries. We always think that this friend can always be our good friend, so we treat her sincerely. When she is bored, when she is sick, when she is lonely, you are by her side. But you got sick when you were bored, and she said she couldn't come sometimes. You smiled on the other end of the phone and said nothing!

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There is such a true story, the protagonist Xiaohua is a girl who is not very good at dealing with interpersonal relationships. She made two friends who she thought were good friends, Xiao Lv and Xiaozi. Kobanawa is a classmate, but Kobanawa Lu Xiao is only an alumnus, but Kobanawa Lu Xiao is better. Although Kobanawa Lu Xiao and Xiaozi are good friends, Xiaozi and Lu Xiao are not familiar with each other. Because they are classmates, Xiaohua often gets up with Xiaozi to have breakfast and go to class together, but occasionally Xiaohua will meet Xiao Lv for dinner after class. Maybe for some girls, the best friend can only be themselves.

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Xiao Zi took Xiao Hua to play at home during the holiday, but one day Xiao Zi found Xiao Lv and told Xiao Lv not to play with Xiao Hua in the future, so Xiao Lv and Xiao Hua said not to play together in the future, because Xiao Zi said Xiao Hua was her friend. Xiaohua is in a dilemma because Xiaohua is not good at dealing with this relationship. In this case, Xiaohua could only persuade on both sides, and both of them left her. For Xiaohua, one can make many friends, but for Xiaozi, one's friends can only belong to oneself.

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When we make friends, it is easy to treat people who are kind to us as friends, but when you meet a possessive friend, you will be quite troubled. When you don't want this friend, you will feel sorry for this friend After all, she is so kind to you, but think about it. She just wants you to be her friend, and you are troubled at the moment. So when making friends, don't be sincere too early, and don't let others think you are.

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I don't know if you have ever met such a person. In college, Ahua is a particularly popular girl. She is not only beautiful, but also has good grades. There are many female friends around her, but not many people really talk to each other, because Ahua is not only isolated by her roommate, but also treated by her good friend Hong.

Ahua became good friends with the girls in the dormitory as soon as she arrived at the university, but they were good friends of three people. Because she is very popular, the boys in the class are also very kind to Ahua, especially the former high school classmates, who often give some gifts on Ahua's birthday. In the first two years, Ahua's college life was really nourishing, not only the dormitory relationship was good, but also a group of good buddies.

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There are only two people in Ahua Dormitory who spend their birthdays with their roommates. One of them is Ahua, but I don't know when the roommates began to ignore Ahua. At the same time, when we chat together, we never ask anything about Ahua. Hoa's two good friends didn't take the initiative to talk to Hoa in the dormitory, and Hoa was puzzled.

But what makes Ahua curious is that when other people in the dormitory are away, Ahua's other two friends are very kind to Ahua and will give them delicious food, so Ahua asks them why, but they say that other roommates laugh at their kindness to Ahua, which is not worth it at all. At the same time, another good friend of Ahua said that one of the three friends was finally redundant.

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In this way, Jen couldn't stand the isolation of her roommate, so she went to the counselor and asked to change the dormitory. After Jane told the story, the counselor said that some people just love to hit people. She says this in front of you, and sometimes it's another way of saying it in front of your other roommates. You're not human on either side. Moreover, the counselor also talked about Ahua's scholarship. Not everyone can watch you get a scholarship without being jealous.

In this way, Ahua and her roommates are getting more and more distant, but Ahua has more and more good friends from other departments. Maybe being isolated during college is a scar in Ahua's heart, but isn't life just growing up in all kinds of hardships?

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When we are isolated by friends or roommates, we must not bear it ourselves, find a suitable person to tell us, and try to leave the dormitory that makes you sad, try to make ourselves better, and attend more parties of other friends or clubs in school to make ourselves full and happy.